I can not figure out whether or not this girl likes me
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There's this girl i met at my work place. I approached her first and I'm sure we hit it off. But after that I've been noticing she never initiates the conversation or approaches me unless i speak first. Lately its just me talking to her about stuff and she barely really says much. I talk about myself and try to subtly get her to talk about herself, but she barely does since those first few days we talked unless i ask about how her day went and such and such. I've told her i wanted to hang out with her, but due to things already going on in my life its on the backburner and she never so much gives me any indication that she wants to hang out.
I really don't know where to go from here. Should i just ask her how she feels about me or like give her the cold shoulder to see if she'll start a conversation. A conversation is a two way street and i feel like I'm treading on both streets tirelessly without any feedback. I really need your insight. And thank you for whatever insight you may have cause i could i really use it.
Posted 4/24/13 , edited 4/24/13

ChewysPeanuts wrote:

There's this girl i met at my work place. I approached her first and I'm sure we hit it off. But after that I've been noticing she never initiates the conversation or approaches me unless i speak first. Lately its just me talking to her about stuff and she barely really says much. I talk about myself and try to subtly get her to talk about herself, but she barely does since those first few days we talked unless i ask about how her day went and such and such. I've told her i wanted to hang out with her, but due to things already going on in my life its on the backburner and she never so much gives me any indication that she wants to hang out.
I really don't know where to go from here. Should i just ask her how she feels about me or like give her the cold shoulder to see if she'll start a conversation. A conversation is a two way street and i feel like I'm treading on both streets tirelessly without any feedback. I really need your insight. And thank you for whatever insight you may have cause i could i really use it.


Question: is she a shy person?

Edit: *sigh* somebody reported your post to moderators so i may not get the chance to help/give advice if this thread is closed.

If she's shy: She might get nervous talking to you. So, just try to be her friend and get deeper convos out of her.

If she's not shy: If it was me I wouldn't try to push anything. If girls don't even try to talk to me they're not worth the effort Just lay back, relax, and see where things go.
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ChewysPeanuts wrote:

There's this girl i met at my work place. I approached her first and I'm sure we hit it off. But after that I've been noticing she never initiates the conversation or approaches me unless i speak first. Lately its just me talking to her about stuff and she barely really says much. I talk about myself and try to subtly get her to talk about herself, but she barely does since those first few days we talked unless i ask about how her day went and such and such. I've told her i wanted to hang out with her, but due to things already going on in my life its on the backburner and she never so much gives me any indication that she wants to hang out.
I really don't know where to go from here. Should i just ask her how she feels about me or like give her the cold shoulder to see if she'll start a conversation. A conversation is a two way street and i feel like I'm treading on both streets tirelessly without any feedback. I really need your insight. And thank you for whatever insight you may have cause i could i really use it.


Personal threads are not allowed. Please post in the following thread as it is the right thread for you to post your problem in (like in your case, relationship advice). The users in that thread will be able to help you better as well:

http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-1099/the-general-helpadvice-thread

Thus I am going to have to close this thread. For reasons why I am closing your thread, see #8 in the following thread link:

http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-406095/crunchyroll-site-forum-rules

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