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Post Reply Negative views on Asian girl/white guy couples?
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One of my best friends has an Asian mom and a White dad. He seems fine.
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People shouldn't judge who you date or what nationality you date. They don't know you, and they therefore cannot assume circumstances. What's honestly wrong with interracial dating??? If you're happy, that should be what matters. We live in AMERICA, that should be widely accepted that interracial dating happens. It makes me sick when people aren't aware (you can't make people accepting, but they should get their heads out of their asses far enough to be aware), that different people, different nationalities, date. Keep doing what makes you happy, and screw everybody else and their looks! You are in this relationship for the both of you (but you know that! lol), so just ignore everyone else, and make the both of you the happiest you can.
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tinyd0t wrote:

It honestly really upsets me whenever I hear negative stereotypes of Asian women & white men couples on the internet and in real life. People are not as rude in real life when they see me *oriental* and my boyfriend *white* walking down the street, my boyfriend said sometimes people would stare and look us up and down, and that's about it.

But man, people on the internet ain't shy about sharing their opinions and they are actually pretty hurtful. There are so many threads and articles about how Asians girls are only after white guys because a) we want money or b) we want an European/American passport, or c) we want to be viewed as "higher class". And the white men who go out with Asians chicks are either a) a closet paedophilia, b) a loser, c) an anime obsessed freak.

I'm trying so hard not to let these comments upset me and try to care less about what other people think of us. We both dated people from other ethnicities before including our owns, and we just happened to fell for each other when we met. And the most ironic parts of these steroetypes are - my boyfriend isn't even rich, I have more nationalities than him and man I have an ass, how can people think that he's a pedo!

Am I being too sensitive about it? Do you think these stereotypes are true in some cases?



For some reason your post really draw me in.. i don't look at the post maker after the title.

I really don't ever read stereotypes like that. Usually, at least in my state, people don't care. There are a lot of interracial couples and an Asian girl and a white guy combo are the least with negative connotations
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Uhh being from the Caucasian side of things, I have never heard of any negative views about Asian x Caucasian. Ever.

Well until this thread.
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I have rarely heard negative things about a white guy and an Asian girl dating. I have seen quite a lot of white guy & Asian girl couples. I don't mind it at all.

However, I have absolutely no experience with dating someone of a different race. Heck, I never dated anyone within my own race.
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Not unusual, I'm asian and I used to only date white girls. I had a thing for them but after so many years I've realized that white girls are CRAZY!!

EDIT: I just want to say that i dont mean to offend any of the white girls here. You are all beautiful. Just the ones I've dated are nuts lol. Anyways, have a nice day
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TheJudged wrote:

What do you expect when people post about how they want asian girlfriends because of the stereotypes like how they're submissive, obedient, and whatnot.

There's even a lable for those type of people: "Yellow Fever"


It's ironic because my boyfriend fits the "asian girls stereotype" more than I do.. Well he's definitely my bitch.


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im gonna go out on a limb here and say that many asians have negative views of an asian dating anybody not asian. im half black and half filipino and so i have had a lot of experience with asians not liking me for being mixed because i have dark skin. lol when i met my friend's parents they actually yelled at him for hanging out with me and my grandma told me that black people were scary and she didnt like them.


Your own grandma said that? That must've been pretty hurtful to hear. I must agree that older generation, regardless of their races tend to be more uncomfortable around other races. I don't really get upset over their opinions because they were brought up in a different society than us and probably less educated about diversity than us.


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Maybe they're staring at you because you're cute?


Not when they're scanning me and my boyfriend 360 degree like this.



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i hear ya, girl. i won't even delve into the crap i've read/heard about regarding black/asian couples.

interracial relationships aren't always the easiest, when constantly shrouded by narrow-minded stereotypes.

just remember, haters gonna hate. rise above it & be an awesome couple.

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rotisserie wrote:

i hear ya, girl. i won't even delve into the crap i've read/heard about regarding black/asian couples.

interracial relationships aren't always the easiest, when constantly shrouded by narrow-minded stereotypes.

just remember, haters gonna hate. rise above it & be an awesome couple.



Thank you! And I can also relate to you in terms of black/asian couples. Though my experience was based on brief dates with black guys, and people always presume that non-black girls are only interested in black guys for that one thing.
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Posted 6/26/13
Love is love . Negative views towards interracial couples probably come from people who fear change.
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I mean really when you think about it, interracial couples bring out the best of both worlds. A combination of great people to create and even greater love

Whom in their right minds would hate on that?
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Living in a southern state I got a lot of flack from the old timers and backwoods inbreeds but does it matter? naw And for me its not like I would date any Asian girl, I just happened to find someone who I really liked and vise versa. Now her father very traditional man, doesnt care for me much but thats a different story.Where I live its looked down upon to date outside side your race in general (black,mexican,indian,asian)
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People who judge you are just ignorant. I see more of a problem with a white and black couple. Not that I have an issue but just saying that would turn heads. An asain and white guy not really that much of a head turner. They are probably just envious of you lol.
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sosarx wrote:

I mean really when you think about it, interracial couples bring out the best of both worlds. A combination of great people to create and even greater love

Whom in their right minds would hate on that?


The Bible.
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Posted 6/29/13

tinyd0t wrote:


rotisserie wrote:

i hear ya, girl. i won't even delve into the crap i've read/heard about regarding black/asian couples.

interracial relationships aren't always the easiest, when constantly shrouded by narrow-minded stereotypes.

just remember, haters gonna hate. rise above it & be an awesome couple.



Thank you! And I can also relate to you in terms of black/asian couples. Though my experience was based on brief dates with black guys, and people always presume that non-black girls are only interested in black guys for that one thing.


hooray for common ground

yea, it's super obnoxious.. as if that's the sole reason why we'd be together. ah well.. live, laugh, love.

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