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Both. Neither one judges more than the other. It has been my personal experience and observations that humanity is a judgmental species as a whole. We all judge, every one of us. Anyone that says different is an optimistic fool and/or a liar.
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Ink-e wrote:

Both.


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Posted 5/15/13
Women
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The expected answer would be women but I say it depends on the individual.
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Why not just flip a coin?
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ContributorGuy wrote:

The expected answer would be women but I say it depends on the individual.


Completely agree. My guy friends will shout things as if they are whispering about other people. My female friends tend to be less loud about it but can still be pretty judgmental.
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It vastly depends on the person not the gender. I've met both men and women who heavily criticize the other.
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Let's generalise men and women in this topic, which gender do you think has the bitchest group of people?

I can't decide as I have heard guys bitching about their friends as well as girls. Maybe guys say more mean and cruel things and girls are more critical and analytical? Also what is the meanest thing you have heard a guy said about a girl and vice versa?

This is the worst I've heard:

Guy - she's so ugly I feel sorry for her.

Girl - it was so small I had to ask him if it was all the way in.


From my experience, I would say women are more judgmental of people they don't know, while men are probably more judgmental about people they do know.

I also think context is important. When a guy is making fun of his friends, it is not vicious like when women make fun of their friends. I make fun of my friends all the time and vice versa. Friends which feel like they have to sugar coat things to pad your ego are really acquaintances in my opinion.

Meanest things

Guy to Girl
Just because you grew up in a trash bin doesn't mean you have to act like garbage.
Oh that's your engagement ring? Where is the rest of it? Or does you fiancee just think that little of you.
They give out PhDs to pharmacists? I thought they came in cracker jack boxes.
Who needs whiskey to make me flaccid when I can just look at you? (We now refer to her as "Whiskey Dick" lol)
You look like a girl from a movie I saw... what was it? Oh ya, Monster.

Girl to Guy
Probably your quote. Women save their best slams for girls.
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All of them.
(I say them because there is more than just male and female)
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Both
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Both of them equally on average. Being judgmental isn't really gender exclusive. Anyone can be judgmental. That's just one of many flaws of society.
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^ Well said, basically the same answer - both.
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26 / F / Elkhart, Indiana
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I dunno...Women are more two-faced if you want to generalize but men hold more double-standards and expectations of women (and other men) so it is hard to say.

It always depends on the person not the gender.
Posted 5/15/13

tinyd0t wrote:

Let's generalise men and women in this topic, which gender do you think has the bitchest group of people?

I can't decide as I have heard guys bitching about their friends as well as girls. Maybe guys say more mean and cruel things and girls are more critical and analytical? Also what is the meanest thing you have heard a guy said about a girl and vice versa?

This is the worst I've heard:

Guy - she's so ugly I feel sorry for her.

Girl - it was so small I had to ask him if it was all the way in.


Both sides are just as bad but use different techniques in being jackasses in my opinion. I can't really remember the meanest thing a guy and girl has ever said that I heard though. A lot of people nowadays that I've been around say A LOT of hurtful things about/to each other, so I can't pick which is worse.
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There's a word for generalizing sexes, it's called sexism. It should probably stop.
Neither is indefinitely more judgmental, people are judgmental and individuals are judgmental. That's just how it is.
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