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Would have children first, or marry?
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Posted 6/21/07
I don't care for the institute of marriage much...
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i plan on marrying first for my children's sake, so there won't be any confusion or problems with their identity in our family. i don't want them to grow up thinking they don't have a father or that their father was just a one night stand or anything of that sort. that's just me thinking ahead though, but we all know life and the randomness it brings, so all i can really say is i'll take what life gives me and i will work with it. if i get pregnant before i am married, so be it. but i would really hope that it will be after i get married.
Posted 6/21/07
I consider children to be a much, much larger commitment than marriage. Baby's mamas/dadies are kinda awkward. It is better if there is a stronger connection than just that...
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marry first cux i might not be able to support my child...but i know that, that'll never happen cux i know wat's best
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Posted 6/21/07
Marriage...
Childrens suppose to have a perfect family.. in my opinion o.o
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Posted 6/21/07
umm.... without a doubt marriage.
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marry then kids.................... tats just the way it is...........
Posted 6/21/07
marriage first b/c it's financially impractical otherwise. also, family is the one thing i'm a traditionalist about.
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Nazareeni wrote:


well it doesn't really matter. as long as the couple love eachother they would get married anyways. but, to be on the safer side. i'd get married first.



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Posted 6/21/07
first of all i wouldn't even consider having a child with a man im not married to. i would marry first, but if i had an oops with some guy i would commit to bare it all and make my child's life as good as possible to have him grow up in a healthy environment. i just wouldn't want the kid to go through any rejection or to be labeled or feel uncared for IF i have kids i would want them to be exceptionally happy with themselves and their lives (and to have daddy there!!)
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27 / F / under the bed( ok...
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i would defintely never consider having a kid with someone i'm not married to!
it's healthier for the couple and the child if the parents are married! think about what happens to a girl when she get's dumped by a guy she thought loved her , cuz she's pregnant! i know a few girls like that, and their whole lives are seriously messed up!
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Marry first
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29 / M / Pennsylvania
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Marry first. I would never have a child with someone Im not married with.
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without marraige ull be dead.... marriage 1st
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Marry 1st! What happens if that person dumps you after?????!!!
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