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Did you have a girlfriend who played around with other men?
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Reminds me of Skype and Ventrilo + Star Craft Brood War. I been the lamest. Got tricked to zero too. It was nothing but I was giving too much into it. Of course it hurts because you giving it like we say ''all in''. Maybe because no others were around. But really online was spoiled from the day it was created. Don't bother taking things too seriously. I forget that sometimes too. Surely I remember being stucked in such mess.
Take it as an experience. I have completely stopped gaming and I am not planning to be a real active gamer anymore. It almost drove me insane with lack of sleep, food, air, activity, emotions and regular toilet visits. Game life and love life won't work together. It is not a good combination at least.

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Zenairis_Serean wrote:

Yes, I learned a harsh lesson from that, Although I knew someone who is related to me who found someone online, I believed I could do the same.


I have had one too.. You learn a lot from them! I don't think it is a good idea! Maybe it would be okay if you met the person in real life before social networking >,<
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You know what you do when that happens? Cap her ass. Bang!
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I had a girlfriend who dated men.
Except she didn't date men.
And she didn't date me, she beat me.
And she wasn't my girlfriend, she was my foster mother.
My foster mother beat me...a lot.
Posted 2/12/13 , edited 2/12/13
I'm dealing with the heartbreak now..

Yet I still love her, I still idolize her..
Posted 2/12/13
Girls aren't faithful
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^ Don't idolize. Girls are people, too, and people have issues. One of your issues, for example, is that you probably have unrealistic expectations of whatever poor girl ends up dating you, and when you find out she isn't perfect, you're unhappy. You take this unhappiness out on her/your relationship in various ways, she becomes unhappy, and ends up cheating on you.

It just goes back to what I said on the previous page. Cheaters don't cheat because they're happy with their situation, or because they've got boundless self-esteem. They cheat because they're unhappy and they need a pick-me-up.
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Posted 2/18/13
yeah my ex would play around with like 5 other boys at first i thought nothing about it thinking oh there just hanging out. boy how stupid was i
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Posted 2/18/13

Zenairis_Serean wrote:




You both have be mutually accepting of each other's faults, willing to be there for your other no matter what the circumstance unless they cheated on you. Forgiveness and commitment.

I don't think it's the sweetest poison, it's just what you feel is right guided by what you know is wrong.

Unfortunately 90% will not understand the above, what a sad reality we have come to as society today.


My former ended up breaking up with me for the very reasons she tried to commit suicide for in the past, now she's flinging around with other men, she's taking the songs she created for me and, the accounts I built for her on LoL as well square's games them to spend time with other men, I honestly cannot believe she's taking it that far, I should have expected this with her pirating thousands of dollars of musical synthesis software to make those pieces in the first place.

Have you ever had a girlfriend who plays men like this?


There are a few women in the world worth fighting for, but there is no such thing as a woman worth fighting OVER

My first GF, many years ago, was a whore. No, at least whores get paid. She had serious emotional problems. Using men made her feel powerful and important. I think she felt powerful by using her body to get what she wanted and then felt important when i stayed and let her "get away" with things. Like in your situation, she had prior suicide attempts and other issues. She liked using that to manipulate me too. It is all a game.

I studied psychology in college, offered to pay for therapy, treated her like a goddess and stayed by her side no matter how awful she was to me. Dear God I was dumb. I wanted to save her. I did everything I could to help her. I thought if I loved her enough, was kind enough, and provided some stability for her that she would heal. I couldn't have been more wrong. She ended up sleeping around with married men in order to blackmail them, shooting porn, and eventually became quite abusive.

Listen -- there is no saving someone who doesn't want to be saved. Some people are just broken and no amount of love or hand holding will fix them. Some people like being broken.

Human beings will ALWAYS do what they want. There is no such thing as a selfless act. One cannot separate themselves from any act one performs, by definition it is impossible. People hate work but they go because they want the paycheck, the roof over their heads, etc. Parents give children presents because the PARENTS want to see the child happy.

So you see, humans ALWAYS ultimately do what they want. If a girl wants to be loyal, she will be. If she wants to cheat, she will. The best thing you can do is try to learn from my past mistakes, give up on the bitch (she needs a therapist not a boyfriend) and find a girl who actually likes being with you enough that she wants to be loyal to you. If you don't you could end up will all manner of troubles from STDs to other angry boyfriends gunning for you.

I know its a shocker, but there are girls in the world who are actually pretty nice. Once you finally find one, you'll wonder why you put up with this kind of bullshit as long as you did.
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Posted 2/18/13 , edited 2/18/13

Pomff wrote:

I had a girlfriend who dated men.
Except she didn't date men.
And she didn't date me, she beat me.
And she wasn't my girlfriend, she was my foster mother.
My foster mother beat me...a lot.


She was showering you with love.
Posted 2/18/13
It's your fault for trusting her, you can only trust yourself, which is basically proven by this thread.
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Posted 2/18/13
She messed around with other men before she was with me, I suppose.

Or....that's impossible because my girlfriend isn't a man.

But, seriously, no. I don't know what it's like to be cheated on. I can only imagine that it's a horrible feeling, especially if you really dig your significant other.
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Posted 2/18/13 , edited 2/18/13
i myself am a girl and i think you all should look at the strait facts. i have needz, and they sometimes required more attention then my man can give me, whats so wrong about that
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