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Would you date a pretty but very weird person?
Posted 4/30/13
Definitely. I'm pretty weird too, so hopefully we can relate with each other. But if it's too intense, then probably not. Two negatives do not make a positive. Only in mathematical terms, not applied to real life. o3o
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Posted 4/30/13
If they are psychologically disturbed, no. If they are total assholes, no. If they have a messed up past they think I can fix, no.

You yourself have to be weird if you are drawn to people that do drugs. So with your defintion, I wouldn't date someone who is "weird"
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Posted 4/30/13

sizzlingmochi wrote:

If they are psychologically disturbed, no. If they are total assholes, no. If they have a messed up past they think I can fix, no.

You yourself have to be weird if you are drawn to people that do drugs. So with your defintion, I wouldn't date someone who is "weird"


Very well said. This is my answer too.
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Posted 4/30/13
What is weird? Nobody dates me because I hiss at them, which is pretty weird in itself, haha.
Posted 4/30/13
I would not. I'd also recommend that others don't, either. A person shouldn't identify as 'weird' just because they are different from others. They should identify as his or her own self. Those who can't be themselves without separating from reality and going off the deep end (which in this case, may include drugs) - they're poison. Sure, doesn't mean you can't help them - but don't date them. It isn't easy to find someone who is either like you or intriguing and is pretty and has their stuff together - but that's what makes life interesting, I guess.
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Posted 4/30/13
Both me and my bf are super weird! Which is why we're inseparable. <3
Posted 5/1/13
Dude... I bounce all ova weird..
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29 / M / Kentucky
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Posted 5/1/13
You know its funny cause you could call someone else weird but in reality from their end you're the weird one. If you have social norms burned so far into your skull that you have lost any shred of individuality other than fashion... then who really is the weird one?
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32 / M / "Spaaaaace!"
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Posted 5/1/13
I've never met a sane female before.
Posted 5/1/13
I know a girl who is socially awkward, but is extremely pretty but i don't know her inside out so i wouldn't date her, if i knew her personality and liked that then yes i would.
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21 / M / Ljubljana SI, EU
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Posted 5/2/13
We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.
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Posted 5/2/13

DeckardXLeah wrote:

say is someone you know a very long time she's pretty, but she earns a livelihood in ways frowned upon by society OBVIOUSLY you know what this person's livelihood is, also you know she occasionally uses drugs. Do you think you can still have a meaningful relationship with such a person?



Do you mean a serious relationship, or just friends? Those must be some pretty powerful rose-colored glasses that you're wearing. What you are talking about is not weird. Weird is like covered from head to toes in piercings & tattoos, or has an obsession with something...like Anime (jk ). What you're talking about is someone with a messed up life....Okay maybe, for a friend, but as a serious relationship, you're just inviting trouble into your life... including the kind that can get you killed. Usually with drug users, their #1 priority is supporting their drug habit. Anything or anyone else is 2nd. Don't go thinking you can change her, or "save" her either. She's got to do that/want that herself to make it work.
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Posted 5/2/13
Weird people are fun to be around (like me). Meh normal people tend to be boring and kind of hostile from my experience. They try too hard to be mature.
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Posted 5/2/13
I could never date a boy who wasn't as peculiar as I am.
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26 / M / Finland
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Posted 5/2/13
Both "very weird" and "occasionally uses drugs" are such vague terms, that there's no way to objectively answer to the question. Weird in which way? Uses how often? What drugs? I'll compare it to pouring liquid into your throat: Best case scenario in all of the questions (and best case in this is subjective, so I'll give no right answers to those), you're drinking a glass of water. Worst case scenario, you're chugging down sulfuric acid in amounts equivalent to Niagara Falls. Special annoyance goes to the use of "drugs" as a blanket term. No answer from me.
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