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well i think humans are very lonely creatures. coz unlike animals we hav more feelings an we need sumone to depend on to live our life to the fullest. like no one can ever live by themselves just coz it's lonely and boring an nobody can stand that, not a single person i'm sure. so it's lonely an they need to love sumone or just fall for sumone they like because they giv them that special sumthing that that person needs the most at the moment. i knoe it's pretty confusing but for now that how i see love =]


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well those that you have said are things that how love is and what it is to love then my question, what is love? and why do we love?


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How do you know if you are in love and not just attracted to someone a lot???

when you're attracted to someone, you always care about his look and want him/her to look at you but when you love someone you always care about his qualities and his heat . and you don't want to just grab his attention but you want him/her to hold you tight and tell you " i love you more than anyone in this world"
but i haven't found the true love yet so i'm not sure about this


omg that is soooo true~!!! *hugzzz* thats exactly how i see it ^_~ <333333
it's really embarrassing but hearing "i love you more than anyone in this world" is like the best thing bout being in love for me. i can't help but blush when i hear it.. lol but that feeling could change. it's really sad but it's true. when you said you haven't found the right guy. i mean when you hear those words it don't mean that you guys will last forever an not all da guys in the world say it neither but it's still the sweetes thing to hear from sumone you love <3333333333
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mytalove wrote:


unknown wrote:

How do you know if you are in love and not just attracted to someone a lot???

when you're attracted to someone, you always care about his look and want him/her to look at you but when you love someone you always care about his qualities and his heat . and you don't want to just grab his attention but you want him/her to hold you tight and tell you " i love you more than anyone in this world"
but i haven't found the true love yet so i'm not sure about this


omg that is soooo true~!!! *hugzzz* thats exactly how i see it ^_~ <333333
it's really embarrassing but hearing "i love you more than anyone in this world" is like the best thing bout being in love for me. i can't help but blush when i hear it.. lol but that feeling could change. it's really sad but it's true. when you said you haven't found the right guy. i mean when you hear those words it don't mean that you guys will last forever an not all da guys in the world say it neither but it's still the sweetes thing to hear from sumone you love <3333333333


you're right, one day, i will find a guy who will say i love you from the bottm of his heart, good luck to you too
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mytalove wrote:


marydazy wrote:


mytalove wrote:


unknown wrote:

How do you know if you are in love and not just attracted to someone a lot???

when you're attracted to someone, you always care about his look and want him/her to look at you but when you love someone you always care about his qualities and his heat . and you don't want to just grab his attention but you want him/her to hold you tight and tell you " i love you more than anyone in this world"
but i haven't found the true love yet so i'm not sure about this


omg that is soooo true~!!! *hugzzz* thats exactly how i see it ^_~ <333333
it's really embarrassing but hearing "i love you more than anyone in this world" is like the best thing bout being in love for me. i can't help but blush when i hear it.. lol but that feeling could change. it's really sad but it's true. when you said you haven't found the right guy. i mean when you hear those words it don't mean that you guys will last forever an not all da guys in the world say it neither but it's still the sweetes thing to hear from sumone you love <3333333333


you're right, one day, i will find a guy who will say i love you from the bottm of his heart, good luck to you too


thanx same to you. hope we'll find sumone to hear those precious words from ^_^ <3333333
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How do you know if you are in love and not just attracted to someone a lot???


If you are just attracted to someone a lot you dont want to be with that someone al the time,
You dont feel guilty when you flirt with others,
You dont cry/or feel hurt when you see that someone flirting with others. . .


then i have this one guy i used go out with and when ever i talk or flirt with 1 of his best friends i feel like i was still going out with him and that i was cheating on him i don't get it
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SanneloveAnime wrote:


unknown wrote:

How do you know if you are in love and not just attracted to someone a lot???


