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-Vega- wrote:


romanmink wrote:

Love is pointless to worry about. She'll come when she comes.


True.


lordseth23 wrote:


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lordseth23 wrote:

I'm in college, so I see attractive girls all the time and it is depressing. Ignoring wouldn't work in my case because I am butt-ugly, but if girls find you attractive, then this is probably the best way to go since you aren't labeled a pervert. I'm sure you can develop a relationship once you find a girl that likes you enough.


Attraction isn't just in looks. It's also in the way you carry yourself as a person. All you have to do is be yourself, and stand out from everyone else without being so predictable. Don't expect the girl you do get to be all "hawt" looking. Appreciate who she is and not so what she looks like physically.

This is what helped me FINALLY get a woman in my life. Look my girlfriend isn't gonna win points in the looks department...well her cute face might, but still it's about who she is as a person. She saw this in me too.


I am an introvert that probably has social anxiety, so it isn't like I am saving myself for a beautiful girl. There is very little chance that any girl will notice me, not just the good-looking ones. Just because I act like myself doesn't mean a girl will ever find me attractive.


How do you look like anyway, man?



I look like a monster. I have a link to facebook on my profile, you can see my pics there.
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lordseth23 wrote:

I'm in college, so I see attractive girls all the time and it is depressing. Ignoring wouldn't work in my case because I am butt-ugly, but if girls find you attractive, then this is probably the best way to go since you aren't labeled a pervert. I'm sure you can develop a relationship once you find a girl that likes you enough.


I can imagine you being in the statistic of Butt ugly men with hot ass girlfriend. you gonna get some stares dude prepare :D

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lordseth23 wrote:

I'm in college, so I see attractive girls all the time and it is depressing. Ignoring wouldn't work in my case because I am butt-ugly, but if girls find you attractive, then this is probably the best way to go since you aren't labeled a pervert. I'm sure you can develop a relationship once you find a girl that likes you enough.


I can imagine you being in the statistic of Butt ugly men with hot ass girlfriend. you gonna get some stares dude prepare :D



How did you come to that conclusion?
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lordseth23 wrote:


-Vega- wrote:


romanmink wrote:

Love is pointless to worry about. She'll come when she comes.


True.


lordseth23 wrote:


squirrel3d wrote:


lordseth23 wrote:

I'm in college, so I see attractive girls all the time and it is depressing. Ignoring wouldn't work in my case because I am butt-ugly, but if girls find you attractive, then this is probably the best way to go since you aren't labeled a pervert. I'm sure you can develop a relationship once you find a girl that likes you enough.


Attraction isn't just in looks. It's also in the way you carry yourself as a person. All you have to do is be yourself, and stand out from everyone else without being so predictable. Don't expect the girl you do get to be all "hawt" looking. Appreciate who she is and not so what she looks like physically.

This is what helped me FINALLY get a woman in my life. Look my girlfriend isn't gonna win points in the looks department...well her cute face might, but still it's about who she is as a person. She saw this in me too.


I am an introvert that probably has social anxiety, so it isn't like I am saving myself for a beautiful girl. There is very little chance that any girl will notice me, not just the good-looking ones. Just because I act like myself doesn't mean a girl will ever find me attractive.


How do you look like anyway, man?



I look like a monster. I have a link to facebook on my profile, you can see my pics there.


Okay, I'll check it out!

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lordseth23 wrote:


Bashment wrote:


lordseth23 wrote:

I'm in college, so I see attractive girls all the time and it is depressing. Ignoring wouldn't work in my case because I am butt-ugly, but if girls find you attractive, then this is probably the best way to go since you aren't labeled a pervert. I'm sure you can develop a relationship once you find a girl that likes you enough.


I can imagine you being in the statistic of Butt ugly men with hot ass girlfriend. you gonna get some stares dude prepare :D



How did you come to that conclusion?

your chances are never 0% Maybe if you were short your chances of getting a tall girl would be closer to 0% hahaha
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Bashment wrote:


lordseth23 wrote:


Bashment wrote:


lordseth23 wrote:

I'm in college, so I see attractive girls all the time and it is depressing. Ignoring wouldn't work in my case because I am butt-ugly, but if girls find you attractive, then this is probably the best way to go since you aren't labeled a pervert. I'm sure you can develop a relationship once you find a girl that likes you enough.


