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Post Reply Why does it have to be difficult to find a GF?
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Posted 5/28/13
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ymNdfdQvdVc
(Dave Chappelle)
lol watch this its funny as hell
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Just stop acting like that cute, hot, sexy, etc. girl is the last girl you'll ever see.
Honestly you just have to go up and talk to people and be confident. and soon enough you'll find who you're looking for.
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girlfriends are more of a pain really.
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Ages 18-25 should be prime time for romance. You will never be better looking than you are now. You can get into bars. Most girls no longer live at home and are looking to go a little wild.

Things start to get more difficult after 25-30. At this point most single women you meet will have kids and be trying to settle down and/or focus on their careers. Play time is essentially over at that point.
Posted 5/28/13
You're obviously not doing it right. It ain't rocket science. Grow a pair and get out to see the world a little. That may sound harsh, but it's the easiest way.
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If life was smooth sailing, it wouldn't be worth living, there would be nothing to look forward to. There would be no challenge to overcome.


I'm preaching the #truth.
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Hey atleast you didnt have trouble with it during highschool! your brother here <<< always gets friend zoned but hey! im fighting my way out of it now!
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Me again :P. It sounds like you are just lonely. You have to love yourself before you can expect someone else to right. I met my best friend, when we were hanging out at a gameshop in town. I wasn't looking to get a girlfriend or pick up women. We hit it off quite well, but our friendship has definately hit a new high when I stopped trying to get into her pants lol. Find a group or hang out spot that you like and just meet people, strike up a conversation about something that you like and not worry about landing a chick in bed. Be honest and be yourself, and have fun.
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life is a perpetual spiral of disappointment.. stop feeling sry for your short comings and start displaying ur unique qualities.
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19 / M / Canada eh
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One word bro: Confidence.

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Throw more money at 'em.
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27 / M / Kentucky
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You have to go to social places and not be afraid to mingle with the ladies. It's not hard unless you're shy. I mean if your just going up to every girl and hitting on them instead of just casually having a conversation for a little while and then seeing whether or not they are interested your doing it wrong.

It was easy in highschool because it was "the" social place. Now you don't have a set social place for you so go explore.
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You have to get out and go do things. You might not be one to like crowds or lots of people but you cant meet people unless you put yourself into an environment with others. If you want a girlfriend that is going to truly get you then you should stop focusing on it. As others have said, its just kinda something that happens and chances are it will be better if you two started as friends. Look everywhere that its not and eventually you will find out where it is. You know what you're looking for isn't something you are finding with how things currently are, so shake things up a bit and get out there.
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Posted 5/28/13

Gettnlag wrote:
As others have said, its just kinda something that happens and chances are it will be better if you two started as friends.

Sometimes, they just want to be friends and aren't looking for anything more. Source, guy who's been friend zoned one too many times.
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"Why does it have to be difficult to find a gf?"

Because desperation is a stinky cologne.
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