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Posted 7/21/13
I'll know when I meet them.
Posted 7/22/13
Someone cold, sarcastic and straightforward, but actually cares. Tsundere? xD
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Posted 7/22/13
Someone who has the same interest as me and does not nag to much.

Has to love anime that's a must
Posted 7/22/13 , edited 7/24/13

vrc6868 wrote:

I'll know when I meet them.


Edit. Never mind I think I prefer this answer.
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I think I found her already. We've been friends for over 10 years and I only started developing feelings for her about 2-3 months ago. I don't know why I started liking her now. She's not the hottest girl around, but she's perfect in my books. She's everything I'm looking for in a girl: humble, really talented, a christian just like me and she plays sports. Since we've been friends for a long time, I don't want to suddenly tell her that I have feelings for her, that'll make everything go to hell. I'm taking the slow approach and really get involved in her life. Slow and steady wins the race :] I have never dated a girl because I want to look for that one girl and I think she's the one. I know it's important to not get my hopes too high and expect the unexpected. We've been talking a lot more and we have good chemistry. I've liked other girls in the past, but not like this one. For some reason, she's different.

Some of you might be thinking, "Haaaaa, gaaaaaay," but I'm just speaking my mind
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Posted 7/24/13
She must be Japanese, I have no interest any anybody else romantically, sorry if that makes me sound up myself.
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Posted 7/24/13

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I think I found her already. We've been friends for over 10 years and I only started developing feelings for her about 2-3 months ago. I don't know why I started liking her now. She's not the hottest girl around, but she's perfect in my books. She's everything I'm looking for in a girl: humble, really talented, a christian just like me and she plays sports. Since we've been friends for a long time, I don't want to suddenly tell her that I have feelings for her, that'll make everything go to hell. I'm taking the slow approach and really get involved in her life. Slow and steady wins the race :] I have never dated a girl because I want to look for that one girl and I think she's the one. I know it's important to not get my hopes too high and expect the unexpected. We've been talking a lot more and we have good chemistry. I've liked other girls in the past, but not like this one. For some reason, she's different.

Some of you might be thinking, "Haaaaa, gaaaaaay," but I'm just speaking my mind


Dude that's awesome, I'm like you. I've only really dated one girl, but now I'm looking for that one girl too. I'm not too worried about it, I just go with the flow but I'm keeping my eyes open. She doesn't have to be the hottest girl in the world, as long as she is in your eyes, right? Good luck dude!
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Posted 7/24/13 , edited 7/24/13
I think I'm open to surprises so I'm not going to list this unrealistic ideal person who probably doesn't exist. That said, I don't think I will ever find a perfect partner but I'll definitely find people who are warm or perceptive or witty whatever enough to overlook their flaws. But if we want to talk about personal preferences for looks, that's another matter. (short curly or medium bob haired chicks are super cute)
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Posted 7/24/13

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DudeItsMark wrote:

I think I found her already. We've been friends for over 10 years and I only started developing feelings for her about 2-3 months ago. I don't know why I started liking her now. She's not the hottest girl around, but she's perfect in my books. She's everything I'm looking for in a girl: humble, really talented, a christian just like me and she plays sports. Since we've been friends for a long time, I don't want to suddenly tell her that I have feelings for her, that'll make everything go to hell. I'm taking the slow approach and really get involved in her life. Slow and steady wins the race :] I have never dated a girl because I want to look for that one girl and I think she's the one. I know it's important to not get my hopes too high and expect the unexpected. We've been talking a lot more and we have good chemistry. I've liked other girls in the past, but not like this one. For some reason, she's different.

Some of you might be thinking, "Haaaaa, gaaaaaay," but I'm just speaking my mind


Dude that's awesome, I'm like you. I've only really dated one girl, but now I'm looking for that one girl too. I'm not too worried about it, I just go with the flow but I'm keeping my eyes open. She doesn't have to be the hottest girl in the world, as long as she is in your eyes, right? Good luck dude!


