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i think it's kinda cute if guys are a little bit snobbish but not in a rude way. it attracts women :))
They are only attractive from afar. It makes want to get closer, wanting their hard feature soften,
but if you get to know them...dang! they are boring as hell. I think only masochistic girls likes that type. ;D
This woman knows what she's talking about.
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ItsMev wrote:
starlightpriestess wrote:
Narusagawa wrote:
i think it's kinda cute if guys are a little bit snobbish but not in a rude way. it attracts women :))
They are only attractive from afar. It makes want to get closer, wanting their hard feature soften,
but if you get to know them...dang! they are boring as hell. I think only masochistic girls likes that type. ;D
This woman knows what she's talking about.
No, she doesn't and you don't, too.
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ItsMev wrote:
starlightpriestess wrote:
Narusagawa wrote:
i think it's kinda cute if guys are a little bit snobbish but not in a rude way. it attracts women :))
They are only attractive from afar. It makes want to get closer, wanting their hard feature soften,
but if you get to know them...dang! they are boring as hell. I think only masochistic girls likes that type. ;D
This woman knows what she's talking about.
No, she doesn't and you don't, too.
Oh look, it's the crazy old creeper who posts non-nonsensical shit on an anime website!
Almost forgot you exsisted, it's been at least....5 minutes since I had the displeasure of reading one of your posts. Silly me
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It may not be 0%, but I can reasonably conclude that it is somewhere in the 0.01-0.05% range. There is a very good chance I will never capture the attention of a woman in my lifetime.
Your putting yourself way down man, if you keep it up with that depressing way of looking at things your chances might as well be in the 0.01-0.05% range. Be more confident in yourself. You think you your ugly? Try thinking your at least average. You can't capture the attention of a woman? Why don't you try letting the woman know you exist by saying hi and be yourself. Again, be more confident dude
I would rather not bother women with trying to present my existence to them, they have more important things to do.
Putting yourself down like that is unattractive. :L
How is giving women their own personal space unattractive?
Bro, one thing i do notice that girls like is a confident man. That actually speaks louder than looks. Yeah being attractive might "help" but in the long run being able to take a woman through lifes rough times with confidence is pretty powerful. Actually, anime is a perfect example of that haha. Even an "attarctive" asshole/deuch bag/coward will get dumped for a stronger man.
Anyways, this is my opinion and I'd like a female perspective of what I just said for more clarity.
I think I am confident, but I don't want to ask a girl out just because I am confident. I want to know if she actually wants to spend time with me before I talk to her.
You aren't. You are just sabotaging yourself when it comes to relationships. You need to stop thinking so much about it and just go for it. There are some girls who will approach guys but for the most part you have to approach them. It isn't your looks or anything that is lowering your chances with women. It is your attitude and mindset.
I don't know how to "just go for it", and I really don't want to if it means that I am going to waste somebody's time.
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It may not be 0%, but I can reasonably conclude that it is somewhere in the 0.01-0.05% range. There is a very good chance I will never capture the attention of a woman in my lifetime.
Your putting yourself way down man, if you keep it up with that depressing way of looking at things your chances might as well be in the 0.01-0.05% range. Be more confident in yourself. You think you your ugly? Try thinking your at least average. You can't capture the attention of a woman? Why don't you try letting the woman know you exist by saying hi and be yourself. Again, be more confident dude
I would rather not bother women with trying to present my existence to them, they have more important things to do.
Putting yourself down like that is unattractive. :L
How is giving women their own personal space unattractive?
Being so negative about yourself has nothing to do respecting personal space. That's two completely different topics. :L
Just saying, give yourself a chance and let the girl decide if you're "invading" her personal space or not.
Otherwise, you're just gonna be ignored by default. :(
If I do that, then I can't just give her the time that she lost by talking to me, that is impossible. I would rather not talk to her at all and let her choose how she wants to spend her time, and not force her to deal with me.
Whatever man it's your life. If you want to convince yourself that what you are saying is true then so be it. It seems you have spent a long time telling yourself all of that nonsense so I won't bother trying to undo all that work you put in.
How is it nonsense?
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Love is pointless to worry about. She'll come when she comes.
True.
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I'm in college, so I see attractive girls all the time and it is depressing. Ignoring wouldn't work in my case because I am butt-ugly, but if girls find you attractive, then this is probably the best way to go since you aren't labeled a pervert. I'm sure you can develop a relationship once you find a girl that likes you enough.
Attraction isn't just in looks. It's also in the way you carry yourself as a person. All you have to do is be yourself, and stand out from everyone else without being so predictable. Don't expect the girl you do get to be all "hawt" looking. Appreciate who she is and not so what she looks like physically.
