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Post Reply Have you ever made up a lie so you could dump someone?
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no.
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never have. I did lie to a girl who confessed to me though, I told her that I was already seeing someone. I felt bad afterwards though
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no i have never gone that far
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Nope, that just leads to misunderstandings. I've always been blunt about it. I don't want to do the whole "it's not you, it's me" thing.
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Yes, I have. I couldn't look past the person's physical appearance, so I said it was because he took me to McDonald's on the first date.

And the worst part is, I did it via email.

Reason, because I'm a coward.


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GayAsianBoy wrote:

Yes, I have. I couldn't look past the person's physical appearance, so I said it was because he took me to McDonald's on the first date.

And the worst part is, I did it via email.

Reason, because I'm a coward.




*slap*
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I was on a date with this girl and one thing led to another and we sleep together. That night i snuck out of her house because she started scaring me with "we are going to be together forever talk." The next morning she called me and i answered like an idiot and had to make up a huge lie about how football two-a-days were starting and i really needed to focus on practice to make first team at A & M and i would try to talk to her as much as possible. Long story short she would call and i had her caller i.d as do not answer. I felt bad because she would leave me messages like "your an asshole. You said you liked me, stuff like that." Truth was as soon as she gave it up on the first night i lost respect for her as a possible girlfriend but i was too weak to tell her.
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Posted 6/9/13
I've never felt the need to lie to the person I am in a relationship with... If I want a relationship to end I'm honest about why I want it to end. I find lying to anyone you care about highly disrespectful. I've ended relationships because I've been lied to.

and GayAsianBoy, Put a friggan shirt on!
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ehh.. not really, i did think i really liked a guy that i met at college, then i realised that i didn't n was like 'uh, bro, i don't like you that way, sorry'.
i was honest n said it in person :L

I don't really like lying unless i can help it y'know?
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amandagoesgrr wrote:

Nope, that just leads to misunderstandings. I've always been blunt about it. I don't want to do the whole "it's not you, it's me" thing.


But how about when the reason is because of "you"? Like I am no longer issued in you. Then it really is me, not you, right?
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Rei4Shinji wrote:



But how about when the reason is because of "you"? Like I am no longer issued in you. Then it really is me, not you, right?

I meant using the "it's not you, it's me" thing as a lie to get out of telling them the truth. If it is you then ya that would work followed by an explanation
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amandagoesgrr wrote:


Rei4Shinji wrote:



But how about when the reason is because of "you"? Like I am no longer issued in you. Then it really is me, not you, right?

I meant using the "it's not you, it's me" thing as a lie to get out of telling them the truth. If it is you then ya that would work followed by an explanation :)


Yes I got it now ~~ Thanks for the clarification
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Posted 6/9/13 , edited 6/9/13
Oh yea I tricked her into some crazy religion argument and I wouldv been on her side normally but I was kind of done with it all so lies were used and she broke up with me and the reason I didn't just break up with her was cuz she was a rebound girl and I figured if she knew that she would be even more pissed at me lol

but now we're good friends again so its all good
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I dumped this guy because he was being too clingy. No, I mean, he was BEYOND clingy. He would call me the second I came home, and talk on the phone for hours. And then he would send me good night texts continuously until i replied. And in the morning, at 5 AM he'd call me.
But of course, I didn't want to tell him that. I should have, because he annoyed the other girls he dated as well. I couldn't tell him because I was afraid of hurting his feelings. I'm too nice. So I basically just said I don't "feel anything between us" anymore, because our relationship wasn't exciting. Which was partially true, but then he started saying we could go out more, so I began to feel that was actually really reasonable so I said a relative died and I was going through so much grief. And then I just ended it with him.

Man, that's really messed up. Lying about death just to break up with someone.
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