To all woman, School us men.
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For all woman to answer some questions about men.First a statement then a question. Don't worry men I will do one for us, I ask all woman but your free to pass on your opinion guys. First the statement is all woman are beautiful in there own way, tall or short, wide or thin. With out woman men would just hit each other with rocks and sticks, cause of woman we hit each other with rocks and sticks. without women life would be dull and of course without women there would be no life lol. Now the questions. Time to school men be 100% honest. How do you like your men? Where do you meet your men? If you could give all men advise about women what would it be. Lets say a dating profile what would his profile have to have in it to interest you? What would turn you away from his profile. How important is Looks, what if he was every thing you wanted but was chubby or poor. Turn ons and turn offs keep pg13. What is the do's and and donts in these's areas. Approaching you for the first time trying to get a date. Do's and do nots on a first date. What should a guy do to keep you happy. What are your attracted to when you first meet a guy. What is a deal braker? If lets say a guy is poor but handsome and a grate guy, would you talk or date him if he is poor. If you can pick 5 things a guy has to do to get your attention what would they be. What 5 things would a guy have to have or do to date you? What 5 things would make you not like a guy. Dos the size of every thing matter his car, or his wallet the size of his gut, size of his hight hints dos the size of every thing matter. Is bigger and more the best or better. Dos skin color matter or race. Whats the biggest advise would you give men. Can all women answer some or all school us guys.

men if you know or think you knoe answer, I also want to here from gay guys also.
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First off, all men are amazing in their own way and there are a lot of great guys out there. And believe me women, they are out there and often are overlooked!

"How do you like your men?'- I personally like my man with a great sense of equality and understanding that not every thing/person in life think the same or are the same.

'Where do you meet your men?'- I met my hubby at my old job. I once tried dating a man I met at a bar, not a good idea lol

'If you could give all men advise about women what would it be?'- Sex is not how it is portrayed in porn/mass media. Sex can sometimes be messy, and extremely awesome, but not every woman you may meet wants to fuck you like an animal. (Although sex like that does happen and it's worth the wait) Also women come in all shapes, sizes, and races. Please don't hate one a woman because she is 'too big' or 'too small' or is a 'butter face'. These sort of comments are extremely damaging and if you don't want to these terms to be thrown at you, do not sling them at others.

' Lets say a dating profile what would his profile have to have in it to interest you?'- personally I love an educated man. He must have some sort of insight into gaming (because I am an avid gamer) and no matter what he looks like or what he does for a living, he must respect the differences of others.

'What would turn you away from his profile?'- Bad spelling.... I know I am not the greatest speller but if the guy spells 'you' 'u' that is a major turn off. Also men who openly hate.

' How important is Looks, what if he was every thing you wanted but was chubby or poor?'- When I first met my hubby he was a PFC in the army and that rank barely makes it when living off-post. He also didn't have a car. We used my car for upwards of a year before we traded in mine for another. Money shouldn't be very important if he isn't borrowing all the time and never paying back or taking advantage of you. Looks (no matter what anyone says) are important. If there is no physical attraction then there is no relationship. Being chubby (for me) is fine but being overly obese is (as harsh as it is) a deal breaker.

'Turn ons and turn offs keep pg13.'- All my turn-ons are not pg-13

'What is the do's and and donts in these's areas. Approaching you for the first time trying to get a date?'- Confidence is key! Even an awkward confidence is cute as fuck! I personally love awkward. Please don't overly touch the girl or stare at her boobs too much. A quick glance is alright but to linger, no. Oh and just so the men know, women check out your package, a lot Smile! Attempt to make a joke or something. The worst that can happen is she turns you down and if she does then move on.

'Do's and do nots on a first date.'- Do not assume she will sleep with you. Do not make too much perverted jokes unless (too much in an awkward situation/ new situation can be off-putting ) Please Please PLEASE do not try to act superior if you make more money or have a better job then most people. You come off as snobbish and a douche. DO NOT talk about past relationships (this goes for women as well). Offer to pay the ticket (women as well). (This is just a personal preference) but I love it when my hubby smiles softly at me from across the table and holds my hand. This will make her heart melt.

'What should a guy do to keep you happy?'- Be faithful (obviously) don't hold grudges, and some advice a woman gave me who had been happily married for a decade and going strong, 'you need to laugh at the little things or they will eat you alive.'

'What are your attracted to when you first meet a guy?'- His smile and posture. Also when he first speaks, the way he talks.

'What is a deal braker?'- If I have been dating this guy then cheating, if I just met the guy, being rude to a stranger for no reason.

' If lets say a guy is poor but handsome and a grate guy, would you talk or date him if he is poor?'- How poor are we talking about?

' If you can pick 5 things a guy has to do to get your attention what would they be?'- 1) Smile 2) Posture 3) Linguistic skills 4) The way he treats other people 5) gaming

'What 5 things would a guy have to have or do to date you?'- ^^^^^ The above

'What 5 things would make you not like a guy?'- 1) How much he strokes his own ego 2) grudge holder 3) how rude he is 4) if he discriminates 5) if he's a bad drunk

'Dos the size of every thing matter his car, or his wallet the size of his gut, size of his hight hints dos the size of every thing matter.?'- His car and wallet shouldn't matter but to some it does. I personally wouldn't date a man with a generous proportion of beer gut. Sorry men, but the size of your penis does matter to most women. BUT there are ladies out there that do not think this way. Unfortunately they are few and far between.

' Is bigger and more the best or better?'- Depends on what is bigger and more....

