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Posted 3/30/13
I can barely wrap my head around how young kids become sexually active, nowadays. I lost my virginity at 17, with someone I knew for 2 yrs prior, and he still ended being nothing more than a conquest whore about the whole thing, afterwards. Imad.

Second time I had sex was about 4 months later, with my new boyfriend who was a year younger than me, and a virgin, himself. If fact, he was so very nervous even during intercourse (I was on top, of course otherwise he'd just sit there petrified lol) that I had to start muttering dirty talk in his ear before he'd climax. I almost called the whole thing off at first but he insisted he wanted to "get it over with"? He was a lot more relaxed around me, after that, though. Maybe there's something to that for young guys, after all.

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karmacide wrote:



Lie.


How so?
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Posted 3/30/13

lordseth23 wrote:


karmacide wrote:



Lie.


How so?


Lie about being a virgin.
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Posted 3/31/13

karmacide wrote:



Lie about being a virgin.


But I am a virgin.
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Posted 3/31/13
Oh you nasty boys.
Posted 3/31/13
I was never really interested in guys. Not interested in girls either. I guess I never really cared much for those kinds of things. *shrug*
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Posted 3/31/13

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I think my hormones died.


Hahaha, I love this.
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Posted 3/31/13
In the past, I was never confident when it came to talking to the opposite sex. For some reason, I just couldn't talk to them, I always wondered how some guys can do it without any trouble. I wanted to know. Then I learned that it's all about self-esteem and self-confidence (and probably the way you look, too.). I started hitting the gym about a year ago, and my confidence and self-esteem was higher. Girls like confidence in a man, because if you don't show any confidence, that's just telling them that you're a big pussy.
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Posted 3/31/13
I can stop when im playing online games, my mind is so focused when it comes to them
Posted 3/31/13
There is too many of those
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Posted 4/1/13

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There is too many of those



I dunno, I think autism is a good excuse.
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Posted 4/1/13 , edited 4/1/13
Honestly, reading guides to help with girls is a pointless endeavor, some things apply in all categories sure (Hygiene, clothing and douchebaggyness) but its not the be all and end all. Girls/Women all respond differently, some prioritize some things while others will look at other things. Either way, its not rocket science, be considerate, be outgoing, be a gentleman. That's really all there is to say for most girls.

Honestly though, If i hear anyone spout that "nice-guys never get the girl" stuff from anyone I will have to call them out on that, its not about being nice at all, generally someone who is "nice" isn't sending the right signals to the girl and that's it... For the love of all that is good, tell them what you want! I'm pretty sure as human beings they suffer from insecurity about whether or not someone likes them and passing that line is all it takes. Sometimes there are situations where it can't be helped they are looking for just a friend that's fine but a no is better than nights of insecurity. Just get get to know the girl and what she wants and adjust how (forward, needy, or outgoing) you are with your feelings. Sometimes though, they just aren't interested and you have to deal with that.

Also I cant stress the point that if you have to be someone you aren't, its not worth staying with the girl, I unfortunately had this situation where I changed who I was for a girl but couldn't live with constant damper being put on my own personality.

Well either way I see it, I'm not sure I should be talking on behalf of the actual girls who could better explain for themselves, but that's my 2.5 from my own experience. If anyone has questions just message me and I'll help how I can, (No expert, but sometimes a third person perspective helps.)



With that attitude it definitely is a problem, because you seem just fine on here. Some girls respond to guys that have little quirks like that.

(I apologise in advance If I offend you, or I am being too forward.)
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Posted 4/1/13

Sokolovac wrote:

Honestly, reading guides to help with girls is a pointless endeavor, some things apply in all categories sure (Hygiene, clothing and douchebaggyness) but its not the be all and end all. Girls/Women all respond differently, some prioritize some things while others will look at other things. Either way, its not rocket science, be considerate, be outgoing, be a gentleman. That's really all there is to say for most girls.

Honestly though, If i hear anyone spout that "nice-guys never get the girl" stuff from anyone I will have to call them out on that, its not about being nice at all, generally someone who is "nice" isn't sending the right signals to the girl and that's it... For the love of all that is good, tell them what you want! I'm pretty sure as human beings they suffer from insecurity about whether or not someone likes them and passing that line is all it takes. Sometimes there are situations where it can't be helped they are looking for just a friend that's fine but a no is better than nights of insecurity. Just get get to know the girl and what she wants and adjust how (forward, needy, or outgoing) you are with your feelings. Sometimes though, they just aren't interested and you have to deal with that.

Also I cant stress the point that if you have to be someone you aren't, its not worth staying with the girl, I unfortunately had this situation where I changed who I was for a girl but couldn't live with constant damper being put on my own personality.

Well either way I see it, I'm not sure I should be talking on behalf of the actual girls who could better explain for themselves, but that's my 2.5 from my own experience. If anyone has questions just message me and I'll help how I can, (No expert, but sometimes a third person perspective helps.)



With that attitude it definitely is a problem, because you seem just fine on here. Some girls respond to guys that have little quirks like that.

(I apologise in advance If I offend you, or I am being too forward.)


Words spoken. It's just like that. Before I tried to be someone else than myself just so they could like me but that never works of course.
If I had to adjust myself to that girl so I get her attention, then she is not the right one. Being myself without any care of what people say is the right thing to do. At least more that way. You cannot make a wish-recipe of how she should be like. It just have to come natural or it would be useless and wouldn't last long at all. I fell in love with a girl for about 7 years ago. First time we met, she told me why she thought I was cool. I greeted her friends. I did not know them at all. I just greeted them all and she liked that. Thought that was cool of me. Then I got carried away and started adapt to her. Something I never should have done. She found someone else and now? I dunno where she is or if she is even alive. Yeah, I stopped being myself. Since I couldn't manage being myself with her. Only when I was alone.
I am most myself when I am alone at night palying some FPS games. Well that can turn! I wish ^^

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Posted 4/1/13
Generally there is one golden rule: Have fun!

Make sure she enjoys being with you and you enjoy being with her. :D
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Posted 4/1/13
Yeah! No kiddin! As long as we both are having fun! It's all in gerimoniooo!!! Currently Hatsune Miku and me XD Shhh!
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