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Have you ever had another person stare you down or make passes at you?
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when a fine woman is staring at you, she usually wants you to approach her. when a guy is staring at you, he usually wants sex. when a guy stares at another guy, its a fight. and i have had to fight once because another guy was staring at me. two girls who stare at each other i dunno.
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I usually stare back. I just can't stand it when it's a group of immature guys, my friends and I have had guys literally bark/howl at us.. I mean really? >_>
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Once you get the job, you should be able to grow it out again. That's what I did until I didn't have enough hair to do it properly. At that point it just looked like I was trying too hard....


Either of you donate your hair when you had it cut? I should have but never did.
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I actually donated mine, true story... It was really long when I got it cut....
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If they stare at me, I'm probably like "Oh! I dropped my dollar:3" and then run off. xD
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justanotherguy_2005 wrote:


moneygrip3030 wrote:




Once you get the job, you should be able to grow it out again. That's what I did until I didn't have enough hair to do it properly. At that point it just looked like I was trying too hard....


Either of you donate your hair when you had it cut? I should have but never did.



I prefer mine long but usually not long enough to have enough to donate. Only a couple times has it gotten that long and not in a while. I remember I once got 6 inches cut off and still had as much as I do now. If I don't get a cut for another 3 or 4 months i could(itd be about 7 months total) I've always thought about it and itd be a good reason to cut it in addtition to job searches. The fact my hairs wavy also makes it harder to get length too which I'm not sure is an issue. Definately going to look closer into this though
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moneygrip3030 wrote:


Kahoko_- wrote:

I usually stare back. I just can't stand it when it's a group of immature guys, my friends and I have had guys literally bark/howl at us.. I mean really? >_>


They actually barked at you? I thought that only happened in bad movies about New York....


Lol, I'm not joking they did. We were just walking around and they drove by barking. We all laughed at their stupidity. x)
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Kahoko_- wrote:

I usually stare back. I just can't stand it when it's a group of immature guys, my friends and I have had guys literally bark/howl at us.. I mean really? >_>


Staring back might indicate you're interested, careful! I was walking in the city with an ex-girlfriend once and some guys had the nerve to wolf whistle at her while she's holding me close. (it was cold)

I mean really...? Almost lost my shit but she was good at keeping me calm.
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ItsMev wrote:


Kahoko_- wrote:

I usually stare back. I just can't stand it when it's a group of immature guys, my friends and I have had guys literally bark/howl at us.. I mean really? >_>


Staring back might indicate you're interested, careful! I was walking in the city with an ex-girlfriend once and some guys had the nerve to wold whistle at her while she's holding me close. (it was cold)

I mean really...? Almost lost my shit but she was good at keeping me calm.


No one has tried to come on to me yet, but if so I'll just act like I don't know what they're saying and walk away o.o;
And really? That's ridiculous!
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Kahoko_- wrote:


ItsMev wrote:


Kahoko_- wrote:

I usually stare back. I just can't stand it when it's a group of immature guys, my friends and I have had guys literally bark/howl at us.. I mean really? >_>


Staring back might indicate you're interested, careful! I was walking in the city with an ex-girlfriend once and some guys had the nerve to wold whistle at her while she's holding me close. (it was cold)

I mean really...? Almost lost my shit but she was good at keeping me calm.


No one has tried to come on to me yet, but if so I'll just act like I don't know what they're saying and walk away o.o;
And really? That's ridiculous!


*~Run away~* is always a good option in that situation haha.

Just notice I had "word whistle" or something written, I am so good. WOLF whistle*
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I do it to everyone.
It's like a game to me, the person who looks away loses and I win......pride. Haha jk
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Ofcourse I'm gorgeous
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I tend to stare at people with soulless eyes as if saying "This is your nightmare tonight" Every time I do it in front of my friends we just like to see the reaction from random people just for instant lols.
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If i'm pissed off, people avoid eye contact with me instinctively, unless they want to fight, then that will happen instead. but that hasn't happened since forever. Random people will only look into my angry eye for about 0.33s before darting away and if they don't I will stop walking and increase the glare until they.... submit. I suppose if they pulled a stunt like double guns or winked at me, i'd prolly get cheered up a bit and chuckle.
or I'd psych them out with a sudden aggressive move, would depend on if they were sincere or fearful. but frankly everyone submits. and trust me on years of being both intimidating and not, unease is that same as fear, and is very easy to see in someone by their stance alone.

On the flip side when I'm in a good mood, and feeling like a boss, I draw people into eye contact with confident body language and a welcoming face. most people still look away after a second or two, but if I want to pay them an unspoken complitment I keep it up and they will usually look back. The ones that don't ooze a lack of confidence in every other channel. Those who make eye contact a second time always have that hint of acknowledging my acknowledgment of them. be it a slight eyebrow raise, a head tilt, or a subtle upturn of a cheek.....if that makes any sense in writing.
The ones that never look away are confident themselves, duh, or rarely dumbstruck. Dumbstruck is my favorite, of course.

When girls make long range eyes at me, I know it's an invitation. The problem is that I don't know it's an invitation until about 2 years later.
I need to work on my 'being less retarded' training.
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Master_kefka wrote:

If i'm pissed off, people avoid eye contact with me instinctively, unless they want to fight, then that will happen instead. but that hasn't happened since forever. Random people will only look into my angry eye for about 0.33s before darting away and if they don't I will stop walking and increase the glare until they.... submit. I suppose if they pulled a stunt like double guns or winked at me, i'd prolly get cheered up a bit and chuckle.
or I'd psych them out with a sudden aggressive move, would depend on if they were sincere or fearful. but frankly everyone submits. and trust me on years of being both intimidating and not, unease is that same as fear, and is very easy to see in someone by their stance alone.

On the flip side when I'm in a good mood, and feeling like a boss, I draw people into eye contact with confident body language and a welcoming face. most people still look away after a second or two, but if I want to pay them an unspoken complitment I keep it up and they will usually look back. The ones that don't ooze a lack of confidence in every other channel. Those who make eye contact a second time always have that hint of acknowledging my acknowledgment of them. be it a slight eyebrow raise, a head tilt, or a subtle upturn of a cheek.....if that makes any sense in writing.
The ones that never look away are confident themselves, duh, or rarely dumbstruck. Dumbstruck is my favorite, of course.

When girls make long range eyes at me, I know it's an invitation. The problem is that I don't know it's an invitation until about 2 years later.
I need to work on my 'being less retarded' training.


I'm curious when you've given people your angry look and stopped walking has it ever led to a fight or you backing down? I've met several people in law enforcement whod not take kindly to what you're doing even out of uniform and certainly wouldn't back down if you actually stopped walking to play eye contact chicken. I'd also note that said officers are all very arrogant and aggresive and would take your glare as a challenge. Personally I'd just break eye contact with if someone did this to me as its not worth the hassle of a fight, regardless of your size or percieved toughness.

Also I agree someones posture really talks worlds about their confidence and mood.
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