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Why do good guys go for mean girls?
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Yeah it does seem romance and chilvary are dying out but then it doesn't seem most women want that nowadays.


Some of us still do, but a lot of us just don't expect it much anymore. Though we're usually hoping for a pleasant surprise. Then again I've had some guys take it a step too far and try to do too much, and it's like, Relax, dude.. I can do this. Let me do some things for myself once in a while.
LOL.
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Why do all the good guys go for mean girls? Because all the good girls are taken by the mean guys.

When stuck in a loop, might as well hula hoop.

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because bad girls are more fun and talkative while good girls are boring and only show there fun side until you put a lot of time and effort into them especially shy girls
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Shisako wrote:


Some of us still do, but a lot of us just don't expect it much anymore. Though we're usually hoping for a pleasant surprise. Then again I've had some guys take it a step too far and try to do too much, and it's like, Relax, dude.. I can do this. Let me do some things for myself once in a while.
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Haha I can see how it'd be a pain if a guy was trying to do too much and being overbearing.
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tehstud is 100% correct. At least in my case! Assertive girls usually ask me out. I think I need to man up and start asking some nice girls to go out
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I dated a mean girl, ugh i regret everyday I did.
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LegendX7 wrote:

because bad girls are more fun and talkative while good girls are boring and only show there fun side until you put a lot of time and effort into them especially shy girls


Nice guys don't mind putting in time and effort.
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Personally, if a girl can take whatever I dish out and then serve back on a silver witty platter, I find that really hawt.

No kidding.
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BearSol wrote:

Why do all the good guys go for mean girls? Because all the good girls are taken by the mean guys.

When stuck in a loop, might as well hula hoop.


lol nice way tp out it, vary true makes since.
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quaser666 wrote:


Shisako wrote:


Some of us still do, but a lot of us just don't expect it much anymore. Though we're usually hoping for a pleasant surprise. Then again I've had some guys take it a step too far and try to do too much, and it's like, Relax, dude.. I can do this. Let me do some things for myself once in a while.
LOL.


Haha I can see how it'd be a pain if a guy was trying to do too much and being overbearing.

AH your new slave J/K yeah to much is not good I balance it out.
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I'm not sure 'good' guys do go for mean girls... Most of those kind of guys I've known in the past have gone for mean girls because they didn't want to be the one's driving the relationship, and were desperate enough to be in one that they put up with a lot of shit. Heck, I used to be like that years ago.

Nowadays in terms of looking for someone, base it on the confidence they have in their identity rather than percieved looks or bravado. Bravado is especially something to be wary of, as that can be easily mistaken for confidence and be hiding an emotionally weak and clingy person on the inside.

Either way, finding the ideal synergistic relationship of fable and folklore is nothing if not a long and frustrating adventure, but I'd say it's well worth it in the end.
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The mean girls tend to be the prettier and more popular girls. Sad, but true.
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I'm a nice guy. Like, I have put out for my latest girlfriend. Generous out of my ass. I think that it's a personality thing that determines the relationship and the choices of both sides. Nice, YOUNG girls might fall for mean boys and men because of their naivete(and the fact of the matter is, girls can be REALLLLY stupid when it comes to men, depending on history; mine was a mess before she met me). The older you get the wiser you get. Gender-wise, I think that should be the same. I think if you're into S&M that could also have a mutual or one-sided effect as well.

Personally I think of bitch girls as more eye candy if I'm single. I will never date a girl who treats me lower than a pile of fresh shit. I'm a big fan of the golden rule, and if I'm going out of my way to love you and respect you, I expect the same treatment, otherwise your fine ass is going to be dumped.

Personality over beauty. Although my current girl is pretty well-balanced on both sides of that equation.

Although in the past I was stepped on a lot, as in cheated on, and my trustworthiness was taken advantage of, so for a while I took on a douche image just to vent. Not a lot of girls wanted to go out with me at that time.

On a side note, never attempt a threesome relationship if you don't plan to tell both parties. Not a wise idea, and it might even get you killed. Little advice for any 'playas' out there. I know firsthand the damage of getting caught.
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Cause we like mean girls!! lol honestly sometimes people change in relationship and after a while you really don't see the change in the other person being rude unless you actually have your friends tell you. My last relationship was like this and friends told me and then my family told me then i was like (DANG they are right). Worst part she didn't like anime or comics!!! So guess what i chose?
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