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Post Reply Negative views on Asian girl/white guy couples?
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Posted 6/25/13
So long as the two of you are happy others opinions don't matter. Unless he treats you poorly or is up to no good then I don't see why anyone has the right to say anything negative about your relationship.
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I've only dated in my own race so I have no experience lmao.
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Try black guy, and asian girl.

But either way, yeah, quite annoying.
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Posted 6/25/13
Im half indian mexican, wifes japanese german, people look, but why would i care what they think.
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That upsets me, too. Can't people just leave two perfectly happy people alone? Sure, stares are better than being confronted about it, but that's still rude.
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im gonna go out on a limb here and say that many asians have negative views of an asian dating anybody not asian. im half black and half filipino and so i have had a lot of experience with asians not liking me for being mixed because i have dark skin. lol when i met my friend's parents they actually yelled at him for hanging out with me and my grandma told me that black people were scary and she didnt like them.
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i think a person is in a relationship with someone because they feel strongly about them, and the person they're with feels strongly about them too, all the time. You might feel really good when you're with them sometimes, but you might hate them so much some other time. Stuff like race and class and other stuff to do with your appearance might matter a lot to others because they really can't do much more than observe. You guys are the ones together, so it's prob best to take no notice of some people's views on interracial dating, since they don't really know what you guys have as well as you do!
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Posted 6/25/13
I can relate to the OP.


Except, us gay asian men get called a different derogatory name.


I honestly don't give a .... about what these gay ppl think, whatever ethnicity I end up with... it's because I'm sexually attracted to that person. There is no other underlying reason.
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37 / M / pembroke pines ,...
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I live in Miami and I barely get to see asian girls around here ......it all depends on where you live i guess, here in miami the hispanic community is large so they don't look. Hispanics are a melting pot so they usually don't look at you like you are different unless you are dating a ghetto or black guy i guess.....
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Posted 6/25/13 , edited 6/25/13
What do you expect when people post about how they want asian girlfriends because of the stereotypes like how they're submissive, obedient, and whatnot.

There's even a lable for those type of people: "Yellow Fever"
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25 / M / Norway
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Posted 6/25/13
Never heard anything about asian girls/white guy couples.Maybe its just my country.I always only dated asian girls not cause iam anime freak or anything its just my cup of tea.
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Posted 6/25/13
It really isn't rare I'm Asian I see it all the time
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Posted 6/25/13 , edited 6/25/13
I think that Asian girlfriends are widely considered a good score. And white guys own everything, so... Maybe I'm just unaware because it's not a situation I will ever find myself in, seeing as how I'm neither a white guy nor an Asian girlfriend.

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...sometimes people would stare and look us up and down, and that's about it.

Maybe they're staring at you because you're cute?
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Posted 6/25/13
Date who you want, end of story.

There will always be people who find some reason why you are not good for each other but in the end the only people that matter are you two.

Personally, I find it adorable.
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First of all, ignore the shit out of the internet. Internet personalities are meaningless where people express their negative thoughts when they can't real life. Second of all, you shouldn't let what others think bother you. If it's him that is uncomfortable then he should man up and stop being ashamed because it's obvious he is.
Even if you both were the same race, people will always look at you "differently". IMHO I think the most common oriental combination is with Caucasian. It can also be where you're location, heavily conservative or populated with one race. This will always be out of your hands, don't let that ruin the beautiful relationship you have with your man.
I'm asian and tried dating asian girls of different races several times. They all were attractive, intelligent, with great personalities, but for some reason I never felt the symptoms of a love relationship. So why would I force myself to invest myself and money into something I don't like? Haters will be haters, please just don't let it bother you. Plus Asian/Caucasian kids are the most beautiful people out there, if you're into kids.
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