This is what helped me FINALLY get a woman in my life. Look my girlfriend isn't gonna win points in the looks department...well her cute face might, but still it's about who she is as a person. She saw this in me too.
I am an introvert that probably has social anxiety, so it isn't like I am saving myself for a beautiful girl. There is very little chance that any girl will notice me, not just the good-looking ones. Just because I act like myself doesn't mean a girl will ever find me attractive.
How do you look like anyway, man?
I look like a monster. I have a link to facebook on my profile, you can see my pics there.
I saw the pic of you. You're not ugly. You just need to blast some acne and you'd be an average looking guy who can get laid with average to good looking chicks if you feign confidence. Also, growing your hair out a bit might help.
At a time when I didn't have acne, I was frequently isolated and ridiculed for my eyes and facial features, so there is no point in trying to remove acne if you are ugly to begin with. My hair is much longer now, but I do get buzzcuts because I just don't care how I look. Girls never wanted me to begin with, so why should I have to lessen my ugliness just to try to impress them? They will probably still think I am ugly, so there is no point in trying to improve my looks.
I don't mean to intrude in this ongoing discussion, but...it's a little upsetting that you assume that all "girls" will judge your appeal based solely on your physical features. Judging by your word choices (such as your repeated use of "them/they") when referring to "girls", it can be inferred that you think ALL "girls" are only interested in the superficial! It may be true in the case of the "girls" you've been around, but if you get out of the habit of instantly separating yourself in the way that you do from "girls", or assuming that they'll behave in a negative fashion, you'll more than likely meet a cool gal who doesn't care about looks or some such nonsense like that.
I would rather not find a cool gal if it means that I have to ruin the lives of multiple gals in the process.
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I'm in college, so I see attractive girls all the time and it is depressing. Ignoring wouldn't work in my case because I am butt-ugly, but if girls find you attractive, then this is probably the best way to go since you aren't labeled a pervert. I'm sure you can develop a relationship once you find a girl that likes you enough.
Come on bro on a scale of 1 to Gary Busey how bad can you be? lol
A zero.
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It may not be 0%, but I can reasonably conclude that it is somewhere in the 0.01-0.05% range. There is a very good chance I will never capture the attention of a woman in my lifetime.
Your putting yourself way down man, if you keep it up with that depressing way of looking at things your chances might as well be in the 0.01-0.05% range. Be more confident in yourself. You think you your ugly? Try thinking your at least average. You can't capture the attention of a woman? Why don't you try letting the woman know you exist by saying hi and be yourself. Again, be more confident dude
I would rather not bother women with trying to present my existence to them, they have more important things to do.
Putting yourself down like that is unattractive. :L
This girl knows whats she talking about, you should listen to her :)
same for guys, girls who put themselves down like what you're doing right now is unattractive... at least for me
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How is giving women their own personal space unattractive?
No ones asking you to invade her privacy or anything, just introduce yourself as a hello can go a long way.
After reading the posts that went on to page 6 i can see that you have no confidence in yourself and everyone who is trying to cheer you up keeps getting shot down. You want to give her her personal space? I think you're just shy and afraid to speak. You say your in college right? At your age shyness should not be an excuse for silence. If anything i believe that part of college experience involves pushing yourself to step out of your comfort zone.
If I knew how to step out of my comfort zone, I would do it. I don't know how, when, or where to approach girls.
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It may not be 0%, but I can reasonably conclude that it is somewhere in the 0.01-0.05% range. There is a very good chance I will never capture the attention of a woman in my lifetime.
Your putting yourself way down man, if you keep it up with that depressing way of looking at things your chances might as well be in the 0.01-0.05% range. Be more confident in yourself. You think you your ugly? Try thinking your at least average. You can't capture the attention of a woman? Why don't you try letting the woman know you exist by saying hi and be yourself. Again, be more confident dude
It's all about the mindset. Have a beer gut? Remind them that a keg is better than a six-pack. Too hairy? Excess testosterone! They call you big and ugly? Point to your size 16 4E boot........
I'm actually small and kind of skinny. I was under the impression that girls predominately look at faces, and mine is ugly.
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Well going on looks is just standard instinct. It just how humans are programmed. Going past instinct you will start to understand there are other things such as intelligence and personality. In the end, we all are going to all look like a dried up old grape. We might as well be with another dried up old grape who which we enjoy their company.
Still though, most people go on looks alone. This is why divorce rates are so high. But there is always someone out there for you, it just takes time and sometimes effort to find them. You likely aren't going to find much success if you stay indoors all day and do nothing but perhaps go to work/school.
I have found that a guy who isn't generally attractive has the most success in finding someone who was their friend. Yes, plenty of girls are friends with guys and there is nothing more to it than that. But after time goes by, those friends tend to learn intimate details about each other and more about each others' personalities. These relationships have more to it then some random lust affair at some bar, and thus are less likely to end in a divorce.
