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Ujirik wrote:

Take a moment and ask yourself what you think of average looking girls. There are a ton of easy girls everywhere if you're good looking, but it's an entirely different story if you're not. It's the same story if you reverse the genders. I don't think you should just float by life like a turd because you can't find a girl. Just be confident and express your interest to as many women as possible until you find what you're looking for. It's also pretty easy to find women in your 20's if you go to a bar or a club.


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MrHalligan wrote:

girlfriends are more of a pain really.


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iammmmee wrote:


MrHalligan wrote:

girlfriends are more of a pain really.


this man is genius


true because he started out wanting a girlfriend, then about halfway through, he changed it to wanting a female friend...woah woah woah.....the other species, a girlfriend , is too much hassle.
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iammmmee wrote:


MrHalligan wrote:

girlfriends are more of a pain really.


this man is genius


I'll never understand a man who cries about having no girlfriend

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CalifCat wrote:


iammmmee wrote:


MrHalligan wrote:

girlfriends are more of a pain really.


this man is genius


true because he started out wanting a girlfriend, then about halfway through, he changed it to wanting a female friend...woah woah woah.....the other species, a girlfriend , is too much hassle.


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Ya I agree it's harder after high school, perhaps because you don't spend the same amount of time with people...In highschool you were with people 8 hours a day at least. I didn't fall in love for the pass 4 years (since highschool) just because I move around too often and don't have the time to get to know someone really good and develop feelings for her.
I suggest you join some group, part time job, sport team or college...whatever that will make you spend time with people. As for dating online...hmm I never tried it, long distance reliationship are pretty harsh.
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Girls have cooties.
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I think impressing girls is all in the attitude and confidence for guys, if u act like an asshole u should have the girls falling right into ur arms, remember...girls go for an aggressive male, testosterone grrr
Posted 5/28/13 , edited 5/28/13
^ Um, no hon. At least not for grownups.

As a general rule, most things that are really valuable are difficult to come by. So whether or not you will succeed in attaining something (in this case a solid, fulfilling relationship) depends upon

1) Your own desire to succeed (how badly you want it)
2) The accessibility of the object/subject of your desire
3) The willingness of those necessary others to cooperate with you in achieving your success

After getting a girlfriend, well, then it is the matter of keeping a girlfriend... and that will have a lot to do with you understanding each others' needs/wants/desires and expectations. So before committing to a relationship, try to make sure the two of you are somewhat in alignment in these areas: It will save you a lot of frustration and disappointment, later on.
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^ this person has their shit together!!
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haha be like my best friend. this dude has a diff girl ever week. he says to treat girls like there not that special and easily replaceable

also do crazy stuff like onetime i wore ass-less cowboy chaps to a Halloween party and guess what... girls slappin my ass all night.. shit like that are good conversation starters
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YepImaNerd wrote:

haha be like my best friend. this dude has a diff girl ever week. he says to treat girls like there not that special and easily replaceable

also do crazy stuff like onetime i wore ass-less cowboy chaps to a Halloween party and guess what... girls slappin my ass all night.. shit like that are good conversation starters


Thats probably why your friend has a new girl every week, and cant keep one for longer...
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How are you supposed to talk to a girl in a bar when:

-you don't know if she likes you
-you don't know if she is dating anyone else
-you don't know if she wants to talk to you
-you don't know if she just happened to glance at you or if she is actually checking you out
-you don't know if she is playing with her hair and swinging her hips to attract some other guy there
-you don't know what she wants to talk about
-you don't know if she feels awkward around you
-you don't know if she wants your number
-you don't know if you appear acceptable to her
-you don't know if your financial situation is enough for her
-you don't know if she wants to be with you at any given moment

???
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depends on your or their personality and preference's... Its hard out there, i jus broke it off with my last gf cause she had too much trust issue's... if i miss a text or sleep early, it supposedly meant i was cheating. Im looking for a new GF who's actually open-minded to stuff and thinks about what she says before she blows a fuse and also doesn't have mostly guy friends cause that "JUST FRIENDS" is complete bull... well anyway keep looking... good luck
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lordseth23 wrote:

How are you supposed to talk to a girl in a bar when:

-you don't know if she likes you
-you don't know if she is dating anyone else
-you don't know if she wants to talk to you
-you don't know if she just happened to glance at you or if she is actually checking you out
-you don't know if she is playing with her hair and swinging her hips to attract some other guy there
-you don't know what she wants to talk about
-you don't know if she feels awkward around you
-you don't know if she wants your number
-you don't know if you appear acceptable to her
-you don't know if your financial situation is enough for her
-you don't know if she wants to be with you at any given moment

???


Life would be too easy if we knew the answers to everything. And you will never know until you try.
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