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How to get over the person you love, and how to find some one new?
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Posted 1/20/13
Im going through same situation with my baby mom... I only text her or call when she needs something for my son or needs a favor. other than that I really dont bother her at all. I know its hard but just move on and dont look for another girl. Just give time some time. Also start a
relationship with god hope this help.
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Put all your energy into something else. Get involved with so many other things out there, & hey, you might even meet someone else in the process.
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get over that bitch, and start anew. think about where your relationship went wrong. look over ALL of your past relationships, and try to see where your partner AND you yourself had gone wrong. try to change for the better, for you, your child, and your future girlfriend or would-be wife. perfect relationships dont exist and you guys will fight and all but you'll keep coming back to each other because of love (awww)

look for the girl who touches your heart (butterflies appear for something nonsexual ). dont judge a girl using your genitals (dont just date her for her looks).
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The trouble I have is how to fully get over the girl I love, and find a new girl. Its hard I love the one I hate who hurts me every chance she gets. I keep remembering when she was kind and affectionate. She is a bold girl and for awail everything was wonderful. We had a kid, but every time her ex came back she treated me like crap plus now ended up with him.. Well thats over now I need someone new, someone I could fall for in time. Am not too picky but I got to think there at least cute. I don't want to waste it all one one night stands nor wait over a year. Where can a guy meet a good girl who will cuddle, hug, kiss and hold hands, where she don't give it up to fast nor too slow. Where can a normal guy meet a good girl not just like his ex or his first love but someone who will date at least a year or want to marry a year or more down the road. Am not to shallow even if every girl I dated was a 7 to 10 in looks. Now 27 out of school its hard and i passed on like 6 to 8 girls these last years who like my ex wanted me for just sex. or wanted money Guys and girls please answer and help. Where to find a girl a 6 and above who is not money hungry. For I dont have allot of money.


Very similar happened to me Dark, and I literally broke my back for my girl (figure of speech), I was together with mine for a year and a half when she broke up with me, the worst part was she cheated on me and it was hidden for a few months until I finally talked with the other person, later I had to go to a medical facility for pneumonia and she didn't check up on me at all, during this period she was spending 8+ hours a day with her friends while, her response to that was she forgot, WHO FORGETS THEIR BOYFRIEND IS IN A HOSPITAL?! there is a lot more that happened however, I won't go into all of it.

I broke down and cried a few times but I finally moved on
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I feel you sad to here that, lol she wanted me to brake my back to get money yeah my ex cheated on me with her ex when she was 6 months pregnant with my baby on new years we were living together and she went to her parents to cheat and I had to find out form her dad, she turned it around on me like it was my falt and dumped me even so we got back together then she moved 2 hours away with my daughter after being toger another 8 months she cheated again ha guy called me from her cell phone. I dumped her she took my check book and over drew itspend 100's of dollars on his birth day. then when shit got sour agian trying to keep my daughter away from me its been 5 months since I scene my daughter she call and wanted se I didnt go there then of course same guy comes back. why do good guys go for bad girls
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I feel you sad to here that, lol she wanted me to brake my back to get money yeah my ex cheated on me with her ex when she was 6 months pregnant with my baby on new years we were living together and she went to her parents to cheat and I had to find out form her dad, she turned it around on me like it was my falt and dumped me even so we got back together then she moved 2 hours away with my daughter after being toger another 8 months she cheated again ha guy called me from her cell phone. I dumped her she took my check book and over drew itspend 100's of dollars on his birth day. then when shit got sour agian trying to keep my daughter away from me its been 5 months since I scene my daughter she call and wanted se I didnt go there then of course same guy comes back. why do good guys go for bad girls


I was told by someone with whose field is psychology that in my case it was because my former girlfriend was extremely verbally abusive, similar to how my dad was. According to them in most cases people who get abused either turn out to be abusers or they fall in love with a person that's one. She is much worse about it than my dad ever was after I showed our message logs that I kept hidden from my mother she admitted that and I've never once in my life ever heard her admit someone was worse than my dad, although, my dad never used F*** or racial slurs, those are everyday words to my former girlfriend.