I can imagine you being in the statistic of Butt ugly men with hot ass girlfriend. you gonna get some stares dude prepare :D



How did you come to that conclusion?


your chances are never 0% Maybe if you were short your chances of getting a tall girl would be closer to 0% hahaha


It may not be 0%, but I can reasonably conclude that it is somewhere in the 0.01-0.05% range. There is a very good chance I will never capture the attention of a woman in my lifetime.
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I personally never stop thinking about girls. I adore them so much. But i am super faithful when i'm in a relationship. If girls didnt exist in this world, All guys will be homosexuals. :)
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HOWEVER... when I manage to completely ignore my demands (man-thoughts), girls starts to talk to ME more, instead of me talking to them.


There is a reason for this. Any halfway decent-looking woman is used to being harassed by men wherever she goes. It is incredibly boring, which is sad because straight girls have lowered their expectations so much that they are rather simple and easy to please.
If you can stifle your overt desperation for just a little while you can convince a girl that you are so sexy that you don't need to chase her around because you can get it anywhere. Also, if you can manage to look her in the eye, listen to what she is saying, and pay attention to her other needs (light her cigarette, refill her drink, whatever) all while secretly imagining her naked and quivering on the floor of your foyer, then you are a hero and will never worry about getting laid again.
Once she's caught you don't have to hide your desperation anymore, just tell her that it's her fault for being so hot that she distracts you.
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lordseth23 wrote:


It may not be 0%, but I can reasonably conclude that it is somewhere in the 0.01-0.05% range. There is a very good chance I will never capture the attention of a woman in my lifetime.


Your putting yourself way down man, if you keep it up with that depressing way of looking at things your chances might as well be in the 0.01-0.05% range. Be more confident in yourself. You think you your ugly? Try thinking your at least average. You can't capture the attention of a woman? Why don't you try letting the woman know you exist by saying hi and be yourself. Again, be more confident dude
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lordseth23 wrote:


It may not be 0%, but I can reasonably conclude that it is somewhere in the 0.01-0.05% range. There is a very good chance I will never capture the attention of a woman in my lifetime.


Your putting yourself way down man, if you keep it up with that depressing way of looking at things your chances might as well be in the 0.01-0.05% range. Be more confident in yourself. You think you your ugly? Try thinking your at least average. You can't capture the attention of a woman? Why don't you try letting the woman know you exist by saying hi and be yourself. Again, be more confident dude


I would rather not bother women with trying to present my existence to them, they have more important things to do.
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I'm attractive and charismatic, never had a problem getting girls.
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Its the attraction that girls have, that makes guys think about them. Girls go through alot of effort to look the way they do, Although I'm a guy. I understand that their beauty comes at alot of effort. I mean, they want to be looked at, if she didn't, then she wouldn't go through her time to look the way she does. Although, some could say its just the way I naturaly look, Im not going to argue about it, its just that the way you naturaly look appeals to me.
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XxNaruTheNarcissistxX wrote:

Interesting thread, girls, please do share about your hot topics on boys



Lol can't say I have enough exp to make a contribution but I'll try:

Boys: lol yeah don't obsessed so much. in a way it's kind of flattering to be on a guy's mind a lot BUT if it's all about **fapfapfapfap** then I mean... Lol yeah...

Girls: I can honestly say I hate when guys act snobbish/asshole-ish. I don't know about the other girls (chime in females!) but I observe everything - including what is and isn't being said. If a guy is too non-chalant then you could be portraying yourself as someone who is being dismissive/inattentive - and all the while its part of this guy's "game". Girls too guilty of this.

Boys/Girls: SPEAK UP! One thing is acting coy and another thing is playing impossible to get. Let's face it - some people get frustrated when things don't go their way. NOW I'm not saying to give all of yourself too fast. Just show that you're interested if you are. Don't let them feel like you're leading them on if you're not interested and if you are - why act like you're not?

Mixed emotions/feelings/reactions speak louder than unspoken words.


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lordseth23 wrote:


darkness815 wrote:


lordseth23 wrote:


It may not be 0%, but I can reasonably conclude that it is somewhere in the 0.01-0.05% range. There is a very good chance I will never capture the attention of a woman in my lifetime.


Your putting yourself way down man, if you keep it up with that depressing way of looking at things your chances might as well be in the 0.01-0.05% range. Be more confident in yourself. You think you your ugly? Try thinking your at least average. You can't capture the attention of a woman? Why don't you try letting the woman know you exist by saying hi and be yourself. Again, be more confident dude


I would rather not bother women with trying to present my existence to them, they have more important things to do.


Putting yourself down like that is unattractive. :L
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