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Posted 8/27/13
well.. it's pretty soon for me to look for a gf. i just need some time. lol. however, If i do have a future gf, she would have a really thoughtful and sweet personality, who's easy to get along with.
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Someone as insane as me, so we can connect on a mad, deep level. Or a yandere. Either is fine.
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23 / M / Iowa
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DragonDeath1 wrote:


chase6565 wrote:


DragonDeath1 wrote:

What kind of personality do you want for your future gf/bf? Well for starter, I'm not a PICKY person. All I want is a nice and kind personality girl for my future gf. I mean looks ehhhh I mean she doesn't have to be pretty like a model nor she can't be ugly like a idk poop? She can just be kawaii? LOL. IDK.


Agreed bro. ^ Overall, I'm looking for someone with a loving and caring personality. Someone who really tries to dig for the real me, you know? One girl I dated really figured me out pretty quick and I loved it. Oddly enough, if I like the girl's personality her physical attractiveness goes up by a bunch. Personalities are very attractive mentally and physically. I would like for her to have some cuteness, though. But usually a girl's cuteness comes out as you get to know her. And geeezzz I hope I finally find a girl who likes anime!!! In 20 years of being on this earth still have not found a single one in my area.


I liked a lot of girls because of physical appearance. Always make me thinks that I like her when I actually don't. I still haven't experience true love yet sadly :/ It must feel wonderful.

Maybe I'm a cynic, but I don't honestly think true love exists.

MY recommendation: use chemistry to your advantage. Learn as much as there is to your significant other. Use Oxytocin as leverage. Bond with them. Create unforgettable memories. Unless they have game-breaking habits like animal abuse or screaming their ex's name in bed, it should really be fine if they have a few flaws.

Second tip: No such thing as the perfect mate. Unless she's a real underachiever, people tend to try their best. Human nature and all. Let her try and make you happy in her own way. Try to notice everything. It's a hard thing to do, I know. But she'll be happy you notice the simplest things. At this point I feel like I'm writing for cosmopolitan magazine or something and it's making me a little sick how ingrained this stuff is. But It's not any less true.

I guess what I'm trying to explain is don't wait for that "instant spark" or making sure "you have good chemistry" or that you're "compatible." It's utter horseshit. If you think it's not there. It's time to be spontaneous and show her the best time you've ever had. Maybe go Skydiving or something. If you make it impossible for someone to forget you, that's "love."
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Posted 8/27/13
I'd like a boyfriend that's genuinely nice, caring, funny, he doesn't have to be "hot" or whatever either, looks aren't a problem with me considering I doubt there's a guy out there that would date me considering I'm sociably inept and can barely hold a conversation for 5 to 10 seconds
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Posted 8/28/13 , edited 8/28/13
Would be it too ideal to ask of that future bf to be educated, has my same interest, is not boring, and patient.
not really aiming for eye candy but at the very least, decent-looking?
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I'd like to meet a woman that's laid-back for once. Girls are always so intense. I just don't have that kind of energy.
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17 / M / California
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Just like me for who I am
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21 / M / United States
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Personally, I want a soft and sweet girl who is easy to make blush but can put her foot down and claim me as her own. Someone that smiles at my stupid romantics and laughs at my bad jokes, who loves cuddling and a little nibble on the bottom lip every so often. Unfortunately, my love life is shit.
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Well for one I'm so done with trying to date guys who clearly just want to have sex. I lie and say I'm fine in the grey zone but I'm not. I want something real. Personality. I need a guy to understand I'm broken and lack trust. A guy who will ressure me and can see through my bull when I say I'm fine. I currently have someone like this who is interest in me. I might give it a shot. He's older than me but gets it and is going somewhere in life.
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You know, I don't really care for affection...I have never fallen in love and I like a guy one day and the next day I don't want to see him. this is the reason why I don't want bfs anymore because I get bored easily...just one-night stands for me and personality doesn't matter unless it is a friend...I hate jackasses as friends, most of my guy friends are sweet, independent , confident and ambitious... I guess, if someday I fall in love (someday very far away!!) those qualities would be important.
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22 / M / Ohio U.S.
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I feel like it would be so hard to find the right girl. I've dated a few, but none really just glued. I would want a girl who is funny and outgoing. I've found out that for the first few times of seeing a girl they seem like they are perfect for you, but then you find out after awhile it's not meant to be. So i guess I don't even know what I'd want
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25 / M / Canada
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Posted 8/30/13
Main points for me would be:

She must be prepared to treat me as an equal. I don't have the energy to deal with all this sadist/masochist-sub/dom-someone-has-to-wear-the-pants drivel. Obstructing someone else's autonomy is deplorable, and I won't be able to put up with someone who tries to pull that on me, or who expects me to do it to her.

She needs to understand that I'm an introvert, and I need my fair share of alone time. When it comes to significant others, I'm a lot more open with myself than I am with friends, and I can deal with having someone that close to me around fairly often, but that doesn't change the fact that I will eventually run out of batteries and need some solitude.

She has to accept my interests. Anime, and fiction in general, to be broader about it, is very important to me. In Myers-Briggs terms, I'm an INTP: ideas are, by and large, more important to me than the external world is, and in my case, my usual playground is the world of plots and characterization. Someone who looks down on my hobbies as escapism is disparaging my entire worldview, which I can't forgive. Ideally, I'd want someone who can appreciate my ideas and hobbies.

It basically comes down to: don't try to change me. I like who I am, and will evolve along lines that I set myself. I don't have any particular 'type', and have never been the sort to have crushes on people. I could see myself falling in love with pretty much anyone, as long as she loves me back and doesn't try to make me someone I'm not.
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26 / M / Germany
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Posted 8/30/13
Smart and yet crazy as hell ^^
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22 / M / Changing
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Posted 8/30/13
Ideally, my future gf should be a complete bitch. I don't like to take initiative so having someone that does is a plus. And since I take to criticism well, the more abrasive attitude would compliment mine: a mix of sarcastic asshole and gentleman.
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I'm an INTJ so another INTJ or an INTP would be good for me.
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