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Younger guys that date women around my age group
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Posted 4/29/13
I see the opposite around here... I see girls my age, (16-17 y/o) dating 21-25 year olds. They're just desperate for some action, (if you know what I mean,) and they think they won't find any in adolescent boys. Young people are sick, regardless of gender, if that's how it is.
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I know how you feel. Not old, per se, but I see some weird relationships. My personal limit is three years younger and NONE older. I have a problem with age, and that fits in with my whole idea of domination. Older than me= more life experience = better arguing= easier time fucking me over in arguments and destroying the balance of the game I have so carefully set up. I love to win in the relationship. I'm not greedy and selfish, but rather I like to be on top, and older women don't exactly give me that luxury.

TL;DR: This is just for the rare 1 lazyass out there. I hate cougars. good eye candy, but in my personal experience and opinion(yeah, that means a lot on the internet), not good for relationships, considering how I am.

I just...I just don't get it. Is it pride or some shit? Oh look guys, I got a bangin' forty year old, and we are fucking like rabbits every night!

It's just...I feel odd looking at the youth of my generation. Some of our fellow Seniors look at our teachers with treacherous eyes, and I think. Dude she's married, and there's like 50 girls who wanna jump on your dick already. What the fuck is your problem? And some of these same Seniors are dating people a little over their spectrum already.

I'll admit that I agree with you on that. My generation is probably the most blatant displayer of the "I'm a badass" tag. We have some arrogant fucks at our school, and I know it will only get worse with time. Sorry if I offend any semi-oldies with my rambling, it's habitual, and I'm not trying to sympathize with other genuine men out there.

And besides. Older women are like kids. I have no intention of dealing with them. They are currently out of my league. Unless my mind undergoes a drastic change(which it won't, as my fantasies and tastes were set in stone about three years ago), I will never be one of the twisted individuals in a cougar relationship. Kudos to you guys out there who can do that. Whatever floats your boat. But it's still fucking stupid.
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chrome_mist wrote:


TheRealEscargotpudding wrote:


I can see the appeal of dating someone older, but I wonder why would the older woman date an immature teenager/young adult?



Young, fresh dick.






I lold so hard.
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Zachman wrote:

I know how you feel. Not old, per se, but I see some weird relationships. My personal limit is three years younger and NONE older. I have a problem with age, and that fits in with my whole idea of domination. Older than me= more life experience = better arguing= easier time fucking me over in arguments and destroying the balance of the game I have so carefully set up. I love to win in the relationship. I'm not greedy and selfish, but rather I like to be on top, and older women don't exactly give me that luxury.

TL;DR: This is just for the rare 1 lazyass out there. I hate cougars. good eye candy, but in my personal experience and opinion(yeah, that means a lot on the internet), not good for relationships, considering how I am.

I just...I just don't get it. Is it pride or some shit? Oh look guys, I got a bangin' forty year old, and we are fucking like rabbits every night!

It's just...I feel odd looking at the youth of my generation. Some of our fellow Seniors look at our teachers with treacherous eyes, and I think. Dude she's married, and there's like 50 girls who wanna jump on your dick already. What the fuck is your problem? And some of these same Seniors are dating people a little over their spectrum already.

I'll admit that I agree with you on that. My generation is probably the most blatant displayer of the "I'm a badass" tag. We have some arrogant fucks at our school, and I know it will only get worse with time. Sorry if I offend any semi-oldies with my rambling, it's habitual, and I'm not trying to sympathize with other genuine men out there.

And besides. Older women are like kids. I have no intention of dealing with them. They are currently out of my league. Unless my mind undergoes a drastic change(which it won't, as my fantasies and tastes were set in stone about three years ago), I will never be one of the twisted individuals in a cougar relationship. Kudos to you guys out there who can do that. Whatever floats your boat. But it's still fucking stupid.



Get better at the game. You can absolutely have all the benefits of dating someone older, and still be the dominant personality within the relationship. Just because someone has more personal experience doesn't mean they've learned anything from it. Experience comes from bad decisions, bad decisions come from lack of experience but neither necessarily generates wisdom.

As far as cougars go...they're bat shit crazy usually.

Also yes, this generation sucks. Many claim confidence, but confidence without ability/experience is as you stated, arrogance.

Lastly, cougars can be a bonus - usually no strings and an easy exit. My bud only dated cougars through college and got all 4 years paid for by them as well as a motorcycle and a car. Sure he had to deal with some truly crazy older women, but they were always synthetically enhanced and looked great.
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25 and have always dated at least a year or two around my age. I can see the positives of dating someone older but there are a ton of older people that you would think are pretty immature. Knew this one chick that was 22 and dating a 30 year old. If she never told me his age, I would have never guessed this guy was ancient lol.

Age really isn't a big deal once you hit 21 but once you hit that 4+ year difference, that's when you say "no." Gotta be SOME kind of limits fo sho.
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i dont get the whole older women thing i liek mine young.........REAL YOUNG
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Well, I've never dated older women, Or just women in general... but I suppose the attraction would be the preexisting real life experience of the woman. That or just some guys find older more women attractive than ones of the same age or younger.
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LiquidMercury wrote:


Zachman wrote:

I know how you feel. Not old, per se, but I see some weird relationships. My personal limit is three years younger and NONE older. I have a problem with age, and that fits in with my whole idea of domination. Older than me= more life experience = better arguing= easier time fucking me over in arguments and destroying the balance of the game I have so carefully set up. I love to win in the relationship. I'm not greedy and selfish, but rather I like to be on top, and older women don't exactly give me that luxury.

