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Can friends influence a relationship?
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Posted 1/30/13
Friends can absolutely effect relationships. As a matter a fact, plan on it because more often than not they do.
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Posted 1/31/13
yup friends can, i seen a good relationship get killed due to someones friends talk too much to them and making their mind up for them, kinda messed up, but it does happen.
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friends do influence in a relationship -_- and mostly because they feel like they are being tossed aside, good friends will know that once you are in a relationship, you need time with your bf/gf and can't always hang out, however selfish friends will try to break you guys off for their own gain, and of course, they expect us to understand them when they enter in a relationship.... -_- sucks but you have to make a choice and sometimes, be a bit of a jerk and tell them to back off! been there, done that...
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20 / M / Delaware
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Posted 1/31/13
I've had friends try to influence my relationships, but I'm too strong willed to allow that. I don't need anyone's approval or permission to date someone, yafeelme?
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22 / M / Louisiana
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This is the exact reason why I have very few friends to begin with. I have never been in this kind of situation. but I have watched someone's "friend" destroy a relationship with so few words. It's insulting to watch and after their was no fixing it. In a sense I stay single because I fear if I got a partner they would be influenced by their friends and change/leave.
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Posted 2/1/13
Only if you let them.Friends like to meddle and give opinions and can act like jealous lovers. You have to learn to think for yourself.
Posted 2/1/13
~ o,..,o ~ Yes, my BF's friend, ruined mine by turning him against me then convincing him that he was better off with her. So now , although he has not left me, he can't seem to break it off with her because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. He is too nice of a guy. So he is with me in secret to keep her from getting hurt. I hate it, but he doesn't want to lose me, and i don't want to lose him either. So it is a real mess.
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Your getting played..
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A weak person is easily influenced by their friends. Strong willed people will not let friends interfere in their relationship and will make their desicions on their own.
Posted 2/1/13


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Yeah, i have thought of that too. I have tried to leave him, but he cries and says he doesn't want to lose me. I have told him to try to make it work with her, but he only gets more depressed and cries more. I don't like being in the position i am in, and i know i will probably not put up with it for long. Emotionally he is the sensitive type, and so am i. but he is more.
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Leave him, you don't derserve to go through that. Let him feel the pain of losing you and it's up to him to decide who means more to him, you or her. Don't let him toy with you like that.
Posted 2/1/13


That is what i am trying to decide now. As much as i love him, it is not right for him to put me in that position. And i refuse to be part of a harem. This all happened in November, and it is just too much time without him fixing the mess he made. I will not wait forever.
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You go girl (:

Posted 2/1/13


You know, i feel better talking to you. I had been talking to my male friends here on CR about it, but i hadn't talked to any females, and for some reason, you have given me some inner strength, and the female prospective that i think i was lacking, and probably have needed all along. Being a CR vamp isn't easy, so i have more male friends than females. But you are wise, and i needed to hear your words. I am much older but young at heart and sometimes naive too.
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Females can be mean, selfish and cruel sometimes because of jealousy and the need to feel superior. Thank you for your kind words, I don't have many female friends either for the reason that most are cruel and bring drama. @_@
I'm glad I could help you. (:
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