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Would have children first, or marry?
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27 / F / The Netherlands
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Posted 6/24/07
I don't believe in marriage so a child first..
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28 / M
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I'm not a fan of marriage. I also don't think I'll ever be mature enough to consider having a child. I did register as a minister at the ULC for a practical joke, however.
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28 / M / Hidden Leaf Village
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marry first then kids
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28 / M
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^^Well, you want children and a marriage? If you get pregnant with a guy who you are willing to marry, then you know that he isn't sterile and you will get married afterwards. Yet if you marry him first, he could be impotent and you would have the social stigma of being married already if you wanted children!
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23 / M / Palm Beach, Florida
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I don't know, I guess it's the couples decision, on deciding whether or not they ready for marriage. But anyway as a real life example, when my mom got pregnant with me, she married my dad before I was born. I guess they were ready for marriage. They had saved up money for a house and I guess me the baby tied the knot.
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28 / F / England
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Posted 6/24/07
depends on the circumstance.
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24 / F / Asian Town
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Posted 6/24/07
Marry, definitely. I'm Christian so it's a given. Not that I mind; I love my religion.

I understand why some people wouldn't wanna marry though. There's so many stresses involved in it, but heck, I'm a sucker for all that love stuff so I'm excited. xD
Posted 6/24/07
I think marry first then having a children
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58 / F / Melbourne
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I had been married for 3 years before I had my first child.

The marriage didn't work out and now I am a sole parent. The fact that we were married has made it easier for me legally in terms of the divorce settlement. I know people usually decide these things with their heart and not their head, but a marriage first makes it easier with regard to everyone having the same surname and protection for the woman if the marriage fails.

If a woman has a child first, there is less chance that the man will stick round - he hasn't shown a committment and may go looking for someone else to impregnate. With no legal constraints, it is easier for him to do this.

Of course things often don't go to plan. A lot of girls get pregnant by "accident" and decide to keep the baby with or without a man's help (and praise to them).
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25 / F / Singapore
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Posted 6/26/07
marry wud come first.. thats a law in my country..

lets say this person has got a child before marriage.. they have to marry asap.. ><
Posted 6/26/07
Marriage, then children :3

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23 / F / under the free sky
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Posted 6/26/07
i might as well dun get marry n hav childrens
marry may lead to divorce
childrens may lead to depression
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25 / F / |a|a |and
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Posted 6/26/07
Marry first, it's better in my opinion
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25 / M / New York, NY
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Posted 6/26/07
marry first would be great
and think about future
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24 / F / c a n a d a
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Posted 6/26/07
married because then i can get a job and support my family. if i have children first, life would be very difficult and confusing >< . i love kids though haha they're so adorable
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