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Looking For a Japanese Girlfriend!!!
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Posted 6/9/13

Satoshi- wrote:



Now that would be crazy. I'm not sure what I would do lol.


What any rational person would do; Piss yourself and scream like a little girl.
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Posted 6/12/13
If Japanese aesthetics are what you like then by all means to each their own but overall if you are specifically looking for a Japanese girlfriend solely for that reason then you are not going about it the right way.

Reading through this thread I just noticed a few people sharing their experiences with them and from what I could gather it seems like a lot of the Japanese culture didn't fit with the American culture. The main thing here would be to know what you are looking for in terms of similarities, I mean if you date this woman from Japan and she has entirely different beliefs than you then you know there is going to a lot of disagreements in the relationship.

Make sure to at least look for someone you actually have things in common with or at least similar ideals. While initially you may be woo'd by the looks of Japanese women in the long run she might not be right for you which is something you could have figured out before your variable amount of invested time.
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30 / M / CALI
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Posted 6/19/13
lol
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22 / M / USA Tracy or Live...
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Posted 6/21/13

BearSol wrote:


Satoshi- wrote:



Now that would be crazy. I'm not sure what I would do lol.


What any rational person would do; Piss yourself and scream like a little girl.


Yeah I guess I would ha.

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Posted 6/25/13
yep, dealing with the disparities in culture/miscommunications is bothersome @ times, but...

mediating these issues depends on individuals' willingness & their bond; gradually learning to understand your lover is quite beautiful.

anywayz, good luck bro
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37 / M / Maryland
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Posted 6/27/13
It would be nice but i am not holding my breath on that. what ever happens happens. I have other things to worry about.
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25 / M / America
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Posted 7/8/13
lol i love the question and all the answers. ha great
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18 / F / Fortree City, Hoenn
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Posted 7/13/13
Wow... This clearly has to be the most ridiculous thread I've ever come across.
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21 / M / Dallas Tx
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Posted 7/25/13
I understand the differences between dating someone who is from a different place, I guess all I want is a friend that I can talk to (・ω・)ノ
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Posted 7/25/13
If you want to date a girl simply because she's Japanese, I can tell you already the relationship won't work out.
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21 / M / Dallas Tx
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Posted 7/26/13
No I don't want that, all I want is someone I can talk to freely
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Posted 7/31/13
all I need is someone that has a good happy personality, looks don't matter
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Posted 8/1/13 , edited 8/1/13
I personally felt the same way, well, except a Japanese boyfriend. And now I'm married to a Japanese man, and am incredibly happy.

But be mature about it. Don't just want a Japanese girlfriend/boyfriend because of what you've seen on dramas or because of an instant connection to Japan through having one. Personally, I wanted a Japanese boyfriend because I knew I wanted to go to Japan, and didn't want to be with someone who didn't have the same passion that I have for Japan and desire to start a family there. If I had ran into a man who was American (regardless of race), but just as passionate about Japan, then perhaps I would've fallen for him.

I think it's okay to want a Japanese girlfriend/boyfriend, but you have to think about how that person you end up with would feel if you told them that. Would they feel objectified? Would you if you were them? Also, is it a race thing or cultural thing? If cultural, are you basing it on stereotypes? If it's a race thing, is your preference distracting you from dating someone who's still attractive to you?

An international relationship is an adventure. It comes with its own struggles, such as green cards/visa issues, cultural differences, etc. But it also comes with positive experiences, such as discovering a new culture, and although there are cultural differences, learning to compromise, and discovering things about your own culture you no longer like, things you do like, things you want to change is really grows you.
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15 / F / Cali~
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Posted 8/1/13
Japanese girls are not attractive at all
Especially when they try acting cute :v
But Koreans look sexy~
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Posted 8/2/13
i am also looking for but still don't get anyone and trying and trying, hope get one early soon.
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