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Posted 5/12/08 , edited 5/12/08
negative feeling: fear.. a big fear.. haha I had some bad moments recently( health problems... but I have the feeling I ve grown up from this little experiment)
positive feeling:a pure feeling of joy and happiness with my mom. One of the rare persons who is able to make me laugh like that
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hey i like that you included both a negative feeling and a positive one. i didn't realize that you had health problems... are they serious?
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Posted 5/16/08

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hey i like that you included both a negative feeling and a positive one. i didn't realize that you had health problems... are they serious?


I think I will keep it quiet.. because I used to talk too much about it (it's a bad habit and it won't solve the problem talking about ) I was shocked, but now I don't care anymore... there are more important things in life than that
but thanks for your concern ...
and I think that it's important to add both type of feelings.. it would be too easy to say.. I am happy.. or I am sad.. I am both!!
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ya i know the feeling i get tired of talking about my past, it used to old emotional feeling for me, now it's cold facts with absolutley no attachment to me... but that may also be my defence mechanism of my mind kicking in...
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ya i know the feeling i get tired of talking about my past, it used to old emotional feeling for me, now it's cold facts with absolutley no attachment to me... but that may also be my defence mechanism of my mind kicking in...

I get what you mean too,and I agree
it pissed me off, but not because I am repeating the same story over and over .. I am angry against me: . I prefer being stronger than that and pity doesn't solve anything. people will feel sorry for you and be worried ....so finally you create problems to others and you haven't solved yours. When I am starting talking about it... I always regret. I don't know .
but at the same time I don't think that's good to keep all. I mean you have to find someone trustworthy to be able to complain and so on.
complaining is good way to sort out your thoughts and your heart is lighter after that. but you have to find a good person( and I am not convinced that bf or gf are the good one... close friends are maybe more able to listen your complain )

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i don't like to complain... i think it just means you can;t do it yourself. i would rather be able to do things myself, it may be difficult or impossible, i realize somethings can't be done by yourself, but it's the best way to discover yourself. as far as the people i would share my secrets with, i think i would be likely to share my inner most thoughts and feelings with a stranger. they might be the least judgemental of all, people that know me might alter their thoughts or opinions based on my relationship with them. i think it would be best if i didn't know them, because i might speak without fear of persecution from family or friends. i don't know if this is making sense...
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