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Guys... Can't stop thinking of Girls?
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Zenairis_Serean wrote:

It's usually the other way around for me. I've had some hit on me but I can never seem to meet a straight woman. Most women believe men are only interested in two parts of their bodies that's horribly mistaken, or at least that's what I've heard from a lot of them. Most straight men look at a woman's morales and what makes her beautiful overall.

for a example, this random person from Skype earlier, things like this net a blacklist faster than anything else, I cannot stand trashy women.



Yeah....that's a guy by the way. Was only intending to link you to a malicious website haha, don't accept Skype adds from people you don't know.
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lordseth23 wrote:


-Vega- wrote:


lordseth23 wrote:

I'm in college, so I see attractive girls all the time and it is depressing. Ignoring wouldn't work in my case because I am butt-ugly, but if girls find you attractive, then this is probably the best way to go since you aren't labeled a pervert. I'm sure you can develop a relationship once you find a girl that likes you enough.


Why is it depressing?


It is depressing to know that I will probably never have a chance to date someone.


I'ma say something really corny right about now... It's what's on the inside that counts!
And just get your own humor Then you're all good!"
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Posted 1/29/13

JayVeeDees wrote:


lordseth23 wrote:


-Vega- wrote:


lordseth23 wrote:

I'm in college, so I see attractive girls all the time and it is depressing. Ignoring wouldn't work in my case because I am butt-ugly, but if girls find you attractive, then this is probably the best way to go since you aren't labeled a pervert. I'm sure you can develop a relationship once you find a girl that likes you enough.


Why is it depressing?


It is depressing to know that I will probably never have a chance to date someone.


I'ma say something really corny right about now... It's what's on the inside that counts!
And just get your own humor Then you're all good!"


This is true.

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He's right, it isn't all about looks. It's about how you carry yourself, your self-confidence. A guy who isn't is painful to be around, a guy who is is hot, even if they aren't "handsome". Besides, everyone has different tastes, there is no one standard for looks.

I'm an introvert that married an introvert, to make that happen, one of us had to take the risk and step out of our shell....it ended up being me. It looks like you might have to be the one to start things, or they'll never happen. Someone once told me, "If nothing happens, then nothing will happen". Maybe you don't want someone bad enough, because that's what it took for me to do something.
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Dingggggggg!
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Ughhh, the amount of self loathing is irritating. Especially from Lord Seth. It's so god damn ridiculous, I hate this whole bullshit "nice guys finish last" trope that a majority of people have been/are being raised on. "Nice guys" generally aren't nice and are just looking for a hand out to validate their self worth without having to do any real work to change the things they don't like about themselves.
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At a time when I didn't have acne, I was frequently isolated and ridiculed for my eyes and facial features, so there is no point in trying to remove acne if you are ugly to begin with. My hair is much longer now, but I do get buzzcuts because I just don't care how I look. Girls never wanted me to begin with, so why should I have to lessen my ugliness just to try to impress them? They will probably still think I am ugly, so there is no point in trying to improve my looks.


Meh, I don't think that's true, but whatever. I think your self consciousness is a lot more harmful than your looks. Personally, as a guy who gets hit on regularly, I think you have a shot if you change your attitude and outlook. You're not ugly though, I've seen your photos.
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Narusagawa wrote:

i think it's kinda cute if guys are a little bit snobbish but not in a rude way. it attracts women :))


They are only attractive from afar. It makes want to get closer, wanting their hard feature soften,
but if you get to know them...dang! they are boring as hell. I think only masochistic girls likes that type. ;D


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Ah.
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Hello guys, (and girls)! I made this thread because I can't stop going crazy about any hot chick I see. It has gone so far that I don't think I can tell the difference between "love" and "lust". HOWEVER... when I manage to completely ignore my demands (man-thoughts), girls starts to talk to ME more, instead of me talking to them. Maybe because ignoring actually works. Who knows... So then I get hopes up for a relationship, but I'm either too pushy or too passive, and then I'm back on square one.

I'm sure that I am not the only one. So please... enlighten my life that stands still.


No woman will ever feel for you the obsessive, physical adoration that you might fell for her. Men, in their poetry and literature, scan the female form from top-to-toe and adore every feature. Men have made even mundane things like dimples, feet and the lower part of the neck into erotic zones. Even ugly little constellations of blackheads or other physical impurities are forgiven or loved by men in what they write.

No woman has ever or will ever love and forgive with such intensity. They expect to be placated and seduced. They expect men to disguise themselves and make exaggerated performances. The quality of the performance is what is judged, not the quality of the man inside it. A failed performance arouses complete contempt in women.

They aren't like men, who see weakness and love or appreciate it - who see some token of themselves and of humanity in it.Women hate weakness because weakness is useless to them.

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Aimyay wrote:


Big_A wrote:

Hello guys, (and girls)! I made this thread because I can't stop going crazy about any hot chick I see. It has gone so far that I don't think I can tell the difference between "love" and "lust". HOWEVER... when I manage to completely ignore my demands (man-thoughts), girls starts to talk to ME more, instead of me talking to them. Maybe because ignoring actually works. Who knows... So then I get hopes up for a relationship, but I'm either too pushy or too passive, and then I'm back on square one.

I'm sure that I am not the only one. So please... enlighten my life that stands still.


No woman will ever feel for you the obsessive, physical adoration that you might fell for her. Men, in their poetry and literature, scan the female form from top-to-toe and adore every feature. Men have made even mundane things like dimples, feet and the lower part of the neck into erotic zones. Even ugly little constellations of blackheads or other physical impurities are forgiven or loved by men in what they write.

No woman has ever or will ever love and forgive with such intensity. They expect to be placated and seduced. They expect men to disguise themselves and make exaggerated performances. The quality of the performance is what is judged, not the quality of the man inside it. A failed performance arouses complete contempt in women.

They aren't like men, who see weakness and love or appreciate it - who see some token of themselves and of humanity in it.Women hate weakness because weakness is useless to them.



Most women are not like that at all. Most women I have encountered in my life are very loving, understanding, forgiving, caring, compassionate, and empathetic.
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starlightpriestess wrote:


Narusagawa wrote:

i think it's kinda cute if guys are a little bit snobbish but not in a rude way. it attracts women :))


They are only attractive from afar. It makes want to get closer, wanting their hard feature soften,
but if you get to know them...dang! they are boring as hell. I think only masochistic girls likes that type. ;D




Ladies go for guys who seem like that, really? Huh...

Most females I've been with tell me they like me because I am silly, random, and humorous, but can take control. No need to be snobbish at all. It makes no sense to me why anyone would go for a guy who acts like a rock.
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I'm the exact opposite; it's been a long while since I actually felt attracted to anyone or felt any desire to be in a relationship.
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girls always talk about boys especially their appearance
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but for me it doesn't matter how you looks, what matter most is your PERSONALITY
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jaicamay wrote:

girls always talk about boys especially their appearance
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but for me it doesn't matter how you looks, what matter most is your PERSONALITY


You are right.

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