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Posted 6/20/13


Sending nude pictures to someone you "trust" isn't the best choice either. Just look at Amanda Todd.
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Posted 6/20/13 , edited 6/20/13

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Sending nude pictures to someone you "trust" isn't the best choice either. Just look at Amanda Todd.
Well it's clear that amanda todd was a victim of verbal and physical abuse. Being harassed like that is not a trade off for having naked pictures.

point: you give your trusted girlfriend your SSN, the next day your bank account is empty. Sure, she was a btich for doing that, but it wasn't exactly smart to give your SSN to your girlfriend now is it?
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Yeah that's true. I also think I got Amanda mixed up with someone else. Oh well. It serves a little bit of a point I guess.
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Posted 6/20/13 , edited 6/20/13

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another tumblr twit

I'll just pretend that what you just written was out of anger/annoyance and does not reflect on your intelligence

The girl in the situation is partly to blame because she took those pictures knowing the risk of it spreading. It's not about slut shaming, it's about the moment of negligence and stupidity.

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that is what she claim too afterwards-- it was meant to be private. But she took the chance of uploading, and in those two seconds of risk she took before she made it private, I saw it. Woops


Your friend must not understand how youtube works? A private video uploaded to youtube serves no purpose. Her uploading a personal video to youtube was not a good idea. I'm assuming she couldn't aford a cellphone/tablet because every modern electronic can send video privately. But you shaming her for it is gross. You understood that she didn't want your friends to see it but you told them anyway. That is shaming her for her human born sexuality, which is slut-shaming.

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Posted 6/20/13 , edited 6/20/13

BakaDino wrote:
Sending nude pictures to someone you "trust" isn't the best choice either.


Yeah that was the point I attempting to make as well. Even if you "trust" someone currently you always have to be aware of the possibility the relationship may change. Ultimately it's a gamble, and for the people involved I hope that the trust is reciprocated, we unfortunately know that it isn't always the case.
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Posted 6/20/13

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FlyinDumplinganother tumblr twit

I'll just pretend that what you just written was out of anger/annoyance and does not reflect on your intelligence

The girl in the situation is partly to blame because she took those pictures knowing the risk of it spreading. It's not about slut shaming, it's about the moment of negligence and stupidity.

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that is what she claim too afterwards-- it was meant to be private. But she took the chance of uploading, and in those two seconds of risk she took before she made it private, I saw it. Woops


Your friend must not understand how youtube works? A private video uploaded to youtube serves no purpose. Her uploading a personal video to youtube was not a good idea. I'm assuming she couldn't aford a cellphone/tablet because every modern electronic can send video privately. But you shaming her for it is gross. You understood that she didn't want your friends to see it but you told them anyway. That is shaming her for her human born sexuality, which is slut-shaming.

oh you, I never shamed her for anything. Afterwards, afterwards, AFTERWARDS she informed all three of us it was suppose to be private. I wasn't shaming her, I was telling them the facts of the situation.
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Posted 6/20/13 , edited 6/20/13

FlyinDumplingoh you, I never shamed her for anything. Afterwards, afterwards, AFTERWARDS she informed all three of us it was suppose to be private. I wasn't shaming her, I was telling them the facts of the situation.



You said in your other post that you knew you were being "a bitch" when you told your friends about her video. I have nothing else to say other than I hope I've educated you in some way.

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Posted 6/20/13 , edited 6/20/13

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You said in your other post that you knew you were being "a bitch" when you told your friends about her video. I have nothing else to say other than I hope I've educated you in some way.

*removes ugly weeaboo emoticon*
Yes, take the route most suitable for your argument from an ambiguous phrase i said.

no amount of bubble tea can fix a moron

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Posted 6/20/13
But yea let's make this clear first off. Any information sent over the internet somewhere is---saved.
Upload a picture on facebook and take it down, its still saved in their severs.
Chat on google or send emails of pics, even if you delete it, that shit is still saved in there servers.
Same with basically any other major site.
So hackers really can access it and great advice for you Hunny, if you plan on being famous, do no, do not, ever upload naked pics online.

But yea, naked pics for a girl being revealed to the public is devastating and to avoid it honestly, best option is, don't take any.

Hell if you delete your pics on your camera, I know how to find them again. Go google undelete.

But yeah. Avoid sending naked pics online, and if you send them to a trusted one make sure you trust them with your life, and encrypt data before sending.

Sometimes if you break up with your friend they'll leak the pics.

And lastly if you wantto delete it on a memory card, wipe it with a drive wiper software or something. Like cc cleaner.

That's how you maintain a clean image on the internet your welcome.
Remember how to protect your information.
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Posted 6/21/13
I wouldn't really give a shit to be fair. It may damages my career but my friends and family would never abandon me for it. There's loads of naked pictures of sooo many girls and boys online I think people don't care as much as they used to anyway.
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Posted 6/21/13
OH JEEZ. Sorry about that, I didn't completely understand. You should definitely ask them to delete them and if they refuse call the cops!! They have no right to do that. That's invasion of privacy, and they could actually get charged...
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Posted 6/21/13
Most of the stuff you typed in this thread hardly makes much sense and you're not helping to clear up what you want others to comment on.

Since you're saying this girl taken and uploaded the pictures and you didn't, they're either edited photos (e.g. Photoshopped), they were taken of you without your consent through hacking or her being a peeping tom. You'll have to go to the authorities and press charges on the individual to get them taken down if you can. You can possibly sue for defamation of character as well since she's trying to embarrass you online.
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Posted 6/21/13
i could give a fuck. guys that call girls sluts and make a big deal about it and shit just got little dicks. i say if you got a bangin body show that shit off. Fuck the haters
Posted 6/21/13 , edited 6/21/13

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Yeah don't take nudes of yourself, and if you do, expect them to spread around the internet.

Question is, do you really care that much? Slutty enough to do it in the first place, only thing that sucks is if closest friends and family see, but like I said, ENTIRELY YOUR OWN FAULT!


lol @ this loser.
nothing slutty about sending nude/perverted pictures, lots of couples do it.
you gunna call the man a filthy whore for asking for the pictures?
cause that's usually the case. he asks for it and she sends it

it's at the fault of the person sharing the image if it gets released.
you thought someone was very close to you and you trusted them with something very personal to you, they were the ones who turned out to be a terrible human being.

of course to be fair, never send nude pictures unless you are absolutely sure you can trust the person.
like i mean be REALLY sure you can trust this person.
like trust this person with your life trust.



Anyway, to the OP.
are you a minor?
cause the person who has this 'image' can get in trouble for child pornography if so.

if not, if the image does get put up online or sent out you can talk to someone about it.

but you also claim you have never taken nudes so obviously this person is lying unless they stalked you.

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Posted 6/21/13
This is probably not something to really talk about on CR, that and thread kinda out of hand. You should speak with an adult and someone you trust if you can't talk to your parents about it.
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