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Why do good guys go for mean girls?
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There will always be times when one or the other are mean to one another in a relationship everyone has bad days, many things can influence that. In some cases I know some people who broke up numerous times before getting married, those two have been married for 15 years now.

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k4therine wrote:

... because we make them?


Well I can't speak for all the spineless guys out there, but there's no way any girl can make me do anything. = )
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Well, this is just coming from a person who kinda likes femdom.

But, personally:

I have kinda grown tired of the whole "guys got to be like this, and girls got to be like this" stick. I mean, even today I see females not going for certain jobs because the others are 'guys job' and stuff. That is annoying to me, real freaking annoying. The best example of this is represented in my school. Most/ all the women in the entire college are going for jobs like 'nurse' and 'interior designer' and such. But, my classes, for game design fyi. Are filled with guys, period. But, when I ask around the place, yeah, I am pretty social offline. I get the same answer, from both genders "it's a guys job' and the teachers say this too, no joke. I am just tired of the same old 50's stuff, which is still around today, in some form or another. The thing about this topic is the fact of the good guys perspective. I have just grown tired of the same old, same old stick. If you can't handle yourself, and if I got to do everything for you, or you got to do everything for me. Then this relationship isn't going to work out, offline. Yes, in any relationship one is going to better than another in some form or another, tis fact. But, when I start hearing stuff like "it's a guys job'' or something. Then it is just being stupid, period. The thing about most of those 'mean girls' you call them. Most of them do not say things like 'that's a guys job' or exct. Those kind of women, well...from my previous relationships. Those kinds of women act like themselves and do not care what's your gender, period. Whether they be guy, girl, or it. They will act the same way towards you. Some of those women might be 'mean' on the outside, for show. While others are mean, period.

But, in short

Good Guys just do not want to hear 'that is a guys job" or stuff. Good guys tend to think of females as a equal in most qualities. But, they do have their fair share of fetishes or tastes for there type of intercourse partner. But, most good guys just want to think of both there partner, and themselves as equal. But, not hearing stuff like 'guys job' or exct. Either way...I can type about this longer, and give you more reasons about why most good guys go for mean girls. But, I would just stick with having one of the many reasons posted here. Since this is the one thing most annoying me right now xD
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darkangel09rose wrote:


quaser666 wrote:

I think it's just easier for nice guys to get used for whatever reasons because they have more giving and caring personalities but it doesn't always happen. Personally I'd rather be made a fool out of a couple of times than be a jerk guy that treats women badly.


I so agree with makes you wise and a guy with honor Why be the ass when you can be the romantic guy who gets the best girl in the end run. I would rather treat a woman grate and get hurt then treat a woman bad and them get hurt


Glad I'm not the only one like that, there are a lot of fake nice guys out there that only act nice to get girls into bed. I hope you find a nice girl to treat right.
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Mean girls are the most unattractive thing in the world to me.


I really have to agree, mean girls are an insane turn off.
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Don't like mean girls but I like girls that are hard to get. The chase is fun lol
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In the end of the day I think it's dependent on the couples. Personally I'm still experimenting between sex's but people no matter the gender can still be ridiculously cruel to each other just for the sake of attention and a false sense of control over one another.
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Posted 1/21/13

quaser666 wrote:


darkangel09rose wrote:


quaser666 wrote:

I think it's just easier for nice guys to get used for whatever reasons because they have more giving and caring personalities but it doesn't always happen. Personally I'd rather be made a fool out of a couple of times than be a jerk guy that treats women badly.


I so agree with makes you wise and a guy with honor Why be the ass when you can be the romantic guy who gets the best girl in the end run. I would rather treat a woman grate and get hurt then treat a woman bad and them get hurt


Glad I'm not the only one like that, there are a lot of fake nice guys out there that only act nice to get girls into bed. I hope you find a nice girl to treat right.


I wish you the same if you don't already have a nice girl. Yeah the fakes give the real ones a bad name lol plus they should know by now faking being a nice guy dosnt always end up in bed and or you its hard to tell these days not much honor romance and chivary left
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saksiss wrote:


k4therine wrote:

... because we make them?


Well I can't speak for all the spineless guys out there, but there's no way any girl can make me do anything. = )


Keep your pants on bro, that wasn't a serious response.
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itsmemaaaark wrote:

Don't like mean girls but I like girls that are hard to get. The chase is fun lol


by your looks it dosnt look like the chase will last long lmao I get you though am a leo I love the thrill of a chase, Are you a leo?
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k4therine wrote:


saksiss wrote:


k4therine wrote:

... because we make them?


Well I can't speak for all the spineless guys out there, but there's no way any girl can make me do anything. = )


Keep your pants on bro, that wasn't a serious response.


Well no duh.
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AsuraCryin1980 wrote:

Overall have to state that a lot of people male and female alike are growing up too spoiled in general. You can factor life changing experiences as well as hanging out with bad apples who corrupt the good. But I have found the american girls I have met or even dated have been this way. They think it's cool to be rude, sponge gifts or abusive verbally/physically and even cheat on guys who care about them. Thing is there is a reason people stay with others like this and usually had something to do with parenting on your end or fact you haven't grown up enough to see and avoid relationships that have sketchy written all over them.

I changed my search years ago from fun/overall looks to someone who has a good head on their shoulders and can support themselves financially if it comes down to it. Emotionally if I care for this person i will do my best to help them, but am weary these days of those who cry wolf . And since I made that change I have not wasted my time with rotten apples.

Normal good hearted people don't seek others just for sexual satisfaction or waste time with, normal good hearted people look for someone to be honest with and spend their lives together. Until you change to better yourself, you will always let the bad ones in.


Thats a wise statement, many should follow.
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Whaaat?

No I don't.
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Why do people date anyone ever?
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Good is reliable but so...boring.

Bad is hot but so...dysfunctional.
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