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Are all teenage girls this masochistic?
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Aimyay wrote:
Oh great Crunchyroll forum, thy ultimate purveyor of advice regarding human relations, tell me, are all teenage girls (whether they're conscious of it or not) masochistic?

Yes they are. They are also shallow and hedonistic and predatory. Girls that age can put a lot of effort into building guy harems, whether or not they actually intend to sleep with any of them. You probably got pretty cute in the past year, and they figure that since you liked them before you'll be easy to pocket. They will work even harder for your attention if you have your own car, and if they see other girls touching you or flirting with you, and if you occasionally act a little annoyed with them (don't overdo it though).

Go ahead and enjoy yourself, but don't get too hurt when you find that you're not the only guy they have their hands on. Teenage girls are like that.
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Might I recommend my favorite strategy...RUN AWAYYY!!!!

Of course the result will be loneliness, but it's not that bad.
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I'm having trouble understanding the original story.

A few girls chose not to take you up an an 'opening date' (coffee or whatever)

The one who does, in some way makes it clear she's not romantically interested ('friendzoned' whatever that means)

You 'cut them off' and 'treat them like trash' to the point you get texts and odd looks (your words)

Now because they are 'pestering you' you think ALL girls are masochists.

And you're clearly holding a grudge over being turned down for 'coffee' because you want to 'give them a taste of their own bitter medicine'

I'm sorry this story makes no sense as presented. Can you provide a few more details?
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Posted 1/20/13 , edited 1/20/13

papagolfwhiskey wrote:

I'm having trouble understanding the original story.

A few girls chose not to take you up an an 'opening date' (coffee or whatever)

The one who does, in some way makes it clear she's not romantically interested ('friendzoned' whatever that means)

You 'cut them off' and 'treat them like trash' to the point you get texts and odd looks (your words)

Now because they are 'pestering you' you think ALL girls are masochists.

And you're clearly holding a grudge over being turned down for 'coffee' because you want to 'give them a taste of their own bitter medicine'

I'm sorry this story makes no sense as presented. Can you provide a few more details?


I think he's saying he's a homosexual and that the woman have only started pestering him like this because he recently announced his sexual standing.
Posted 1/20/13
There could be various reasons. One could be the girls realized how well you treated them (before,) and now want your attention back.
It could be they like your new attitude. I'm not sure why, but what girls perceive as attractive bad guys are the ones that tend to act mysterious or push others away....of course, this isn't always the case. Not all girls act like that. And it doesn't always work for the "mysterious" boy.
It could also be age. Maybe you grew an inch taller during the summer....I remember one kid i knew looked like a dork for two years, then out of nowhere he suddenly grew to be a handsome looking kid.
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I admire your objectivity.

About the father figure idea, that could be it. Though I don't think it's very realistic for me to believe they all share the same history.

As far as I know, their families are nuclear.
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After you ask a girl out they will start to see you in a different way from before, whether they accepted or not is irrelevant. You have registered your interest on their 'radar' so to speak and they will be more inclined to see you as a partner than a friend.

Your friend zone girl might have also helped you out, if girls see you friendly and chatty with other girls you become more approachable and friendly, therefore more attractive as a result.

A little bit of advice, you're in a position of power here so why be a dick about it? Don't give anyone 'a taste of their own medicine,' healthy relationships with women are very important for a growing man, so act like one. Don't be bitter about being rejected a few times, as Jiraiya always said "Rejection builds character."

The truth is not that most girls 'like bad guys' but that girls are human beings too and don't know what they like, that goes especially for when they're teenagers.

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Dude, you're only 17, and you want to have "intimate relations" with 15 or 16 year old girls? Wait a year and go for some cougars. They have experience, and you'll gain some. Just sayin'.
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No, not all teenage girls are this masochistic, nor are they all attention whores.

Sure, some girls are. Some girls are players, some are boy-crazy, some are lesbians, some a transgender, some are bisexual, some are asexual, some a users, some are genuinely nice, some are manga-otaku, some are gamers, some are bitches, some are nerds, some are geeks, some live on the internet - girls are all different, and some are wonderful while some are not.

Source: Myself, a teenage girl.
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Well, it's... not exactly unusual for a teenage girl to change her mind about whether or not she's interested in what a guy thinks of her.
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The method is be friendly and just when things get good in the conversation, you break off and go talk to someone else. This is how to manufacture the 'mysterious' quality that girls go for and pins you a 'safe' guy who won't get psycho obsessive with them IF things go further. Essentially, just let them make you look good. But don't be spiteful, if you get strong signals from a girl that turned you down once what the hell.
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thepeaguy wrote:

You learned the secret to getting chicks into you. Don't worship them and don't spend a dime on them. Honestly, most of them respect you for being a dick.

Just bang 'em and leave 'em bro. 17 is all about having fun. Indulge.

Chivalry is dead, and feminism killed it.


Eh...
I'm gonna stick with my nice-guy personality. I don't like being mean. If I find someone that likes me as I am, then, good. Until then, I'll stick with my 2D girls.
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k4therine wrote:

Dude, you're only 17, and you want to have "intimate relations" with 15 or 16 year old girls? Wait a year and go for some cougars. They have experience, and you'll gain some. Just sayin'.


Only in anime, tv, and porn are "cougars" attractive.
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Ichiyamamoto wrote:


k4therine wrote:

Dude, you're only 17, and you want to have "intimate relations" with 15 or 16 year old girls? Wait a year and go for some cougars. They have experience, and you'll gain some. Just sayin'.


Only in anime, tv, and porn are "cougars" attractive.


Pssssh. Maybe only the gay cougars are then. Sorry bro.
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k4therine wrote:

Dude, you're only 17, and you want to have "intimate relations" with 15 or 16 year old girls? Wait a year and go for some cougars. They have experience, and you'll gain some. Just sayin'.


Other than the sexual aspects of a cougar, I can't imagine anything else good coming from them with an age and maturity gap of over ten years at least.

Not to say getting your dick wet isn't worth a trip to the pub.
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