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Guys... Can't stop thinking of Girls?
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Just saying on my opinion as a girl.
Stick to one girl & only one. Just hope you've got good luck.
Also Speak up as said before :p if you want something say it.
Be honest 4 life.
I really should take my own advice....
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Always easier to give advice than it is to follow it even when you are the one giving it. xD I hardly ever follow my own advice.
Posted 1/29/13
It's biological for a straight man to think constantly about sex.
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Narusagawa wrote:

i think it's kinda cute if guys are a little bit snobbish but not in a rude way. it attracts women :))


I hate this, how are "snobs" attractive. A guy that doesn't treat you like meat and is actually genuinely nice isn't attractive.
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First off, looks aren't everything - yes, they help, but whether somebody is interested in you depends far more on you as a person. That somebody doesn't just include girls, by the way, it goes for all sorts of relationships, friends, coworkers, job recruiters, etc.

You aren't going to come across as interesting to anybody if you consider taking a few minutes to talk with you to be an unforgivable waste of time. With the attitude you're displaying, I can't imagine there being anything better you could do for your life than convince yourself that you are worth a conversation.

If you think about it, a conversation isn't much to ask of somebody. Hell, people have spent untold minutes, maybe even an hour or two, replying to your posts in this thread. It's not like you approached them, you just left your post here and people *willingly* gave their time.

Consider this - if people valued their time to the extent you've convinced yourself they do, Facebook and Twitter wouldn't exist. Everybody knows those sites are a waste of time - and probably half the girls you fear to waste the time of are on both those sites every day. There's a reason the word pastime exists, it's because people have so much time to waste that they have to create ways to use it up, or at least, they think they have.

How about thinking of this from another angle - until you talk with a person, how do you know they aren't a waste of *your* time? You don't know somebody if you never talk with them, so how can you be so sure they're better than you when you don't know them. Would anybody be happy at being judged by somebody that hasn't even had a conversation with them?

Back to the whole looks thing, I've seen really ugly guys with beautiful women, and I'm sure I'm not the only one that has seen this. My dad would talk about a coworker of his that was hideous, but he always had a girl on his arm. Why? Because he would ask. Did he get rejected many times? Of course. But if you don't ask, the answer is always no.
And you know what, I bet the good looking guys get shot down too.

Finally, and maybe this will come across as harsh, but I'll say it anyway just because it's silly to go through life thinking you're confident when you aren't:
If you think talking to you is a waste of time, you aren't confident. I don't know what the solution is for lack of confidence, but you may want to try and find it, because the future you've described for yourself is depressing and entirely driven by your lack of confidence, not your looks.
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ItsMev wrote:


Narusagawa wrote:

i think it's kinda cute if guys are a little bit snobbish but not in a rude way. it attracts women :))


I hate this, how are "snobs" attractive. A guy that doesn't treat you like meat and is actually genuinely nice isn't attractive.


As she said "a little bit snobbish". Girls like guys who they can view as being bad on the outside with a soft heart on the inside. They like it if they are one of the few people the guy shares that side of himself with. Some girls anyway. Just like some guys actually like girls with a bitchy side to them.
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This girl knows whats she talking about, you should listen to her :)
same for guys, girls who put themselves down like what you're doing right now is unattractive... at least for me


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How is giving women their own personal space unattractive?


No ones asking you to invade her privacy or anything, just introduce yourself as a hello can go a long way.

After reading the posts that went on to page 6 i can see that you have no confidence in yourself and everyone who is trying to cheer you up keeps getting shot down. You want to give her her personal space? I think you're just shy and afraid to speak. You say your in college right? At your age shyness should not be an excuse for silence. If anything i believe that part of college experience involves pushing yourself to step out of your comfort zone.
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It's usually the other way around for me. I've had some hit on me but I can never seem to meet a straight woman. Most women believe men are only interested in two parts of their bodies that's horribly mistaken, or at least that's what I've heard from a lot of them. Most straight men look at a woman's morales and what makes her beautiful overall.

for a example, this random person from Skype earlier, things like this net a blacklist faster than anything else, I cannot stand trashy women.

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Zenairis_Serean wrote:

It's usually the other way around for me. I've had some hit on me but I can never seem to meet a straight woman.

for a example, this random person from Skype earlier, things like this nets a blacklist faster than anything else, I cannot stand trashy women.



I can't read that.

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Zenairis_Serean wrote:

It's usually the other way around for me. I've had some hit on me but I can never seem to meet a straight woman.

for a example, this random person from Skype earlier, things like this nets a blacklist faster than anything else, I cannot stand trashy women.



The image...I can't read it or enlarge it. This makes me sad.
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darkness815 wrote:



This girl knows whats she talking about, you should listen to her :)
same for guys, girls who put themselves down like what you're doing right now is unattractive... at least for me


lordseth23 wrote:

How is giving women their own personal space unattractive?


No ones asking you to invade her privacy or anything, just introduce yourself as a hello can go a long way.

After reading the posts that went on to page 6 i can see that you have no confidence in yourself and everyone who is trying to cheer you up keeps getting shot down. You want to give her her personal space? I think you're just shy and afraid to speak. You say your in college right? At your age shyness should not be an excuse for silence. If anything i believe that part of college experience involves pushing yourself to step out of your comfort zone.


Yup! A closed mouth doesnt get fed!
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Zenairis_Serean wrote:

It's usually the other way around for me. I've had some hit on me but I can never seem to meet a straight woman. Most women believe men are only interested in two parts of their bodies that's horribly mistaken, or at least that's what I've heard from a lot of them. Most straight men look at a woman's morales and what makes her beautiful overall.

for a example, this random person from Skype earlier, things like this nets a blacklist faster than anything else, I cannot stand trashy women.



Oh. So it was just basically one of those things trying to get you to the webcam porn site. I get those from time to time on MSN.
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Whatever man it's your life. If you want to convince yourself that what you are saying is true then so be it. It seems you have spent a long time telling yourself all of that nonsense so I won't bother trying to undo all that work you put in.


I couldn't have said that any better. You're only holding back yourself when you keep thinking you'll never succeed because of your looks. Why don't you do something about your looks then.
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Pretty much, although I have met some aggressive women online like this that were extremely trashy many years ago, I ended up blocking them before they continue on much further.
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