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Would you date a pretty but very weird person?
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He or She doesn't have to be pretty for me to date them. Just loving.
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He or She doesn't have to be pretty for me to date them. Just loving.


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Depends what kind of weird, and yes, it matters.
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I Agree to the one above ^
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Well definitely. There are attributes to weird people, as well as normal people, what make them very interesting and fun to be with. And in the end, dating is about finding that special person to spend the rest of your life with. So, dating someone who's weird, bearing in mind that you might live for the rest of your life with her, is like an added bonus. It's something like: "hey, this person isn't a conformist, her weirdness is even awesome sometimes, and I can learn to love whatever oddities come from that."
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I only date weird people. Which is why I don't date that many people.

v I stole that gif, thanks. Oh, and the hug was nice too.
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I only date weird people. Which is why I don't date that many people.


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Been there; have done that. These kind of relationships are interesting for a while until someone's boundaries descend and erode into a constant state of anxiety, jealousy, rage, depression. If you are so inclined and desire someone else's issues confronting you from all directions instead of just 1 or 2 24/7 then the more weird the better, I suppose. You will not be bored, ever. But there will come a time when you will wind up at the crossroad of truths within yourself that can determine whether the life path you seek with this enigmatic personality is giving you what you want. If your tradeoff maintaining this "relationship" is three new insecurities that arise from that person's subconscious overnight after the current "problem" gets resolved amicably between you eventually you come to realize that there will never be a happy transition, desire, or fulfillment for the time you have invested. The goal of finding that intrinsic connection in this individual, warts and all, is unattainable. As a knight your shining armor will get rusty and the white steed will get old and weary of new rescuing pursuits.

Dating weirds is the same as a poker game. You have to know when to hold them, know when to fold them.

PS: Not that it matters but in my dating past I did meet 3 very interesting, smart, degreed, dynamic, female personalities that would probably fit this label "weird". Almost married one of them too but I had to call the wedding off 5 days before the commitment. Manic-depressives live in their own special form of Hell. Unless you have the patience of Job, large bank balance (to afford the professional help they really need), exceptional intestinal fortitude (just being a knight on a white horse rescuing people won't cut it, this is a"long haul" long term commitment with the possibility of no eternity you desire) do try to avoid setting yourself up into a relationship destined to fail.
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Most of my girlfriends have been super cute but batshit crazy. I seem to have a thing for yanderes. Plenty have been strippers (yay, strippers!) but to the best of my knowledge I have not dated any hookers. I refuse to date drug addicts anymore because I can't handle their bullshit.
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Totally depends on how weird and how pretty.
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The drug part...I've seen a lot of people, who used to be great friends, stray off of a good path because of drugs. Not even hard ones, weed, and alcohol, so it's likely a no for me.
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say is someone you know a very long time she's pretty, but she earns a livelihood in ways frowned upon by society OBVIOUSLY you know what this person's livelihood is, also you know she occasionally uses drugs. Do you think you can still have a meaningful relationship with such a person?






Well, what you describe doesn't sound weird. Just illegal. While I do think it's possible to be attracted to someone as you described. Having a healthy relationship (if that's what you mean by meaningful) is most likely a no for anyone looking for a healthy relationship. But if you're one of those people that would like to play the hero and rescue the damsel then I guess it wouldn't matter all that much.

Posted 4/30/13
Everyone is weird in many ways : ) ~ kinda depends on how that person acts . so yeah its ok to date one ^ ^
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It depends on how many garbage bags I would need to move the body...
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SaviourMK2 wrote:

He or She doesn't have to be pretty for me to date them. Just loving.


brings a tear to my eye


Hahaha oh man, you take the piss
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