TL;DR: This is just for the rare 1 lazyass out there. I hate cougars. good eye candy, but in my personal experience and opinion(yeah, that means a lot on the internet), not good for relationships, considering how I am.

I just...I just don't get it. Is it pride or some shit? Oh look guys, I got a bangin' forty year old, and we are fucking like rabbits every night!

It's just...I feel odd looking at the youth of my generation. Some of our fellow Seniors look at our teachers with treacherous eyes, and I think. Dude she's married, and there's like 50 girls who wanna jump on your dick already. What the fuck is your problem? And some of these same Seniors are dating people a little over their spectrum already.

I'll admit that I agree with you on that. My generation is probably the most blatant displayer of the "I'm a badass" tag. We have some arrogant fucks at our school, and I know it will only get worse with time. Sorry if I offend any semi-oldies with my rambling, it's habitual, and I'm not trying to sympathize with other genuine men out there.

And besides. Older women are like kids. I have no intention of dealing with them. They are currently out of my league. Unless my mind undergoes a drastic change(which it won't, as my fantasies and tastes were set in stone about three years ago), I will never be one of the twisted individuals in a cougar relationship. Kudos to you guys out there who can do that. Whatever floats your boat. But it's still fucking stupid.



Get better at the game. You can absolutely have all the benefits of dating someone older, and still be the dominant personality within the relationship. Just because someone has more personal experience doesn't mean they've learned anything from it. Experience comes from bad decisions, bad decisions come from lack of experience but neither necessarily generates wisdom.

As far as cougars go...they're bat shit crazy usually.

Also yes, this generation sucks. Many claim confidence, but confidence without ability/experience is as you stated, arrogance.

Lastly, cougars can be a bonus - usually no strings and an easy exit. My bud only dated cougars through college and got all 4 years paid for by them as well as a motorcycle and a car. Sure he had to deal with some truly crazy older women, but they were always synthetically enhanced and looked great.


It's the premise of her being older than me that seals it for the most part. I can never get over age. It's one of those trivial things that to this day never ceases to irritate the fuck out of me. I'm glad to hear they're all crazy. I don't give a DAMN what kind of college I can get through if it's gonna have me pulling my hair out in the process. If I ever get the patience and don't get fucked into a bad relationship I might take one for a spin but that's about it.

It's nice to get another person's view on it, especially serious. Thanks for the response though. I hardly ever get replies; I just asume people didn't see it or were like "WHAT THE FUCK?" and moved on.
Posted 4/29/13
Well, someone feels threatened...
So what should you do? Go and cry in a forum about it...

Yeah..... I'm sure women your age find that VERY attractive.
Posted 4/29/13

DeckardXLeah wrote:

merked dat man dem? sounds very childish to me


Posted 4/29/13 , edited 4/29/13

Pomff wrote:

I'm engaged to a cougar, get @ me bro.



LUCKY. I've always wanted to date an older woman but I look too much like a kid I guess. A beard adds like three years to my appearance but without beard I look like my mom should be picking me up from school. DANG MY LEONARDO DICAPRIO YOUTH FACE!!!


DeckardXLeah wrote:

I hate them. Young people these days are so god damn arrogant.


Yep. I agree. Everyone I went to high school with thought it was 'cool' to be a a hole to the teachers just for the heck of it. Like start a argument or get them pissed for no other reason than they wanted to sound smarter than the teacher. It really pissed me off. I'm not teacher's pet or anything, it was just the fact of being respectful of other people and to people older than you.

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Pomff wrote:

I'm engaged to a cougar, get @ me bro.


LUCKY. I've always wanted to date an older woman but I look too much like a kid I guess. A beard adds like three years to my appearance but without beard I look like my mom should be picking me up from school. DANG MY LEONARDO DICAPRIO YOUTH FACE!!!


While I won't claim to be an expert on cougars I do know that at least some of them like younger looking men. If memory serves my friend's mom, at his wedding, said to me that she wanted a man who looked fresh faced because it would be more fun for her that way. Dunno what that means exactly but it sounds relevant.

I haven't really changed appearance wise since I was 16-17 years old, and I look how you'd expect a 16-17 year old girl to look if she were decently endowed, so a youthful appearance didn't stop me. Although neither of us went into the relationship looking for a cougar or a kitten, it just happened to work out that way.
Posted 4/29/13 , edited 4/29/13

Pomff wrote:


chase6565 wrote:


Pomff wrote:

I'm engaged to a cougar, get @ me bro.


LUCKY. I've always wanted to date an older woman but I look too much like a kid I guess. A beard adds like three years to my appearance but without beard I look like my mom should be picking me up from school. DANG MY LEONARDO DICAPRIO YOUTH FACE!!!


While I won't claim to be an expert on cougars I do know that at least some of them like younger looking men. If memory serves my friend's mom, at his wedding, said to me that she wanted a man who looked fresh faced because it would be more fun for her that way. Dunno what that means exactly but it sounds relevant.

I haven't really changed appearance wise since I was 16-17 years old, and I look how you'd expect a 16-17 year old girl to look if she were decently endowed, so a youthful appearance didn't stop me. Although neither of us went into the relationship looking for a cougar or a kitten, it just happened to work out that way.


Oh my gosh really?!?! So I've still got hope then!!! lol thank you. I figured cougars went for the younger but somewhat mature looking younger men if they were looking. But hey, my face is definitely very youthful (or fresh as that woman said? too youthful sometimes) but looks like I can make it work.

I'M BACK ON THE HUNT:





PhyongHwa wrote:

All this sounds so icky to me. Anyway, I read that men reach their sexual peak around age 18, and women around age 30, so maybe that explains it all.



Whoa. That's actually a pretty cool fact.

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