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Why do people meet just have it end?
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Posted 3/11/13 , edited 3/11/13
Love how like all internet threads this go off topic soon as it leaves the first page... and now we have giant albino penguin's.

Don't really have anything particularly profound to add that hasn't been said... sharing ones life with another person can bring some of the greatest joy and worst pain a person can experience. But its a journey and we all go through it.. we have all felt that pain at one point or another and the most important thing all be it also the hardest thing is to get back up and keep an open mind when you get knocked down.

For me I broke up with a girl I really cared about.. it was messy and I was a total wreck.. and I delt with it rather poorly I ended up just picking up any attractive girl that caught my eye but was never really available so they were 'fun' but I never gave the girls a chance. After a few of those girls I decided to swear off women for a while because in my opinion they were just too much effort but a friend asked me to go with him to a Halloween party because he knew absolutely no one. Not being a bad wingman I went with him though I wasn't in the mood to really be there.. ended up spending alot of the night just hanging around a fire pit around back of this place and a girl started to crush on me ( may have something to do with the fact I prevented her from catching on fire lol ). Despite shutting this girl down ( I think she tried to give me her number but I gave her mine instead and said if she wanted to talk she could call me... lol like I said wasn't in the mood ) she persisted and now we have been married for 5 years.

Moral of the story being the same tired but true thing that relationships happen when you least expect and sometimes you have to go through some bad before you get to the good so just keep your head up.. it will happen I promise =)
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I hear you.
Hell yes, if i could go back in time I wouldnt meet the fucktards and liars I have met.
If only I knew...
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I think you one are one of those weird people, I know a guy like that

We rent a gym at the community center for badminton and every time one dude ask if we wanna do something after we all think he is weird. Don't be like that
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i like to meet and have sex. and then things may end, if i dont like the sex, or if she doesnt like the sex. also people change once they get into a deep passionate relationship. the changes are what ends a great relationship most of the time.
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wwe wrote:

What is the point of some people meeting just later to have it end? I'm talking about when you meet someone you truly care for, open your heart and soul, fall in love, and for what? Just to have it end in pain and sadness?

Why do we meet someone just to have it end? What is the point of it all? How many of you wish could go back in time and stop your self from meeting that someone?


.....because people have hope and longing. They hope and long for something that will never end, even if it is guaranteed that it will. They will tell themselves that although it is fated to end in tears, that maybe they can overcome fate anyway. If there is a billion to one chance, and even no chance, the desire (and need) and drive for human affection is powerful. Even in infancy, without human affection, even if the baby is physically cared for, the baby has a high chance of dying. If the baby survives the emotional neglect, it faces a lifetime of mental and possibly physical illness, and cognitive disabilities. I'm sorry to say that studies on this were actually done on not only animal subjects, but human ones as well. Sometimes science can be a cold-hearted b*tch.
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After my fair share of heartbreak, and a long time of recovery, I've found that, although I have lingering memories of my past relationships, I view life that much richer. I appreciate things a lot more, and not take things for granted. After a lot of soul searching, I've finally realized that I'm truly happy with myself, with all my faults and flaws, and that I am a whole individual, capable of functioning well on my own. If...in the future...I find someone else, I would not treat that special someone the same way I treated my past girlfriends. Rather, I'd view myself as a whole, and view her as a whole, and we would compliment each other in this way. And if things don't work out, I can bounce back, knowing it was Just that. Things don't work out. Every story has an end, and it only clears a path for the next story. The spice of life.
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I was hoping the albino penguin would've killed this thread.. Oh well..
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demongurrl13 wrote:

I was hoping the albino penguin would've killed this thread.. Oh well..


Try a different albino animal. One of them is bound to work.
Posted 3/11/13

justanotherguy_2005 wrote:


demongurrl13 wrote:

I was hoping the albino penguin would've killed this thread.. Oh well..


Try a different albino animal. One of them is bound to work.


He's right. Try an albino Moa.
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Everything changes and everything ends at some point in this life.Love is the best thing life has to offer.Would I go back and erase the pain? No way-the love would go with it.Even if something ended badly and it is gone, the love that was cannot be undone or taken from you.I wouldn't change anything-I'll keep the pleasure and the pain.
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I wouldn't mind dying now. :P
That means no more pain suffering etc anymore.
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I would never go back and wish that a past relationship never happened, even the abusive ones. Through those relationships you are able to grow and mature and understand the world more, you are able to learn how to love. And even in the bad relationships there are good times and good memories.

The way I look at it is each failed relationship brings you closer to the one that is right for you, the one that will last. And by learning from your failed relationships you will be able to recognize the right one when it comes and you will also have learned how to love that person and care for them, you will also have learned how to truly appreciate that person. So every failed or bad relationship in a way is a gift, because it will help you understand how to keep and nurture the good one when it comes around and they also help you to mature as a person.
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The thing is, the world is different when you meet someone you love. Even if they are no longer with you, the world will remain changed because you met them. Is it worth it, to live in this changed world? that's up to the individual. Personally, I believe that you can only be as happy as you have ever been sad. How can you truly appreciate your own happiness if you have never known sorrow?

The choice is simple. You can either never truly feel anything, or feel things so vibrantly for the greater part of your life that you can also appreciate that feeling when you lose it, and those who bring it back to life, if only for a few moments. To me, the chance to have that is worth all of the hardship. When I find that one, I will struggle with them, I will dislike them at times. but in the end, I will have given my everything to this person, and in return, I hope that they will give me their everything. After that, I will want nothing, and anything else I get will be it's own blessing. After that, I can die in peace, knowing I have known the full range of emotion, and everything that there is to being human.
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Posted 3/12/13 , edited 3/12/13

Ink-e wrote:

He's right. Try an albino Moa.


How about this?

Albino snakes are too pretty....

v I know, right?! ^~^
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Ooh, that's gorgeous.
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