If you are going to cheat, there is rules that need to be followed!
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So, I was at the bar tonight and this girl came to me and pretty much flirted with me the whole night. Later on that night she tells me she is married. So, I took that as she just out having a good time with her friends, no big deal. Few drinks later she come to me and asks to go outside. Now she is telling me to call her tomorrow and acting like we are really going to start talking. Honostly wtf?!?! Come on, I know what I did was wrong but at the same time she is the cheater. She was going to do it reguardless, it just happened to be with me. I can't honostly think of what she thinks this going to amount too. Now i'm stuck trying to decided should I tell her look it was one night or just ignore her.
Posted 3/8/13

rasslin wrote:

So, I was at the bar tonight and this girl came to me and pretty much flirted with me the whole night. Later on that night she tells me she is married. So, I took that as she just out having a good time with her friends, no big deal. Few drinks later she come to me and asks to go outside. We ended up in my car and had "alone time". Now she is telling me to call her tomorrow and acting like we are really going to start talking. Honostly wtf?!?! Come on, I know what I did was wrong but at the same time she is the cheater. She was going to do it reguardless, it just happened to be with me. I can't honostly think of what she thinks this going to amount too. Now i'm stuck trying to decided should I tell her look it was one night or just ignore her.


I think you should do what you think is right. If you don't like her harrassing you, then you should tell her "It was a one night thing." Although I think since she has such a big reaction to what you did with her... Umm.. She might take that badly so you should put it nicely. And also, if that sounds bothersome, then you should just ignore her!

You can do either.

Hope that things go well!
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I cheat sometimes, at video games and only in single player...(do you know how ridiculously hard some games are jeez). As to the actual question, I'd almost consider it a joke, but sadly no, it almost never is. People can and will do whatever they want regardless of what is appropriate. Even then, don't fool yourself into thinking that cheating is okay, even if many people do it, it's still wrong. Regardless of that fact however, many people don't seem to care much about such things, and if that's how they are then so be it. Obviously she fits into the latter category as you likely do, but people make their own choices and must live with the consequences if or when they do show up.
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Posted 3/8/13

rasslin wrote:

So, I was at the bar tonight and this girl came to me and pretty much flirted with me the whole night. Later on that night she tells me she is married. So, I took that as she just out having a good time with her friends, no big deal. Few drinks later she come to me and asks to go outside. We ended up in my car and had "alone time". Now she is telling me to call her tomorrow and acting like we are really going to start talking. Honostly wtf?!?! Come on, I know what I did was wrong but at the same time she is the cheater. She was going to do it reguardless, it just happened to be with me. I can't honostly think of what she thinks this going to amount too. Now i'm stuck trying to decided should I tell her look it was one night or just ignore her.


The fact that you knew before hand makes you just as sleazy as she is. And no, if you remember it, you weren't drunk enough to even start to use that as an excuse. I like to believe in karma, so I hope you're prepared to have it come back at you 100 fold.
Posted 3/8/13
Just ignore her and she will get the idea pretty quick. It is pretty simple really.
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Whatever man, you got your one nighter, just ignore her, and she'll get over it.
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justanotherguy_2005 wrote:

Just ignore her and she will get the idea pretty quick. It is pretty simple really.


My 14 years have taught me that where human beings are concerned it is rarely simple. What if ignoring her becomes the trigger mechanism turning her into a psychotic stalker?

Posted 3/8/13

trinkit wrote:


justanotherguy_2005 wrote:

Just ignore her and she will get the idea pretty quick. It is pretty simple really.


My 14 years have taught me that where human beings are concerned it is rarely simple. What if ignoring her becomes the trigger mechanism turning her into a psychotic stalker?


Then I say his life just got more exciting and he can just say he was so good that night he drove her crazy literally. I also always say you aren't cool until you have your own stalker. The one night stand married stalker is extremely rare though so I doubt there is any issue with that.
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