'Dos skin color matter or race?'- It shouldn't but to some it is a very big deal.

'Whats the biggest advise would you give men?'- Take everything you just read as a grain of salt. EVERYTHING in this post is circumstantial and not every woman out there thinks the same. There are some similarities but 'love' can change a persons perception GREATLY. Believe me, I married a man 8 years my senior who had no car or money when we first started dating, and is in the military. But he is so much more than what he has and who he works for. It's all a matter of finding that person who can make you honestly smile and how great the sex is lol
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I´m only sixteen bet you´ll get a teenagers view as well so all´s good.

"How do you like your men?'- I like my man to be funny, socially active, confident, have a great smile and personality. Tattoos is very hot on some guys and it would not kill you to put on some wonderful perfume or cologne.

'Where do you meet your men?'- Since I´m in High school I would say at school, through mutual friends or perhaps at a party?

'If you could give all men advise about women what would it be?' Don´t jump to conclusions or think that we are fragile china dolls. Because trust me, we are not. Romance is always appreciated and your smile is your biggest asset.

' Lets say a dating profile what would his profile have to have in it to interest you?'- A picture of the guys while he is smiling and information about him that gives you a pretty good idea what type of guy he is.

'What would turn you away from his profile?'- Well juvenile spelling and inappropriate pictures or information.

' How important is Looks, what if he was every thing you wanted but was chubby or poor?' - Well the looks is the first thing you see, but I personally dont think that looks is the most important thing. But it helps if the guy is very handsome but every guy is handsome in his own way. I can´t really answer for all the women in the world on what´s hot and what´s not.

'Turn ons and turn offs keep pg13.'- A great smile, a fit body is a huge plus, tattoos (but they have to be classy not inappropriate in my opinion anyways) sensationally good smelling cologne or perfume and a charming personality and some non pg 13 things of course.

'What is the do's and and donts in these's areas. Approaching you for the first time trying to get a date?'- Smile and don´t be to eager. It can come of as desperate. Be yourself and hug her.

'Do's and do nots on a first date.'- Don´t ever fall asleep on the first date (my friends current boyfriend did that, their first date was a disaster), don´t drink to much (You would perhaps like to remember what you did on the FIRST date?), don´t talk about yourself to much because if you tell her everything you don´t leave her wanting more if you know what I mean, don´t even touch your phone (turn it off!), search for eye contact, hug her as a greeting (don´t shake hands, feels like a business meeting), smile and show your best side. And remember to brush your teeth (it´s easy to forget and if you smoke you should brush them often or have a arsenal of gum)

'What should a guy do to keep you happy?'- Laugh at my stupid jokes, tell me how beautiful I am, give me a nickname, brag (a little not a load of it) about me to your friends, take me out on dates, do unexpected things, kiss me when I least expect it, hug me and all kinds of sweet things that he could come to his mind.

'What are your attracted to when you first meet a guy?'- Like I have said, His smile, his way of speaking (mature in choice of words and his voice), his eyes, jawline and laugh.

'What is a deal braker?'- Well drugs, if he´s a heavy drinker, too goofy, not at all mature, if he is way to sexually active (or only after sex. The last guy I "dated" was only after sex apparently. Sadly we dated for several weeks and did not tell me that until a few days ago. Now he goes buy the nickname as hole by my friends and I. If you are only after sex, then you should say it the first minute you meet with the girl. Not that you should only be after that, but if that is the chase then say it as soon as possible so that you don´t lead the girl on. ) .

' If lets say a guy is poor but handsome and a grate guy, would you talk or date him if he is poor?'- Of course I would. Money is not everything.

' If you can pick 5 things a guy has to do to get your attention what would they be?'- 1. Smile at me. 2. Look at me in the special way, like: "you´re really beautiful" way. 3. A text or a message ( a call i preferably). 4. Come and talk to me (it would have larger impact if you do it in front of your friends. (Because it says that you like me and that you´re not ashamed to show it in front of the people closest to you.) 5. It would be fun if he could come up and randomly hug me or something even if I´m not really interested it could get me interested if you know what I mean.

'What 5 things would a guy have to have or do to date you?'- don´t know really.... be him self is like the main thing?

'What 5 things would make you not like a guy?' 1. Bad reputation 2. If he´s a known "Playboy" 3. If he´s only after not pg 13 things 4. Don´t respect me 5. Acts arrogant and like he´s the king of the world. All cool and such.

'Dos the size of every thing matter his car, or his wallet the size of his gut, size of his high hints dos the size of every thing matter.?' To me it doesn't but to some it does. But all that should count is how you are as a person. But it has some weight in the general opinion about the guy.

' Is bigger and more the best or better? Uhm what exactly are you referring to?

'Dos skin color matter or race?' Absolutely not, no matter the race or color of the guys skin, he´s still a human. But to some people it do count sadly.

'Whats the biggest advise would you give men?'- Threat you´re girl with respect and love. And tell her how much she means to you all the time, whenever and wherever. Us women love hearing it, no matter how many times you have said it already. It boost our confidence. Also a piece of advise is to kiss your girlfriend on the forehead and neck. We absolutely love it! And plus it gives us a hint that you want a "real kiss". And some notebook kind of romance is always appreciated. Tell us no lies and do not ever cheat or anything of the kind. I don´t really think that I had to write it but the last idiot is not yet born. But I should also mention that not every women on the planet thinks like I do, so don´t take what I have written like: that´s how it is. Because it´s not, but to me it´s like this.
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