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Is Cuddling Overrated or Underrated?
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Hey everyone...so I was just curious...do you think cuddling with the person you like is not as fun as doing something else or perhaps is the best thing ever??? I personally think cuddling is the best thing ever and many of my friends make fun of me for it since I'm a guy... so yeah, what are your opinions on it?
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I think cuddling is pretty gay, I don't even like saying the word because it just make me feel gross.
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I think it's fun.
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AllTsunNoDere wrote:

I think cuddling is pretty gay, I don't even like saying the word because it just make me feel gross.


I never understood why some people are uncomfortable with cuddling. I think most people who are uncomfortable being close and touching are just repressing themselves. Every other species on the planet is comfortable with touching and being close to one another. It is an important method of communication which demonstrates a bond and trust between people. Plus it just feels good.

Half the people who hate touching others will let their dog slobber all over them, which is disgusting to me considering that dogs do not have toilet paper, they have tongues.
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Posted 3/22/13

creightonja wrote:


AllTsunNoDere wrote:

I think cuddling is pretty gay, I don't even like saying the word because it just make me feel gross.


I never understood why some people are uncomfortable with cuddling. I think most people who are uncomfortable being close and touching are just repressing themselves. Every other species on the planet is comfortable with touching and being close to one another. It is an important method of communication which demonstrates a bond and trust between people. Plus it just feels good.

Half the people who hate touching others will let their dog slobber all over them, which is disgusting to me considering that dogs do not have toilet paper, they have tongues.


It's just weird, I don't want people touching and groping all over me.
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Posted 3/22/13

AllTsunNoDere wrote:


creightonja wrote:


AllTsunNoDere wrote:

I think cuddling is pretty gay, I don't even like saying the word because it just make me feel gross.


I never understood why some people are uncomfortable with cuddling. I think most people who are uncomfortable being close and touching are just repressing themselves. Every other species on the planet is comfortable with touching and being close to one another. It is an important method of communication which demonstrates a bond and trust between people. Plus it just feels good.

Half the people who hate touching others will let their dog slobber all over them, which is disgusting to me considering that dogs do not have toilet paper, they have tongues.


It's just weird, I don't want people touching and groping all over me.


When you say people, it sounds like you believe there is no difference between anonymous people and those you are intimate with. I enjoy touching and being touched. But I suppose it might be uncomfortable if you were uncomfortable with your body.
Posted 3/22/13

AllTsunNoDere wrote:

I think cuddling is pretty gay, I don't even like saying the word because it just make me feel gross.


I Agree.
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Posted 3/22/13
NAW its underrated for sure. Best thing ever.
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Never. EVER underestimate the value of cuddling. Trust me on this. I've had a LOT of experience. The closeness you develop in cuddling can NOT be calculated. I would give ANYTHING to be able to cuddle with my wife now. Cuddling really develops a bond that, if your relationship is real, is unbreakable. Just the feel of the one you love can do wonders for your confidence,. I could simply look at my wife and just know deep down that no matter how bad things got, it WILL be ok. I might be an old guy, but that just means I have a whole lot of experience. If all you have is a physical (sexual) relationship, it can come apart rather easily. But if you have more than that, NOTHING can separate you. My late wife and I went through hell and back, and we were together for 23 years. Meanwhile, her son and brother went through a total of 11 different relationships. I would give my soul just to be with her one more day. THAT'S how close we were. To those who think that cuddling is gay, or whatever, you don't know what you're missing.
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bebophitchhiker wrote:

Never. EVER underestimate the value of cuddling. Trust me on this. I've had a LOT of experience. The closeness you develop in cuddling can NOT be calculated. I would give ANYTHING to be able to cuddle with my wife now. Cuddling really develops a bond that, if your relationship is real, is unbreakable. Just the feel of the one you love can do wonders for your confidence,. I could simply look at my wife and just know deep down that no matter how bad things got, it WILL be ok. I might be an old guy, but that just means I have a whole lot of experience. If all you have is a physical (sexual) relationship, it can come apart rather easily. But if you have more than that, NOTHING can separate you. My late wife and I went through hell and back, and we were together for 23 years. Meanwhile, her son and brother went through a total of 11 different relationships. I would give my soul just to be with her one more day. THAT'S how close we were. To those who think that cuddling is gay, or whatever, you don't know what you're missing.


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Posted 3/22/13

Your username fits what you're saying.
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Kiritoe wrote:


Your username fits what you're saying.


thank
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Posted 3/22/13 , edited 3/22/13

AllTsunNoDere wrote:


Kiritoe wrote:


Your username fits what you're saying.


thank


you


Also, who deleted my cuddlefish?! It had everything to do with this thread! Arghh!
Posted 3/22/13
Physical closeness releases oxytocin and possibly HIV.
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Shrapnel893 wrote:


AllTsunNoDere wrote:


Kiritoe wrote:


Your username fits what you're saying.


thank


you


No, just "thank"
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