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Post Reply Negative views on Asian girl/white guy couples?
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Posted 6/30/13
In Australia I've really only seen really young Asian women with really old wrinkly white men so you know everyone's going to say "yep he bought an Asian wife." but if I see a Asian / White couple around the same age I never question it , I have a Filipino friend who gets angry about the same thing , she is the same age as her white partner but people still joke that he bought her. While she tells me that yes being with a white man puts you in a high class and she knows many other Filipino women do it for money and class she didn't and she hates being judged for it.
Posted 6/30/13
You don't want to know what I think about this. LOL.
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TheBoundWoman wrote:

In Australia I've really only seen really young Asian women with really old wrinkly white men so you know everyone's going to say "yep he bought an Asian wife." but if I see a Asian / White couple around the same age I never question it , I have a Filipino friend who gets angry about the same thing , she is the same age as her white partner but people still joke that he bought her. While she tells me that yes being with a white man puts you in a high class and she knows many other Filipino women do it for money and class she didn't and she hates being judged for it.


It's kinda funny that in South-East Asia such as the Philippines and Thailand, being with a white man make them higher class. But amongs East Asians, especially to Chinese people, any girl marrying outside her own race are considered out-casts. For example, Chinese people would presume that I'm only with a white guy because I'm a left-over Chinese girl that no Chinese guys would date.

I don't know which one of us are more racist...
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Posted 6/30/13
I used to walk proudly around with my asian ex girlfriend. People should be jealous, if anything.
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Why would anybody want to be jealous? From my experience white guys tend to have bad taste when it comes to Asians. They tend to pick out the ugly ones, most of the time.
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Posted 6/30/13 , edited 6/30/13
I'm gonna sound like a jack-ass here but,

Freedom of speech, sadly this includes freedom to hate through words. You'll just have to level up your tolerance of these people, and use logic to show them why their view is stupid. And if you have the best points people who don't have an opinion will take your side.

As long as they aren't trying to pass laws to prevent you from marrying your white husband, I think you can handle some albeit "dumb" criticism, but criticism none the less, especially if it doesn't apply to you.

It also depends on where you live, as racism tends to be rapant in areas where it has a history of racism.


Just be glad you aren't in the same boat as homosexuals where right wing republicans are constantly pushing their definition of marriage onto homosexuals. making it legal for them to marry, isn't going to change a churches definition of marriage.

If you study sociology words only having meaning because we apply a meaning to them.

American flag in america is a symbol of freedom, American flag in pakistan is a symbol of oppression/murder.

much like the church can man up and have their definition of marriage, and let the government give gay couples the same advantages that straight couples get. w/o having to reintroduce a million laws with the word marriage in them.





Chinese people would presume that I'm only with a white guy because I'm a left-over Chinese girl that no Chinese guys would date.


you have to understand their culture to understand their thinking. I'm not defending their culture but the reason they are like that is because men can carry on the names of their family and they hold that in high regard for w/e reason. And since each family can only have 1 child, they often choose male over female. This causes a shortage of females in their population, thus the shaming if girls don't get married, or marry outside of china. It's a bunch of males being upset cuz it's "hard enough to get in a relationship" when the ratio is bad for men to find a partner.
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Posted 6/30/13 , edited 6/30/13
Its a misconception, and you have to remember that all generalizations are false, you are just focusing your magnifying glass on this bad aspect.

A- my asian gf has car, and i am using it.
B- my gf refused to get european passport although she could.
C- She has a bachelor degree me not, lol

So generalization is wrong.

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Posted 6/30/13 , edited 6/30/13

Rugidarol wrote:

Why would anybody want to be jealous? From my experience white guys tend to have bad taste when it comes to Asians. They tend to pick out the ugly ones, most of the time.


I didn't know ugly Asian girls existed.
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Posted 6/30/13
I think this is a problem with most couples of mixed nationalities. Don't take it too personally.
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Posted 6/30/13
Ignore the racists. If you know you love him, then nothing is wrong.
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29 / M / Kentucky
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Posted 6/30/13
To all the people with said negative views.

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Posted 6/30/13 , edited 6/30/13
I won't believe your boyfriend is not a pedo unless this "ass" you speak of is shown to me.
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38 / M / Vancouver
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Posted 6/30/13
Where I live it's very common but you do here the "if the white guy is with an Asian girl then he must be gay." occasionally.
I'm not sure where that came from.
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White/Asian couples are everywhere where I live (Southern California) and it's pretty much completely accepted - most likely due to the large Asian population in SoCal. My first GF was Korean and nobody at school found our dating strange, as far as I know, except her parents who didn't like the fact that I'm White. I think of all the types of interracial couples, White/Asian couples have the least stereotypes.
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Posted 6/30/13
I know the feeling. I use to have to fight everyday in school because i dated nothing but Mexican girls and the Mexican guys didn't like that. I didn't let it get me down tho. fuck them and there mothers
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