If you want more meaningful relationship with women, earning their trust is key, as well as showing them proper respect. If you are just pouncing on them like some wild cougar, ofcourse they are going to get turned off. Approaching people in a more casual way is how you for such relationships. If you are nervous, then it is something you have to build towards and work through. If you aren't willing to put in the effort necessary, then don't complain if things are working out for you.
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ItsMev wrote:
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starlightpriestess wrote:
Narusagawa wrote:
i think it's kinda cute if guys are a little bit snobbish but not in a rude way. it attracts women :))
They are only attractive from afar. It makes want to get closer, wanting their hard feature soften,
but if you get to know them...dang! they are boring as hell. I think only masochistic girls likes that type. ;D
This woman knows what she's talking about.
No, she doesn't and you don't, too.
Oh look, it's the crazy old creeper who posts non-nonsensical shit on an anime website!
Almost forgot you exsisted, it's been at least....5 minutes since I had the displeasure of reading one of your posts. Silly me
You are a insecure little man that needs too much attention from others to feel good about yourself, lower dimensional human. You are so brainwashed it's not even funny. Durh. The only reason why you don't understand me is that you have a very low level of awareness.
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He's right, it isn't all about looks. It's about how you carry yourself, your self-confidence. A guy who isn't is painful to be around, a guy who is is hot, even if they aren't "handsome". Besides, everyone has different tastes, there is no one standard for looks.
I'm an introvert that married an introvert, to make that happen, one of us had to take the risk and step out of our shell....it ended up being me. It looks like you might have to be the one to start things, or they'll never happen. Someone once told me, "If nothing happens, then nothing will happen". Maybe you don't want someone bad enough, because that's what it took for me to do something.
I don't want them if they don't want me, and my high school experience has taught me that it is better to assume that they don't want you. I've seen how girls are when they talk to a guy they don't want anything to do with, it is bullshit that they should not have to deal with.
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Ughhh, the amount of self loathing is irritating. Especially from Lord Seth. It's so god damn ridiculous, I hate this whole bullshit "nice guys finish last" trope that a majority of people have been/are being raised on. "Nice guys" generally aren't nice and are just looking for a hand out to validate their self worth without having to do any real work to change the things they don't like about themselves.
Fyi, I just gave my opinion at the beginning of the thread and did not ask for anybody to reply to me, you cannot claim that I want any of the attention. Yeah, I could just put myself out there and try to lose my virginity in any way possible, but that is not the person I am. I care about the feelings of others, I do not want to upset them in any way possible if I can help it. I am always trying to put myself in other peoples' shoes and see things from their perspective, and in this case it would be from a girls perspective. Like I mentioned above, I have observed all of the perverted bullshit that girls have to go through on a constant basis, and I understand the irritation they must feel from all of it. I would rather not partake in this bullshit because I care about them and do not want to make their lives more miserable by being another pussy hunter.
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ItsMev wrote:
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ItsMev wrote:
starlightpriestess wrote:
Narusagawa wrote:
i think it's kinda cute if guys are a little bit snobbish but not in a rude way. it attracts women :))
They are only attractive from afar. It makes want to get closer, wanting their hard feature soften,
but if you get to know them...dang! they are boring as hell. I think only masochistic girls likes that type. ;D
This woman knows what she's talking about.
No, she doesn't and you don't, too.
Oh look, it's the crazy old creeper who posts non-nonsensical shit on an anime website!
Almost forgot you exsisted, it's been at least....5 minutes since I had the displeasure of reading one of your posts. Silly me
Proof ItsMev is a creeper. http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-785649/australian-men-are-they-enticing-to-women
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girls always talk about boys especially their appearance
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but for me it doesn't matter how you looks, what matter most is your PERSONALITY
You are right.
yea! 
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jaicamay wrote:
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girls always talk about boys especially their appearance
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but for me it doesn't matter how you looks, what matter most is your PERSONALITY
You are right.
yea!
Good job for realizing a simple truth. :)
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We talk about why girls r crazy in he head and don't know what they want in life.
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-Vega- wrote:
ItsMev wrote:
starlightpriestess wrote:
Narusagawa wrote:
i think it's kinda cute if guys are a little bit snobbish but not in a rude way. it attracts women :))
They are only attractive from afar. It makes want to get closer, wanting their hard feature soften,
but if you get to know them...dang! they are boring as hell. I think only masochistic girls likes that type. ;D
This woman knows what she's talking about.
No, she doesn't and you don't, too.
I did not get it till I look in to your pic.
Ooh...sorry uncle Vega for not considering that there're people who has a natural snobby facial feature.
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