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Things that you're to nervous to reveal.
Posted 3/8/13 , edited 3/8/13

Tagredan wrote:


chase6565 wrote:

I'm too nervous to reveal I like anime to anyone who doesn't already know. (like my dad) He's over my bank account though so I don't what he thinks when he sees charges for 'crunchyroll'. He probably thinks it's porn or something.


lol can't you set up your own bank account? xD


Anyway,
I have the same problem of revealing that I like anime for some reason. Even though I don't care what other people say about it, it's just hard for me to say it.


Haha it was set up a while back before I was old enough if I remember right. I just never changed it because I need someone keeping tabs on what I purchase anyways. I have days where I just want to make it rain and empty my bank account lol.
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That feel when you're more worried about revealing to your significant other that you watch pro wrestling than the fact that you have a drinking problem because you know their expression will be like:
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Posted 3/9/13

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"...if straight people had better gaydar..." + "We are everywhere..."
For some reason that made me think of this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-LgPNK0EPtE

If it were really desired that straight people have better gaydar, I suppose one could try to adapt one of those phone apps that broadcast your location and receive others', into gaydar. I wonder if such an app would be a benefit or a detriment to its users though. Knowledge and ignorance both have their dangers; such choices are never easy.

If I were smart, I'd probably start writing that app right now, I'd probably make a bundle; these days, it seems everybody wants the world to know everything about them.

The other thought is, maybe you don't realize how many straight people have suspicions, but maintain their silence? You know better than I do, of course, in your particular case.


I like the reference, and think it would be funny if you could write that app. A friend of mine could really use it. She has a terrible gaydar and has been known to try to slip her room key to men wearing women's dress slacks.

I have found that I vastly overestimate the number of straight people who suspect but maintain silence. I tend to assume that everyone can tell, but that nobody cares about my private life, which is comfortable for me. However, I have realized that this assumption is incorrect, that most people can't tell on sight, and a lot of people feel strongly about my private life, and for weird reasons.

What annoys me is feeling the need to explain myself after constant pressure to be set up with single men, demands to know my plans for marriage, and outright disbelief that I'm really not interested. And then after explaining my private life to the well-intentioned person, I have to deal with their embarrassment and listen to all the reasons why I must be mistaken, in a phase, reacting to some kind of trauma, or joking with them. Such a pain.

There's a reason I expect pretty much nothing from humanity, it makes things much more enjoyable. Hmm, things that and me nervous, not really nervous so much as a slightly annoying thing to pop up, I have mental health problems with stress and anxiety which can sometimes totally shut me down from doing certain things so whenever I want to get close to someone (relationship wise) I have to explain it to them. Since it developed during my last long term relationship and I saw the effect it had on her I think it would be unfair to do otherwise, but people sure as hell run a mile when your like 'yea I really like you but your gk nq have to accept I have a mild mental ill was if you sat anything from this'.

That and I'm vaguely scared of dogs, and all girls I seem to fall for love dogs...

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Telling my real name to people I've never met and I hate my real name. Also talking to girl when she's super cute. You think she's out of league but screw the league. If I want her, I'ma do whatever it takes. To have confident.
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I don't tell anyone about me liking anime :b
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I always get a little nervous when I tell people my religion, because people usually do one of the following:

1."Oh really?" followed by a long awkward pause and then an awkward changing of the topic like, "Nice weather today huh?"
2. "Oh" followed by them trying to convince me I'm not a real Christian (in a nice way like they are trying to save me).
3."Oh" followed by, "I can't associate with you anymore."

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Posted 3/27/13

mojojooo wrote:

I'm always too afraid to tell someone that I like them more than a friend, or that I'm crushing on them and would like to get to know them better. I'm such a whimp.


I know how that feels! But I never tell them anyway since I remember I have more important stuff to deal with, like the future x_x

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jellydrop_gravity wrote:


mojojooo wrote:

I'm always too afraid to tell someone that I like them more than a friend, or that I'm crushing on them and would like to get to know them better. I'm such a whimp.


I know how that feels! But I never tell them anyway since I remember I have more important stuff to deal with, like the future x_x



I know riiight. I've got all these plans for my life and sometimes I think: how am I supposed to make time for a man if I've got all this stuff to do?
But I guess if I really like him, we'll find a way to be together.
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I hate Jimmy Page.
Posted 3/27/13
Someone will add 2 and 2 together so I'm going to keep that to myself ).
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i woud be nervous about telling my family (besides my mom and uncle) that i'm atheist, my family members are some really white christians.
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Posted 3/27/13

mojojooo wrote:


jellydrop_gravity wrote:


mojojooo wrote:

I'm always too afraid to tell someone that I like them more than a friend, or that I'm crushing on them and would like to get to know them better. I'm such a whimp.


I know how that feels! But I never tell them anyway since I remember I have more important stuff to deal with, like the future x_x



I know riiight. I've got all these plans for my life and sometimes I think: how am I supposed to make time for a man if I've got all this stuff to do?
But I guess if I really like him, we'll find a way to be together.


Hahaha my thoughts exactly! If I were really to have children, I'd like to have one when I'm around 27. Although the most ideal age for me biologically would be at 24, but I'm totally not ready for that since I'm still going to be a med student at that time lol

Posted 3/27/13
The fact that I'm "technically" single...
I'd make up an imaginary boyfriend just to never have to tell anyone the truth. Not because I don't want to look like a loser, but because I don't want to be bothered about "finding someone." Lol.. My sister (who's the only person in my family who knows this) is already bugging me to go out with her all the time. Wanting to "introduce" me to people and shit.. It's really annoying. I don't want to hear what my parents will say when they find out... I'd probably have to run away to another country.
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Posted 3/27/13

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The fact that I'm "technically" single...
I'd make up an imaginary boyfriend just to never have to tell anyone the truth. Not because I don't want to look like a loser, but because I don't want to be bothered about "finding someone." Lol.. My sister (who's the only person in my family who knows this) is already bugging me to go out with her all the time. Wanting to "introduce" me to people and shit.. It's really annoying. I don't want to hear what my parents will say when they find out... I'd probably have to run away to another country.


Just find some random guy to pose as your boyfriend, then the two of you will end up falling for each other through a tumultuous and dramatic ordeal.... it happens in movies all the time
Posted 3/27/13

thekevin4 wrote:

Just find some random guy to pose as your boyfriend, then the two of you will end up falling for each other through a tumultuous and dramatic ordeal.... it happens in movies all the time


At the moment, my best friend is filling in that position. I do the same for him to his family... Lol
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