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What is the most important thing in a love relationship of which we have to be aware?
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Posted 6/19/07
its trust! if you don't trust...things will fall apart
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31 / M / Iloilo City, PH
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definitely trust...

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No idea. Never experienced it, thus I wouldn't know.
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But from an outsider's point of view I think it's trust, and acceptance of each other's flaws.

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Trust is important. But it is also important that you make eachother laugh. It's no good if you trust one another but your relationship is so boring coz you never laugh.
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Love is the only virtue that cannot stand alone...for me it's 3 things...understanding, trust and respect...you have to understand to accept...once you have accepted it's easy to trust...but not everything is understandable...this is where respect comes in...
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Posted 7/15/07
Honesty is the most important thing. That also lies within trust. So they kind of come wrapped up into one.
Without honesty you have no trust.
Without trust you can't have respect.
Without any of these things, then you can't have a successful relationship.
Also being on the same page for major issues.
IE, i was on the border about having children, even though i thought i couldn't have children. He was ademently against them. I knew this, but since i didn't think i could have children, it was a kind of mute point.
When i missed my monthly for a few months, i really didn't think anything of it, since i was under a great deal of stress (homeless, living in my car, with a cat, and working as a bouncer for a private lingerie modelling agency - self esteem was nil) I took a pregnancy test on a whim with my best friend (she thought she was pregnant, so i took onw with her, so she'd fell better - dont' ask)
When i discovered i was pregnant, i did the math. I was four months along. (i had been wondering why i was craving onion rings so much )
I couldn't have an abortion, as i had already had one and what had happened during that abortion is what made me think i couldn't have children. So i was figureing out my other options, and knew i needed to tell him.
So, telling him I was pregnant and wasn't going to abort it, he became very upset, and basically shut me out of his mind and heart.
The moral of this story?
Know how your significant other feels about all important issues. and respect his or her thoughts no matter how hurt they make you.
I realised that he wasn't the guy for me. I may have loved him, but bringing a major issue between us, changed our relationship forever.
He and i are friends, and he's getting used to the idea of being a father (our daughter is four - see my profile for pics of her)
But not knowing and deluding myself into thinking i could change him, was the killer for us.
People are people and no matter what YOU aren't going to change someone, they change themselves.

*note - Sorry for the ramble.
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28 / M / 뉴욕- New jersey
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Posted 7/15/07
Try not to go overboard, and trust.
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25 / M / Oregon
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Posted 7/15/07
I believe the most important things are trust, respect, laughter, and commitment.
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35 / M / US
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Compromise..
Posted 7/15/07
Love yourself. If you don't you can't love anybody else, you'll just be using the other person as a mask for your own insecurities.
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34 / F / US, east coast
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Posted 7/15/07
honesty/trust
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33 / F / tuaran
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Posted 7/16/07
it's about trust,loyalty,honesty and sharing....when we're in love relationship we have to stay with these 4 things....if not...it will be over soon.
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Posted 7/16/07
honesty and trust.
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Trust, honesty, and true love.
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26 / F / Philippines
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Posted 7/18/07
Patience and honesty
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