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Why do good guys go for mean girls?
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I did why do women go for bad men who treat them bad, got grate answers even if some trolls made trying to gain insight hard. So what about the flip side? Why bad, mean b word girls get the nice guy or the best guys. They say nice guys finish last, what about the nice girls, Is it the same. Okay am not saying bad girls as in bad boys. Am talking mean am talking treat them bad or cheat. Normal bad girls can be seen as sexy and wild, How is the shy nice girl seen in the eyes of men or woman? Girls do you think the best guys are taken by woman who don't deserve them. Good guys well ones who think there good guys. by good I mean caring, treat woman good it could be nice guy and or bad boy as long as there good to woman. Do you end up with a mean girl who uses you or treats you bad, if yes why? Why do guy put up with these woman and forgive them if they cheat or go into denial. How come nice girls and nice guys don't always end up together? I want to here everyone's view. Put what class are you good guy, good girl, bad girl, bad guy, bad boy bad girl, shy guy or girl or a mix then your opinion.
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Femdom is hot? Possibly? I don't know.
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lorddisick wrote:

If that's true then.
Do I needa be a mean girl now?
I want the good boys.


Nope please stay the way you are, cute and sweet girls are hot to but some times nice girls go for mean guys or end up with a mean guy. You really cute so I know you can get any guy you wanted, at least I think so
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If I had to guess... I'd say most nice girls/guys are shy whereas mean, conceited girls/guys are assertive. They probably like control and can pick out the meek.

EDIT: They're usually GREAT lays too.
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Because the good girls go for jerks... Duh!
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TL;DR

It really depends on the individual. Like. Always.
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Posted 1/21/13
... because we make them?
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I think it's just easier for nice guys to get used for whatever reasons because they have more giving and caring personalities but it doesn't always happen. Personally I'd rather be made a fool out of a couple of times than be a jerk guy that treats women badly.
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quaser666 wrote:

I think it's just easier for nice guys to get used for whatever reasons because they have more giving and caring personalities but it doesn't always happen. Personally I'd rather be made a fool out of a couple of times than be a jerk guy that treats women badly.


I so agree with makes you wise and a guy with honor Why be the ass when you can be the romantic guy who gets the best girl in the end run. I would rather treat a woman grate and get hurt then treat a woman bad and them get hurt
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lorddisick wrote:

If that's true then.
Do I needa be a mean girl now?
I want the good boys.


More terrible men and women out there don't make things easier for those of us who still do our best.
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Mean girls are the most unattractive thing in the world to me. The first time I hear her talking about people all the time or her ordering me around, she's instantly unattractive (don't care how hot she is). I know in most relationships their are times when one can be mean to the other, but theirs a difference between being bad sometimes and all the time.

I can't say i dated a mean girl yet, though I have dated a very judgmental girl before.
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Bleach313 wrote:

Mean girls are the most unattractive thing in the world to me. The first time I hear her talking about people all the time or her ordering me around, she's instantly unattractive (don't care how hot she is). I know in most relationships their are times when one can be mean to the other, but theirs a difference between being bad sometimes and all the time.

I can't say i dated a mean girl yet, though I have dated a very judgmental girl before.


So I'm guessing tsunderes aren't your thing?
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I've dated several girls before. I'm a fairly shallow person but I also like to think about more of what's inside the box than the outward appearance once I get into a relationship. If they turn out to be a real bee, then I dump them.
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I'd just be meaner if I was a guy, towards the girl.

It's not like I'm that easily submissive, but get on my bad side and good god would you not see the light of day.
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Overall have to state that a lot of people male and female alike are growing up too spoiled in general. You can factor life changing experiences as well as hanging out with bad apples who corrupt the good. But I have found the american girls I have met or even dated have been this way. They think it's cool to be rude, sponge gifts or abusive verbally/physically and even cheat on guys who care about them. Thing is there is a reason people stay with others like this and usually had something to do with parenting on your end or fact you haven't grown up enough to see and avoid relationships that have sketchy written all over them.

I changed my search years ago from fun/overall looks to someone who has a good head on their shoulders and can support themselves financially if it comes down to it. Emotionally if I care for this person i will do my best to help them, but am weary these days of those who cry wolf . And since I made that change I have not wasted my time with rotten apples.

Normal good hearted people don't seek others just for sexual satisfaction or waste time with, normal good hearted people look for someone to be honest with and spend their lives together. Until you change to better yourself, you will always let the bad ones in.
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