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Wounds in the Heart
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19 / F / USA
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Posted 5/31/13
Eh. Shrug. I just try to preoccupy myself with other things.
Even though it doesn't always seem to help to give it a go on your own.
I think the best thing to do is find someone with similar experiences and keep living your life, in hopes that your pasts will lead you to keep each other's hearts safer than your past love.
You just have to move on, roll with the punches I guess.
Kind of ironic, coming from me though.
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24 / M / SoCal
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Posted 5/31/13
It sounds rather blunt but, you'll get over it eventually. Just try to stay positive and don't seclude yourself.
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21 / M / My Couch
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Posted 5/31/13
I can always rely on my music to get my mind off the many irritating aspects of life.
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Posted 6/1/13
I do stuff that makes me happy. It's really simple. Really.
Posted 6/1/13
I butter it up
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27 / F / Australia
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Posted 6/1/13
If it's really bad, then I take time out to pray, reflect, cry, work through it. If I don't have time or don't want to think about it, I distract myself with my studies or find something to do that I enjoy. Exercise is great and the endorphins help!
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Posted 6/1/13
Firstly,we all know that "heart" is a term for the loving and empathetic part of our mind and emotions.It starts as an emotion-but you create and nurture it with your mind.That is where you have to overcome the pain of rejection,disappointment and betrayal.I personally allow myself to feel the pain,the self -pity,because it does no good to ignore it-I embrace it.I go about my routine,spoil myself with treats, and talk to friends.I remind myself of the good times and things about the relationship as well as the bad, and take the whole experience into my being to hold onto as part of who I am now.Only time makes the pain fade,but I realize I have never walked away empty handed.Something invaluable has been given to me that only that particular encounter could provide, and later you realize that pain of the heart can actually expand your capacity to love with more wisdom; pain in love makes your heart stronger and more discerning.You make yourself accept, appreciate, and move forward.
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Posted 6/1/13 , edited 6/1/13
Realizing that you WILL get over it. That it SUCKS now, but in a few months that pain and anguish won't be nearly as bad. As long as I remember that fact, it's easier to bear. That and I do anything I can to take my mind off it. Listening to music and/or shows when my mind is able to think about it, I find helps. For example at work, my mind tends to wander a lot so I make sure to have something going in my earbuds to take my mind off that subject
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23 / F / Asia
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Posted 6/1/13
I never want to comfort people with words like..
"That's okay."
Because seriously....you know its not okay when you've experience the pain other people undergoes.
Coping from pain starts from setting your mind set. If you're able to do this....other things follow. ;)
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29 / M / Kentucky
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Posted 6/1/13
music.
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26 / M / UK
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Posted 6/1/13
Figure out the cause and deal with it. If that can't be done, dwell on it for as long as I need to until I figure out why it happened in the first place, come to terms with whatever that fact is, then carry on with my life.
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F / Earth
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Posted 6/1/13
I distract myself. I actually hate being a teenager right now because of the annoying hormones, which cause me to get hurt for stupid reasons >.>.

One day at a time, though!
Posted 6/1/13
I broke up with my girlfriend back Aug 2011. I've been using video games and heavily using anime to deal with it, but I'm still trying to get over it.
Posted 6/1/13
Well first, you have to buy a rather sharp knife. Make small incisions around the heart area (Slightly off the center of your chest). This may hurt slightly, so you may want to use pain killers during, so that you don't pass out. Blood should be starting to build up and dribble out of the wounds by this point, so it's about time to move forward.

Take the knife, again, and connect all the tiny incisions together while making them much deeper. Push your your fingers through the circular cut until they're about half way into your chest. You should be holding either onto or onto the area around your heart.

Pull.
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23 / F / SA
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Posted 6/1/13
Time really heal them
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