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Post Reply What's so special about dating?
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Because it's what they do in movies


I like that!
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tfw no gf
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Nothing special I always found dating a formality leading up to making sweet love usually if there is an attraction and you are not a total douche bag its a matter of time.
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clear-blood wrote:
I never really bothered with sex. Unless I want to make a child, then there's no point.

WTF? What kind of animal ARE you? Isn't it usually the other way around?

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Terrible function, and clearly a bad design. I prefer the "It's a Miracle Baby So Let's Start a Church" function of me knocking up another chick. I've always wanted to lead my own religion/cult/empire. My religion will be a militant one, set on world domination in the name of all that is holy (me).
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Monogamy is always more satisfying

this guy knows the deal;

way more... titillating.



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nothing. I like good company boy or girl, It doesn't have to be a date. Otherwise I stay by myself and F the world
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furytime wrote:

Well this thread took away a little bit of respect I have for humanity. I never wanted to date someone for sex. That is definitely an added bonus but not the whole thing.

Lol dude, i can't help but agree with you. People seem to only be in it for themselves.. well i guess, thats the truth for most.

anyway on topic, i would say i'm not too certain. relationships seem to end quickly around me and they always seem to be made for selfish reasons like "getting in a girls pants" or "getting in the girls friends pants" anyway all i do know is that being lonely kinda sucks. though i'm pretty used to it by now i still have those moments where i wish i was in a relationship, but for good reasons mind you. :D

Posted 5/15/13
Dating with someone is to get knowing more each other. You might find out things you don't know about this person. btw I'm agree with the post above me ^ I don't date for sex, even though these days more people date for sex and it's harder to find true love
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I agree with Yoman and Guy, I do not date for sex either. I just want someone I can be with and enjoy my life, sort of like animes. But that's just me.
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Posted 5/15/13

rotisserie wrote:


Monogamy is always more satisfying

this guy knows the deal;

way more... titillating.





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Posted 5/15/13

mhibicke wrote:


clear-blood wrote:
I never really bothered with sex. Unless I want to make a child, then there's no point.

WTF? What kind of animal ARE you? Isn't it usually the other way around?

Gyava wrote:
Accidental Pop and Ruin Life Function Unless Plan B saves the day

Terrible function, and clearly a bad design. I prefer the "It's a Miracle Baby So Let's Start a Church" function of me knocking up another chick. I've always wanted to lead my own religion/cult/empire. My religion will be a militant one, set on world domination in the name of all that is holy (me).


Very!

and hm.. Can I be a Cardinal?
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Deeds1987 wrote:

A lot of comments on this thread said some very archaic things. Most couples I know go "Dutch" on dates (they split the bill). As for the point of dating, I wonder if you've read romance manga or watched romance anime or an anime that had romance? I think they lay it out pretty clearly in those shows: a spark of interest for another person... Attraction... A feeling of vulnerability... Excitement... Feeling ALIVE... A desire to share everything about yourself and not to hold back... To be freely you, without hesitation and to be accepted as such... And the feeling of elation that THIS PERSON chooses to be with YOU (ego boost).

I find it frustrating that so many people look at dating as a list of pros and cons i.e.: dating could lead to sex but it is expensive and she might want to go to a club and I have this paper due and she's probably going to text me all week evn though I'm super busy and then she'll cheat on me anyway... So why bother with dating?

Grrrr.... Truth is, everyone should look at dating as an opportunity to find their soulmate. It's something beautiful. Stop talking about money. It is irrelevant. If this person likes you for you, they will pay for their own freaking supper.


^^^^ 100% agree with the above. Why can't more people think like this? Sigh...
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This thread is really bringing out my inner nihlism :|
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I think some just want the kind of relationships seen in anime or other shows, books, etc. Some just want to find that one person who they will love forever.
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Posted 5/16/13

SirFinland wrote:

So as I've lived my life so far, pretty comfortable as a loner, I've noticed in my friends and on the internet a need for a relationship. Hell, right now on this forum there are threads that are related to this topic, like what someone wants out of a bf/gf. So I must ask for the sake of my curiosity, what makes dating so special thst everyone wants in on it?

Oh and I'm not trying to be edgy or anything like that.
Rest assured, dating is thoroughly uninteresting and retreating to the realm of 2D is more satisfying, fulfilling, and enjoyable.

I would, if I may, call upon the wisdom of 4chan:
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