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Would have children first, or marry?
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Absolutely marry first!! then have kids as much as u want
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marry....do u seriously think most of us would want 2 hav kids b4 marriage?!



I know it is the norm, but there are people who prefer to remain 'happily unmarried'. I believe Gene Simmons has his own reality show on it. I myself have a few friends with kids who are unmarried and want to wait. Another doesn't want to marry because then she would have to get a new job for higher taxes and daycare.

For me, religion is a factor. I couldn't do the work involved in getting pregnant before marrige. If that wasn't the case, I probably wouldn't be married for tax and insurance reasons. Yeah, I guess I'm cheap
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Marry first....
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F / i live where you...
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marriage first of course!
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F / Hogwarts
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marriage first duh! who would want their children to be bastards.....
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24 / F / usa,wisconsin
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well I say the kid if you're real sure, then marriage.
But then again
MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!!!
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41 / M / Brookyln
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Get married first, would be better. If you have children first its like..messed up?
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34 / F / By the water
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Marriage is over rated. If I could actually find some one who knew what it actually meant to be married, and would agree to singing a prenuptial agreement, I would get married. Besides, marriage does not simply imply that things will work out relationship wise.

Having a child first (which I have done) is not for everyone, and not for the weak hearted. The concept of being a bastard is not as big of a stigma as it was several decades ago.

For most of America, and several other countries being a single mother is immensely hard, and looked down upon. Thankfully I don't have to put up with that kind of B.S. living as I do in the states.

Personally, I chose to have a child out of wedlock. I wouldn't marry the father of my child even if some one paid me. We just are not compatible.

So, my answer would have to be, children, then marriage. I would much rather have a child than a husband. I do however, sense that adopting will be in my future.
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err definately marriage first. i don't think anyone really plans on having a kid before marriage.. that kind of thing just happens without being planned in my experience, anyways. why have a child with somebody that you don't love?
Posted 6/21/07
yap! i'd say marriage first and plan everything out
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26 / F / Canada
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I wanna marry first before having children.

I just think that it is better
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Kids after marriage. But if it happens before, it happens. Well, I mean, it's okay if it happens with the person you were planning on getting married with in the first place heh
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24 / F / 多摩、日本/Canada, Sca...
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Posted 6/23/07
Marry..... definatley marry first!
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21 / M / United Kingdom
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Posted 6/24/07
hmm everyone is saying marry..
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I would marry 1st because if things don't work den no child would be put through pain.
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