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Have you ever had anyone try to change who you are???
Posted 5/15/13
My mentor, hundreds of people. I don't mind. Somethings to think about. It's warm.
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26 / M / Your friendly nei...
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Posted 5/15/13
Many have tried, all have failed
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Posted 5/15/13
every school teacher i have ever met.

believed i was a freak for year because of them.
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Posted 5/23/13
yeah plenty of times
Posted 5/23/13
Yeah, its called Marketing.
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30 / M / Kentucky
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Posted 5/23/13
Yes, but sometimes it was for my own good and even if it wasn't, I probably still learned something from it about myself. Some of the things that my colleagues/professors, parents, and friends have changed me for the better. It's not about changing who you are, its about finding out exactly who you are and you can't do that unless you interact with others. Try taking an interpersonal communication class in college if you want to really delve into it.
Posted 5/23/13
No.

I don't keep in contact with people.
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Posted 6/23/13
Ughhh...... I've always despised when people do that. Always telling me to do this and that. It's called, "Shove off and make me do things that make me happy, dammit!" I honestly hate it when people enforce me to change who I am. I ended up resenting my sister because of that. She keeps trying to force me to rant about how I feel. Her gf's even doing it, too and it's really annoying. I mean, leave me alone already! I just find it really obnoxious because I would rather rant when I feel like it compared to being forced. They keep telling me I spend too much time in my room and they end up telling me, "Go outside and meet new people, you're too shy". MAYBE I LIKE BEING INTROVERTED BECAUSE MOST PEOPLE ARE COMPLETE A-HOLES! AND MAYBE I FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE HANGING OUT WITH MYSELF.

I suddenly just started ranting, oddly enough. I just don't like when people force me to do something. It just feels like they're trying to make me into some completely different person. Just making me rant about nothing isn't going to help me change nor is it going to help me if I have to keep ranting every damn time I feel like I'm being interrogated all my life. It feels a lot more like harassment compared to helping me. I can't just simply let out all my thoughts because people want to "help". It's annoying. I rant when I feel like it. I just hate having to deal with crap like that.
Posted 8/16/13
Well I'm not changing for anyone anymore. It always comes around to biting me on the ass, so if they don't like me the way I am then they can just go find someone else to hate on.
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Posted 8/16/13
Surprisingly no, which I suppose is a good thing. But even if they did I wouldn't change unless I received a lot of flak from a lot of people.
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Posted 8/16/13
No I don't think I have
unless you consider people making fun of you trying to change who you are so you aren't as embarrassed
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Posted 8/16/13


Please let me change one thing, DONT USE RED LETTERS PLEASE the brightness is killing my eyes gaaahhhh
thanks in advance xD
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Posted 8/16/13
It happens everyday for me. Im a person who constantly wheres a hood when I go out so alot of people look down on me. I suppose its just one of those things though....
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Posted 8/16/13
does myself count
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22 / M / Louisiana
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Posted 8/16/13
This has been my primary problem with everyone throughout the summer. I've decided to try to change myself into a more responsible person and whatnot. I chose staying home and working over going on vacation in Wales to try to show everyone that I was working to try and change myself. But I guess that have everyone the idea that they could try to change me themselves, and I've hated every second of it >_>

Essentially what this translates into is a whole lot of people giving me nothing but crap while I'm trying to become a more responsible person. And what's ironic is that both parties want the same thing, but man I kind of wish my family would lay off for a bit

I don't know if it makes me feel better or worse that others are going through similar things. But I'm glad someone out there knows more how I feel than my family
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