I had also just sent her PC components that valued 650$, even more so they made it to her on my birthday, I never once got a happy birthday, and 6 days later she left me, I had just been to a medical facility for pneumonia. The sad thing is a very similar case happened to her, and it bothered her bad enough to attempt suicide, yet she was able to do it that easily to me knowing what it feels like and she wonders why I got angry at her. I seriously want her to think back to what she had to experience and think of the hell she put me through.
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Zenairis_Serean wrote:


darkangel09rose wrote:





I feel you sad to here that, lol she wanted me to brake my back to get money yeah my ex cheated on me with her ex when she was 6 months pregnant with my baby on new years we were living together and she went to her parents to cheat and I had to find out form her dad, she turned it around on me like it was my falt and dumped me even so we got back together then she moved 2 hours away with my daughter after being toger another 8 months she cheated again ha guy called me from her cell phone. I dumped her she took my check book and over drew itspend 100's of dollars on his birth day. then when shit got sour agian trying to keep my daughter away from me its been 5 months since I scene my daughter she call and wanted se I didnt go there then of course same guy comes back. why do good guys go for bad girls


I was told by someone with whose field is psychology that in my case it was because my former girlfriend was extremely verbally abusive, similar to how my dad was. According to them in most cases people who get abused either turn out to be abusers or they fall in love with a person that's one. She is much worse about it than my dad ever was after I showed our message logs that I kept hidden from my mother she admitted that and I've never once in my life ever heard her admit someone was worse than my dad, although, my dad never used F*** or racial slurs, those are everyday words to my former girlfriend.

I had also just sent her PC components that valued 650$, even more so they made it to her on my birthday, I never once got a happy birthday, and 6 days later she left me, I had just been to a medical facility for pneumonia. The sad thing is this very case happened to her, and it bothered her bad enough to attempt suicide, yet she was able to do it that easily to me knowing what it feels like and she wonders why I got angry at her, I seriously want her to think back to what she had to experience and think of the hell she put me through.
I guess thats why i did she was verbal abusive don't worry in time they will get theres
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Posted 3/19/13
Ouch! Well everything will work itself out and eventually you will find the right person so just hang in there!
Posted 3/19/13
How long do you intend to play the victim card.
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Have you tried RUNNINGGGG AWAYYY?!?!

(It requires high SPD stats or it doesn't work.)
Posted 3/20/13
By not acting like a little bitch...
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Posted 3/20/13
I did it quickly and easily. And then I just so happened to find someone new almost immediately after.
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Posted 3/20/13
Well, if you try too hard and quickly, you're just going to leave yourself with another problematic relationship. Why do you think all these insecure teenagers these days keep finding fail relationships? They keep trying to rebound off of anyone they see since they want to get over a person quickly, and they just end up being like a slut.

Take time to just think and get over the person you love with a mature mindset. The most important part is also keeping that same mindset when you've successfully gotten over him/her and you're looking afresh for new people. When you sit back, relax, and just take more time to think about things, a lot of stuff will become clearer.

This is a used-to-fail-in-every-relationship kid typing to you right here. I was the dumb kid back then who also rebounded, I dated like 15 girls in a month. It's not impressive, like some guys tend to think. It was just stupid as hell. I wish I could've gone back and beat some sense into that tinier version of myself. You'll get lost faster than you think.
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Posted 3/20/13
Time is your worst enemy and your best friend. Just think of it this way. You will meet that person sooner or later. While you are waiting, get a job, make money, work out, make yourself ready for that moment you meet her. She will appreciate it more than a person who is just constantly looking for their mate while not bringing anything to the table for her to desire over.
Posted 3/20/13
It is easy to get over someone who lives 250 miles away. Just don't talk to him. Don't try to look for him. Or her in your case. Isolate yourself from the "problem". As in finding a new girl/guy, it takes time. Just be patient and enjoy life as much as you can.
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