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Did you have a girlfriend who played around with other men?
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Posted 2/21/13

-Crossfire wrote:

Girls aren't faithful


I know some who are, some that have been faithful with their mates their entire lives (50+ years.)

I moved on, I know to much was going on behind my back that my previous girlfriend wasn't telling me, while she claimed not to cheat on me, her friends knew things about her they weren't supposed to know, many things that they should not have known about according to what she had told me in the past. This was information she told me she never shared with people. The sad thing is we had a talk about this when it was occurring and she told me she didn't tell them, 3 months later right before we broke up I found out she did. The only source they had to find this out from was from her.

I ended up using some tactics on her just to see what her true motives really were at the end, some other people mentioned doing so as well, the sad thing is her reply is exactly how she would reply if she wasn't being sincere with me at the end. That and my dad's response to my mother when he was planning abandon her for another woman was identical to hers.

I was even further angry to see the person she's messing around with is 8 years younger than her, not just that but to also notice that the time she broke up with me was when she added him.

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Posted 2/21/13

Djinn16 wrote:

i myself am a girl and i think you all should look at the strait facts. i have needz, and they sometimes required more attention then my man can give me, whats so wrong about that


I don't think it's wrong to have men friends as long as you're not cheating on your partner and you can put him first.

I can understand not having enough attention it can break people many people after a while.
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i mean isnt my partner supposed to have my best interest's at heart? so if he cant satisfy my "needs"then shouldnt he be glad that they are being "satisfied" by another man?
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I'm faithful and I expect whom I'm with to be the same. Online or off.

If you're seriously committed enough, online gfs/bfs are just as real as the irl ones. My WoW guild master was from Texas and his wife was from Australia and they met online...nearing 10 year anniversary too I believe. (This is just to comment on the people saying online means less...I found all my offline relationships to mean less than my online ones.)

That being said, my first bf, met irl, dated and screwed everything with women parts. I was naive and found out later, but I learned a valuable lesson.

Yet I've had wonderful online relationships that lasted years before we drifted apart (lack of common goals, etc.). I can only trust those didn't cheat on me. ;p But then offline bfs/gfs...you sort of got to trust they're not cheating on you either.
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It's literally been over a half a year, plus 2 months since this was last posted in. Feel free to recreate if you so desire. Closed due to inactivity.
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