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Why does it have to be difficult to find a GF?
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iammmmee wrote:

someone who cries over that is not a man


A man fights bears, and eats the bark off of trees
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Eh, it's a load off the mind to not think about being single. Trying to fill time with games and anime... telling yourself you don't need a relationship. It will all be fine... until you go out with your friends... and you're the 3rd/5th/7th wheel on a date, sitting there quietly pretending someone is texting you, when really you just set an alarm to go off at one minute intervals with your text tone. You suck it up, because you're a man, but really, you're dead inside... dead.
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I've never actually asked a girl out. Women have always asked me out.

I'm extremely dense, a girl could be dancing naked in front of me whipping her hair back and forth with a steak tied around her neck and I wouldn't know whether she liked me or if she was just some crazy naked psycho chick with a steak tied around her neck....or both, with my luck it's both.

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spacebat wrote:

I've never actually asked a girl out. Women have always asked me out.

I'm extremely dense, a girl could be dancing naked in front of me whipping her hair back and forth with a steak tied around her neck and I wouldn't know whether she liked me or if she was just some crazy naked psycho chick with a steak tied around her neck....or both, with my luck it's both.



Heh, you must be extremely lucky... Most of the time, if a girl is looking at me, she's doing it to laugh/make fun of me. Same with the girls I've asked out. Man... to not know the sting of painful rejection, I envy you.
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Starting to care less and less about girls at the moment all I can say is be yourself and just don't do anything awkward or throws her off.

Even if its a random girl, just approach her and spark a conversation with her simply as that. Its the same as making friends you have to make the first move, people will recognize you by taking that approach rather than siting and let the person come to you. I've been in several situations where I caught a random, attractive girl starting at me but since I didn't decide to make that step no proper bond was form.

Just grow some confidence and have fun with it. Don't over think it and just have fun. Oh must I mention, to have fun?
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Ranma344 wrote:

Heh, you must be extremely lucky... Most of the time, if a girl is looking at me, she's doing it to laugh/make fun of me. Same with the girls I've asked out. Man... to not know the sting of painful rejection, I envy you.


Rejection doesn't have to be painful, just don't put all your eggs into one basket. If you think a girl is smart tell her, if you think she's hot tell her. I don't have much of a social filter so I tend to tell people what is on my mind. It has gotten me into as much trouble as it has worked out for me.

Besides, you have no reason to feel envious. Most of the girls I've dated are crazy. Not that I am not into crazy... I LOVE crazy. Crazy is fun and challenging... but crazy will have you listening to her freak-out every single time because she thinks she's pregnant despite having taken every precaution. I was celibate for 8 months after that relationship...
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spacebat wrote:


Ranma344 wrote:

Heh, you must be extremely lucky... Most of the time, if a girl is looking at me, she's doing it to laugh/make fun of me. Same with the girls I've asked out. Man... to not know the sting of painful rejection, I envy you.


Rejection doesn't have to be painful, just don't put all your eggs into one basket. If you think a girl is smart tell her, if you think she's hot tell her. I don't have much of a social filter so I tend to tell people what is on my mind. It has gotten me into as much trouble as it has worked out for me.

Besides, you have no reason to feel envious. Most of the girls I've dated are crazy. Not that I am not into crazy... I LOVE crazy. Crazy is fun and challenging... but crazy will have you listening to her freak-out every single time because she thinks she's pregnant despite having taken every precaution. I was celibate for 8 months after that relationship...


Eh, it just gets to be too much after so long. I mean, I'm running out of friends to hang out with because they are all ending up finding their partners and we end up growing apart for whatever reasons. I used to not care, back in high school, it was just about hanging out with my also single friends. After a while, however, they started to have relationships, and well... I didn't. Now, out of that pool of about 15 people I used to hang out with, I have 3 left that I can hang out with, with any regularity, and the thought that I could possibly end up with no one, not even friends, in a matter of months or years terrifies me.
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It's as simple as..
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saksiss wrote:

It's as simple as..


huehuehuehuehuehuehuehuehuehue

but seriously that was pretty funny.
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lordcanti666 wrote:


saksiss wrote:

It's as simple as..


huehuehuehuehuehuehuehuehuehue

but seriously that was pretty funny.


Heh, good thing you quoted before I edited it to the original pic. xD
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Heh, good thing you quoted before I edited it to the original pic. xD


Why'd you change it?
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Heh, good thing you quoted before I edited it to the original pic. xD


Why'd you change it?


Just a change of heart, wanted the original
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'cause not all of us can afford to buy GPS
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'cause not all of us can afford to buy GPS
You totally weren't kidding about the GPS. After all this time...

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anim3luvr wrote:

ive noticed that it get pretty difficult to find a GF after leaving highschool, ive been having this problem lately and i know im not that bad looking, im just average, but is average not enough. and i know several people right now who are having this problem, and i noticed that it gets increasingly difficult when you reach your 20's. i was just wondering if so many more people are having this problem as well or if just me and people i know. (and i guess this is more of a forum to try and help me meet someone, even if its just to make a friend cause making friends is nice sometimes )


Consternation? Check.
DAE? Check.

To be honest it's probably you. Are you entertaining? Talented? Handsome? Independent? Indifferent? Self-sufficient? Probably not. Don't worry, the average twenty year old isn't. It comes with time, work experience, hobbies, and college.

Go get a retail job, go to college, pick up a hobby or go to the gym. Read as many books as you can. Become cultured. Travel. Be who you are and become a thoughtful person for the sake of being pleasant, not for gratitude. Learn the art of conversation and learn to portray yourself better. The way you manhandle the English language is off-putting.

Also, another checklist.

Brush your teeth
Don't use Axe
Go to a hair salon instead of a barber
Groom yourself daily
Cook your own food
Exercise daily

In other words - it's not hard to find a girlfriend. Although I agree with the sentiment "it's hard to find the girlfriend you want."
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