First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  14  15  16  17  Next  Last
Why does it have to be difficult to find a GF?
33373 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
26 / M / Socal
Offline
Posted 5/28/13 , edited 7/13/13

YepImaNerd wrote:

haha be like my best friend. this dude has a diff girl ever week. he says to treat girls like there not that special and easily replaceable

also do crazy stuff like onetime i wore ass-less cowboy chaps to a Halloween party and guess what... girls slappin my ass all night.. shit like that are good conversation starters


xD lmao

Dat Ass


Gettnlag wrote:


lordseth23 wrote:

How are you supposed to talk to a girl in a bar when:

-you don't know if she likes you
-you don't know if she is dating anyone else
-you don't know if she wants to talk to you
-you don't know if she just happened to glance at you or if she is actually checking you out
-you don't know if she is playing with her hair and swinging her hips to attract some other guy there
-you don't know what she wants to talk about
-you don't know if she feels awkward around you
-you don't know if she wants your number
-you don't know if you appear acceptable to her
-you don't know if your financial situation is enough for her
-you don't know if she wants to be with you at any given moment

???


Life would be too easy if we knew the answers to everything. And you will never know until you try.


This is why we need mind reading abilities, like Kotoura-san

12921 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
104 / M / The Milky Way Galaxy
Offline
Posted 5/28/13

lordseth23 wrote:

How are you supposed to talk to a girl in a bar when:

-you don't know if she likes you
-you don't know if she is dating anyone else
-you don't know if she wants to talk to you
-you don't know if she just happened to glance at you or if she is actually checking you out
-you don't know if she is playing with her hair and swinging her hips to attract some other guy there
-you don't know what she wants to talk about
-you don't know if she feels awkward around you
-you don't know if she wants your number
-you don't know if you appear acceptable to her
-you don't know if your financial situation is enough for her
-you don't know if she wants to be with you at any given moment

???


How will you know if you don't talk to her? You can't win if you don't try.
Posted 5/28/13
Have you tried GameFly?
38425 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
25 / M / Hughesville, Penn...
Offline
Posted 5/28/13

Ujirik wrote:


lordseth23 wrote:

How are you supposed to talk to a girl in a bar when:

-you don't know if she likes you
-you don't know if she is dating anyone else
-you don't know if she wants to talk to you
-you don't know if she just happened to glance at you or if she is actually checking you out
-you don't know if she is playing with her hair and swinging her hips to attract some other guy there
-you don't know what she wants to talk about
-you don't know if she feels awkward around you
-you don't know if she wants your number
-you don't know if you appear acceptable to her
-you don't know if your financial situation is enough for her
-you don't know if she wants to be with you at any given moment

???


How will you know if you don't talk to her? You can't win if you don't try.


I think it is better to leave her alone and not engage in any perverse activity, because she can always find another guy anyway. Men do not deserve to be trusted.
12921 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
104 / M / The Milky Way Galaxy
Offline
Posted 5/28/13

lordseth23 wrote:


Ujirik wrote:


lordseth23 wrote:

How are you supposed to talk to a girl in a bar when:

-you don't know if she likes you
-you don't know if she is dating anyone else
-you don't know if she wants to talk to you
-you don't know if she just happened to glance at you or if she is actually checking you out
-you don't know if she is playing with her hair and swinging her hips to attract some other guy there
-you don't know what she wants to talk about
-you don't know if she feels awkward around you
-you don't know if she wants your number
-you don't know if you appear acceptable to her
-you don't know if your financial situation is enough for her
-you don't know if she wants to be with you at any given moment

???


How will you know if you don't talk to her? You can't win if you don't try.


I think it is better to leave her alone and not engage in any perverse activity, because she can always find another guy anyway. Men do not deserve to be trusted.


You can always find another woman. How are women any different? Did something bad happen to you?
16372 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
30 / M / New York City
Offline
Posted 5/28/13
match.com or eharmony. or crunchyroll
bolto 
9225 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
22
Offline
Posted 5/28/13
If you're already deciding that you want to be with someone before you have even gotten to know them, I can already tell you that it has a very low chance of working out.
55109 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
F / West
Offline
Posted 5/28/13
Just pretend you are in a relationship, and then maybe it will occur. Or date your hand like most people do.
7040 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
M / Texas
Offline
Posted 5/28/13
Chances are if you are constantly looking for a girlfriend, you will come across as desperate. Plus, if you are so eager to get one, you might take the first one willing to pay any attention to you which is not always a good thing.

Anything worth having is worth working for so take your time, be selective, and carry on.
62007 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
35 / M
Offline
Posted 5/28/13 , edited 5/28/13

too smart for 19.
36591 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
27 / M / Massachusetts
Offline
Posted 5/28/13
As others have said it was easier in high school because you spent 8 hours a day with people and got to know them. You also got comfortable around them from spending so much time around them. As you graduate you're put into the real dating world where you are going to have to not only put yourself out there, but also decide what you ideals and plans for the future are. I've found myself, as I get older, wanting to have a family of my own someday so someone I date will have to also want that. I've also decided I'm not changing who I am or what I like for any girl.
You just need to get yourself out there a bit more. What are some of your interests? Are there stores for that place? If so then go there and if you see a girl looking at something you are also interested in go over and start a conversation. Chances are she might be just as shy about these things as you might be.
Posted 5/28/13

anim3luvr wrote:

ive noticed that it get pretty difficult to find a GF after leaving highschool, ive been having this problem lately and i know im not that bad looking, im just average, but is average not enough. and i know several people right now who are having this problem, and i noticed that it gets increasingly difficult when you reach your 20's. i was just wondering if so many more people are having this problem as well or if just me and people i know. (and i guess this is more of a forum to try and help me meet someone, even if its just to make a friend cause making friends is nice sometimes )


Well, it is hard, but the moment you stop caring and focusing on 'finding' the ideal girl for you, it comes unexpectedly.
Eater of Worlds
Bedlam 
68087 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
31 / M / East Coastin'
Offline
Posted 5/28/13
jeizii is quite correct. just do you and focus on stuff that you can improve on about yourself. it'll come through for you sooner or later.
55109 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
F / West
Offline
Posted 5/28/13
Try the San Diego Comic Con, in July. Probably tons of girls there , and maybe can meet some new friends there of the female persuasion .
8153 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
Offline
Posted 5/28/13

MrHalligan wrote:


iammmmee wrote:


MrHalligan wrote:

girlfriends are more of a pain really.


this man is genius


I'll never understand a man who cries about having no girlfriend



someone who cries over that is not a man
First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  14  15  16  17  Next  Last
You must be logged in to post.