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Would you ever give up on your marriage?
&& what would be something that would push you to end your marriage?



Been married for three years an I wanna make it work. But its been hard and im lost!?!?!
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I'm young and I have no idea what marriage is like, but I have someone I like. If you really love someone don't give up! <3
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I'm almost 27 (Sep. 4) and don't even have a girlfriend yet. I would only want to give a marriage if either spouse was having an affair and reconciliation lost its touch.
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_lunaxo wrote:

Would you ever give up on your marriage?
&& what would be something that would push you to end your marriage?



Been married for three years an I wanna make it work. But its been hard and im lost!?!?!


Well I've got a few married friends, and a few of them that thought the same way. My advice (although I've never been married) is to keep moving forward with it! Because for realsies, Lovey dovey ness doesn't last the rest of your life. You gotta remember that LASTING love is more of an action ya know? You guys made a promise to each other to stick with it. Don't be a quitter! I'm not the best advice giver, but I like to try to help, I hope I was at least a tiny bit helpful and that you understand what I'm trying to say haha!
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27 / M / Montreal Canada
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first of all would you marriage i won't end of the story
too much hassle
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25 / M / California
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I never want to get married. It just seems like too much responsibility. And if I do, I never want children.

Things won't be wonderful all the time in any human relationship. There are just bumps in the road that people these days seem too selfish and intolerant to get over in ALL of their relationships (people break up over stupid things, take that marriage vow and then divorce, higher and higher divorce rates). I'd say just give it some time and talk it over earnestly. Be honest and open, otherwise problems don't get solved very well.
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can't imagine me getting married now ...
my friends are like engaged and getting married but i'm here watching animes lol
too much kid in me XPPP
anyway, try to patch things up if you both can,
the one thing that would make me end a relationship without second thought is cheating ...
sure i can forgive him in time but not as his gurl again !
good thing never happen to me lol
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Won't get very good answers when 75% of the forum members are younger than 25.

Wish you the best of luck on working out your marriage.
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try forgetting you have to live with them and think of them the way you used to (that you want to live with them). If you can't then you need more than advice from people on a forum...
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22 / M / Colorado
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Posted 6/9/13

garybebitez wrote:

Won't get very good answers when 75% of the forum members are younger than 25.

Wish you the best of luck on working out your marriage.


I agree with this feller right here.
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This forum went from how to talk to the opposite sex to relationship advice to marriage
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26 / M / Pinellas Park, FL
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Well to start I'm not married and I don't really believe in it. But there are moral grounds for it.

For me I think marriage is a lot about devotion to each other. And accomplishing that is hard to do when you have some other serious stuff on your plate. For example: Debt, education, social issues, etc.

I understand that love is spontaneous but I don't like the idea of being distracted by the above mentioned things. They could seriously distract me or someone else from truly appreciating, not just a marriage, but a relationship.

I get disgusted when I hear about couples sitting around watching Netflix almost everyday. I love being there for my girl but you have to create some separation that builds up to that expectation where you really embrace each other like you just got back from fighting a war.

It's an art but that excitement that some people say goes out the window is just that someone has stopped trying. Something as simple as walking through the door and going straight for the significant other, it's a sign of respect and adoration. It may be outdated but if you're the person waiting at home you also make it so that you give that person your undivided attention.

It's hard. To be able to calm someone down at the door when they are completely disgruntled from a long day. Or when you come home and you have to pick up the slack that was tossed on the other person. But having each other's back is what it's all about.

A little distracted but I guess I would say that I would never give up. In anything. Unless I truly didn't want to commit to it in the first place or if every last reasonable option was exhausted. Of course cheating goes a long a way.

I guess the only "experience" I have to say anything about this is that I've grown up around multiple broken marriages/relationships and one long lasting one that's more about mutual benefit rather than feelings of attachment.
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would i give up? Unless there's abuse involved, probably not. I'm a firm believer in keeping commitments.

but i really don't think an anime website is gonna help you much lol.. i'd ask for some professional help
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Posted 6/9/13

TheRealEscargotpudding wrote:

This forum went from how to talk to the opposite sex to relationship advice to marriage


Like a metaphor of humans in general. Only I advice I can give is do what feels right.
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Posted 6/9/13
Im still young so i really don't know. ?^? but i think you should decide wither you love him/her or not?
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