Long Distance Relationship Advice
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Greetings!

Last week I get a friend request on Facebook from a friends daughter (friend is in 50's, she is 27 which is the same age as me). I shrug my shoulders, accept it, and go on with my daily life. Friday, she sends me a message on facebook with the usual greeting, but it was almost like she was greeting me on one of those dating sites, it was a bit weird. I give her my typical friendly advice, then I go and look on her profile.... she's fucking gorgeous (no I won't post pictures.) We talk back and forth about our various interests, and she sends me some pictures because she does not have a lot on her facebook profile. I send her pictures, we start flirting, ect, ect, ect. She is pretty in to me, I am pretty into her. She's got a great personality as well, I mean she is really nice.

The bad part. She lives four hours away from me. Thankfully it's not much of a distance. In fact, the distance is both good and bad. The good, is I have a lot going on in my life right now, my schedule is pretty busy so the corresponding at the moment by facebook/skype is going to be the best for me, and her (she works insane hours.) The bad part, we really want to see each other, what a catch 22.

I want advice how to maintain a healthy long distance relationship. We will see each other, but not nearly as often as we would like. We both have obligations where we live, if things went really well I would move up where she is in the future. I need to stay sane in the mean time. and try to make this work the best I can.
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Posted 4/23/13

scottsm wrote:

Greetings!

Last week I get a friend request on Facebook from a friends daughter (friend is in 50's, she is 27 which is the same age as me). I shrug my shoulders, accept it, and go on with my daily life. Friday, she sends me a message on facebook with the usual greeting, but it was almost like she was greeting me on one of those dating sites, it was a bit weird. I give her my typical friendly advice, then I go and look on her profile.... she's fucking gorgeous (no I won't post pictures.) We talk back and forth about our various interests, and she sends me some pictures because she does not have a lot on her facebook profile. I send her pictures, we start flirting, ect, ect, ect. She is pretty in to me, I am pretty into her. She's got a great personality as well, I mean she is really nice.

The bad part. She lives four hours away from me. Thankfully it's not much of a distance. In fact, the distance is both good and bad. The good, is I have a lot going on in my life right now, my schedule is pretty busy so the corresponding at the moment by facebook/skype is going to be the best for me, and her (she works insane hours.) The bad part, we really want to see each other, what a catch 22.

I want advice how to maintain a healthy long distance relationship. We will see each other, but not nearly as often as we would like. We both have obligations where we live, if things went really well I would move up where she is in the future. I need to stay sane in the mean time. and try to make this work the best I can.


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