If you are just attracted to someone a lot you dont want to be with that someone al the time,
You dont feel guilty when you flirt with others,
You dont cry/or feel hurt when you see that someone flirting with others. . .


then i have this one guy i used go out with and when ever i talk or flirt with 1 of his best friends i feel like i was still going out with him and that i was cheating on him i don't get it


well, flirting with innocent thoughts is not a bad thing like everyone think but always flirting with bad thought and intentions is a very bad. maybe you love him very much and you used to have this fantasy with him and the brain and emotions sometimes stuck in the "dream periode of happiness" so you still think that flirting with other guys is like cheating on him so for you i have two options
1 - you still like him and you still don't accept breaking up with him which means you have to do anything to get him back or at least make things clear with him once for all
2 - like any other girl who happens to break up you need a long time to recover and you'll see that with time, you'll get used to it and this feeling of guilt will desepere.
my advice: don't go to option 2 if you think that option 1 is the best for you
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mytalove wrote:


mang22 wrote:


SanneloveAnime wrote:


unknown wrote:

How do you know if you are in love and not just attracted to someone a lot???


If you are just attracted to someone a lot you dont want to be with that someone al the time,
You dont feel guilty when you flirt with others,
You dont cry/or feel hurt when you see that someone flirting with others. . .


then i have this one guy i used go out with and when ever i talk or flirt with 1 of his best friends i feel like i was still going out with him and that i was cheating on him i don't get it


well, flirting with innocent thoughts is not a bad thing like everyone think but always flirting with bad thought and intentions is a very bad. maybe you love him very much and you used to have this fantasy with him and the brain and emotions sometimes stuck in the "dream periode of happiness" so you still think that flirting with other guys is like cheating on him so for you i have two options
1 - you still like him and you still don't accept breaking up with him which means you have to do anything to get him back or at least make things clear with him once for all
2 - like any other girl who happens to break up you need a long time to recover and you'll see that with time, you'll get used to it and this feeling of guilt will desepere.
my advice: don't go to option 2 if you think that option 1 is the best for you


i like option 1 but i can never talk to him about that again
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mytalove wrote:


mang22 wrote:


SanneloveAnime wrote:


unknown wrote:

How do you know if you are in love and not just attracted to someone a lot???


If you are just attracted to someone a lot you dont want to be with that someone al the time,
You dont feel guilty when you flirt with others,
You dont cry/or feel hurt when you see that someone flirting with others. . .


then i have this one guy i used go out with and when ever i talk or flirt with 1 of his best friends i feel like i was still going out with him and that i was cheating on him i don't get it


well, flirting with innocent thoughts is not a bad thing like everyone think but always flirting with bad thought and intentions is a very bad. maybe you love him very much and you used to have this fantasy with him and the brain and emotions sometimes stuck in the "dream periode of happiness" so you still think that flirting with other guys is like cheating on him so for you i have two options
1 - you still like him and you still don't accept breaking up with him which means you have to do anything to get him back or at least make things clear with him once for all
2 - like any other girl who happens to break up you need a long time to recover and you'll see that with time, you'll get used to it and this feeling of guilt will desepere.
my advice: don't go to option 2 if you think that option 1 is the best for you


i like option 1 but i can never talk to him about that again


well , your decision is something you only can know because i am not living as you, so i can only give you my opinion and my thoughts but i can never tell you what to do! good luck anyway^^
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well it could be as simple or as complicated as you want. its like, its so hard to explain... hm. well its like when you love someone... hm. lets start over.


it doesnt always happen automatically. i have so many friends who were just friends and then all of a sudden, they crack and tell eachother they love eachother. it makes me laugh because i realize that love is literally everywhere. if you are in love, things happen differently. you will find yourself thinking differently. yea i know people are always saying that youll think only lovey dovey thoughts. but that is a big fat lie. you will always feel jealousy if you really love someone. and no, im not talking about like how you love your mommy love either. jealousy comes from seeing your love with someone else instead of with you. you will know your jealous because you wanna destroy everything but you wont hurt even a fly because you dont wanna look bad in front of them. haha yea i know this thing is long. but if you made it this far then i give you props because im not that good of explaining stuff like this. scratch that, im not good at explaining ANYGHING. but whatever. so unexplainable. for me, love is knowing that you have someone to call your own, and they will love you for who you are. haha but you always try to be pretty and fancy for them. i could always write more but iknow im boring you if you made it all the way down here~ so adios! haha im done writing now. =] enjoy your love life. hehe. =] ♥
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