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Did you have a girlfriend who played around with other men?
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Posted 2/7/13

Liahna wrote:

Are you serious??? She tried to commit suicide and she was doing illegal things mmmmm....... don't know how you didn't notice that the girl had issues. You have to listen what your friends say, maybe they are wrong sometimes but they do that because they care about you. And yeah love sucks sometimes but don't let this woman make you give up on love.


I should have listened to them yeah, I believed I could influence her to become someone better. I was seriously mistaken.
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Meh, I met some dude in a mmo too a while ago.
He promessed me the world then lied and prolly cheated and then dumped me.

I hope you find someone better, don't waste your time feeling bad for someone who didn't love you like you deserved.
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Liahna wrote:

Are you serious??? She tried to commit suicide and she was doing illegal things mmmmm....... don't know how you didn't notice that the girl had issues. You have to listen what your friends say, maybe they are wrong sometimes but they do that because they care about you. And yeah love sucks sometimes but don't let this woman make you give up on love.


I should have listened to them yeah, I believed I could influence her to become someone better. I was seriously mistaken.


Most women do that with men. That should tell you it isn't logical and should not be attempted. Not to mention that you are supposed to love someone for who they are and not who you can turn them into.
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My first girlfriend was the most two-faced person I've ever known; she started out really kind and sweet and understanding, but eventually became a psychotic bitch who was always putting me down verbally and tried to control every aspect of my life. It also turned out she'd been cheating for nearly the entire relationship. She eventually got engaged to the guy she cheated on me with, but apparently that fell apart (gee, I wonder why? ).
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Taurelion wrote:

My first girlfriend was the most two-faced person I've ever known; she started out really kind and sweet and understanding, but eventually became a psychotic bitch who was always putting me down verbally and tried to control every aspect of my life. It also turned out she'd been cheating for nearly the entire relationship. She eventually got engaged to the guy she cheated on me with, but apparently that fell apart (gee, I wonder why? ).


This, a few of my formers friend's came forth and finally confessed she had been doing those things with them this was going on roughly for 4-5 months before I was made aware of it and it's even possible she was before that as well.

Edit: I agree with that, you should love someone for who they are, she told me for a while the good she did was for me, and I had convinced myself that she was happy and trying for that very reason. It was a very harsh learning experience.

Edit: I couldn't stop someone else who will eventually suffer from the same thing. I don't want another person to have to suffer through what I had to.
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Zenairis_Serean wrote:


Liahna wrote:

Are you serious??? She tried to commit suicide and she was doing illegal things mmmmm....... don't know how you didn't notice that the girl had issues. You have to listen what your friends say, maybe they are wrong sometimes but they do that because they care about you. And yeah love sucks sometimes but don't let this woman make you give up on love.


I should have listened to them yeah, I believed I could influence her to become someone better. I was seriously mistaken.


Most women do that with men. That should tell you it isn't logical and should not be attempted. Not to mention that you are supposed to love someone for who they are and not who you can turn them into.



Yeah. Everybody want to save someone and we try even harder for people we love, people can change for someone they love but they change by own choice, not because someone want them to change. All good things require effort.
Posted 2/7/13
I've known a few girls who would do this kind of behavior whether it's internet or real life. It's either they didn't have enough attention at home from mommy and daddy so they'd seek some loving from random people. Or they are too confident about their appearance or themselves, so they'd go around, show it off, and get their attention from that. Now, girls aren't the only ones doing this. Boys do this kind of stuff as well.

Now for your ex-partner to say that she wanted to commit suicide, that's just a straight up lie. Since this relationship of yours was online, (maybe) the reason why she said that is because she doesn't want to see you, so she'll make you assume that she is "dead" from a fake suicide, but in reality she's still alive doing her cyber one night stand with other guys on the net. Anyway, for her to be pirating and stealing stuff is illegal and she should be charged.

For a relationship to crumble because of a partner who is cheating on you, don't even be sad about it. Just be glad you got yourself out from your ex partner's trap.
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You fucking hasn't? Any dude that's had a few girlfriends has been played at least once. And if you happen to have been lucky enough to have had more than a few your ass got played a lot. Women be scandalous.... Yeah I'ma little bitter. BTW way men are no better, except for me.
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You fucking hasn't? Any dude that's had a few girlfriends has been played at least once. And if you happen to have been lucky enough to have had more than a few your ass got played a lot. Women be scandalous.... Yeah I'ma little bitter. BTW way men are no better, except for me.


Men really aren't any better. I have someone who works with me that tells me at least twice a week women are evil and that I shouldn't associate with them because he's been burned badly as well. I've met many good women however to know better I can't convince him though, I don't think I ever will.

There are still good men and women in the world
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Meh. Online relationships. I was into them a while back (although I'm younger than you), but I can maybe even suggest from my past experiences that her suicide "attempts" may be plain lies as well. I won't say that I'm sorry to hear it though and I'm not trying to be mean, but I think it's a lesson well learned to stay away from women like her.

Who knows? Maybe you'll meet some superwoman who will give you HER accounts. ;-)
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tarel wrote:

Trusting people is your worst mistake.


Eventually you will find someone you can trust.
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Liahna wrote:

Eventually you will find someone you can trust.


What can I gain from that?


Happiness
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Liahna wrote:


tarel wrote:


Liahna wrote:

Eventually you will find someone you can trust.


What can I gain from that?


Happiness


This.

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Trust no one. Not even yourself. If possible verify all information obtained. Happiness and everything else will always be temporary in the grand scheme of things. There is no point getting too hung up on it.
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