Thanks man. People mock the saying, "It's the inside that counts," but it's actually true. When I was younger, I used to have high standards: she has to be blonde, blue eyes, big pair of kahunas, etc. But I grew up, opened my eyes and there she was I wish you the best of luck also.
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21 / M / Texas
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Posted 7/24/13

DudeItsMark wrote:


Wigglee wrote:


DudeItsMark wrote:

I think I found her already. We've been friends for over 10 years and I only started developing feelings for her about 2-3 months ago. I don't know why I started liking her now. She's not the hottest girl around, but she's perfect in my books. She's everything I'm looking for in a girl: humble, really talented, a christian just like me and she plays sports. Since we've been friends for a long time, I don't want to suddenly tell her that I have feelings for her, that'll make everything go to hell. I'm taking the slow approach and really get involved in her life. Slow and steady wins the race :] I have never dated a girl because I want to look for that one girl and I think she's the one. I know it's important to not get my hopes too high and expect the unexpected. We've been talking a lot more and we have good chemistry. I've liked other girls in the past, but not like this one. For some reason, she's different.

Some of you might be thinking, "Haaaaa, gaaaaaay," but I'm just speaking my mind


Dude that's awesome, I'm like you. I've only really dated one girl, but now I'm looking for that one girl too. I'm not too worried about it, I just go with the flow but I'm keeping my eyes open. She doesn't have to be the hottest girl in the world, as long as she is in your eyes, right? Good luck dude!


Thanks man. People mock the saying, "It's the inside that counts," but it's actually true. When I was younger, I used to have high standards: she has to be blonde, blue eyes, big pair of kahunas, etc. But I grew up, opened my eyes and there she was I wish you the best of luck also.


I totally agree, to be honest I think we all look for that kinda stuff, I know I used to, and I'm still attracted to girls like that. But the point isn't to find someone who connects with you on just the looks level, she's also gotta connect on personality, interests and stuff like that and that's what should make someone beautiful, not just their looks. I think I realized that when I was surfing through my News Feed on the book of faces and saw some average looking girls with glasses and thought to myself, "Holy s***, I might end up marrying someone like that." The Beatles were telling the truth when they sang "Love is all You Need" hahaha. I know my first post seemed like I'm still there but I don't think I am, I was just curious as to what other people thought.
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Posted 7/26/13
about my height/age, blond or red hair, blue or green eyes, mature, intelligent, creative/artistic, into anime, healthy/healthy lifestyle, outgoing, but not too outgoing, caring, loyal, and great personality.

But I guess in the end, as long as we both fall in love with each other, none of my standards would matter if she and I are in love.

Love, regardless is a beautiful thing.
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Posted 7/26/13
<---- Muslim and looks like this .. needs to know how to pray daily. Talks to god at least 3 times a day.
Washes hands at least 10 times a day. Neeeds to drink holy milk.
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Posted 7/26/13 , edited 7/26/13
Someone with the right personality. Also, someone to watch anime with is a bonus.



We can share a glass of wine while watching Tales of Vesperia: First Strike and eat Doritos.
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Posted 7/26/13
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Posted 7/26/13
Perfect is a really high bar.

To start with, she'd be perfectly beautiful (by definition of "perfect partner"). Beauty is subjective, yes, but that means it'd be specifically "beauty-according-to-me" that she would be literally embodying the platonic ideal of. Pale skin, probably caucasian, slender - those are the only specifics I'm sure of (that I have the vocabulary to describe - I don't know how to describe people's faces but have an idea of that). Hair colour and eye colour don't seem to matter, or at least if they do I don't know which I would prefer.

As for personality, again there's not a lot of traits where I'm certain what i want, I do know I'd want them to be nice/kind/thoughtful/some other adjective in the same conceptspace - at least regarding me specifically, I might be fine with someone who doesn't care for people other than me (basically, yanderes are okay, tsunderes are not). Also, geeky interests are unambiguously a plus, not just so that we have stuff in common - geeking out is something attractive to me even if it's over something I have no interest in. There are other preferences I have, but having a general tendency to prefer, say, shy girls, doesn't mean the ideal girl wouldn't be extroverted, and I don't have enough self-knowledge to know whether that's true or not, or enough experience to be sure about the general tendencies anyway.

Now for the really wild part: Though, once more, I'm not sure about the specifics (superhero, alien princess, mad scientist, giant robot pilot, any combination, or something I haven't thought of yet?) she should be a walking plot hook for Adventure!

I'm not sure if I'm allowed to get adventures as a package deal, but being a mad scientist or superhero or alien princess is a really interesting quality to have, and I think that interestingness is something worth wanting all by itself. But I would feel totally gypped if I start dating an alien mad scientist superhero princess and my life doesn't suddenly contain a lot more adventure than it does now.

Obviously I'm not actually pining for someone like this, mostly I'm just making a post to contrast with all of the people describing possible partners that are actually attainable that they would be happy with - that's completely not what "perfect" means! Perfection is the realm of platonic ideals and fictional characters, not real people!

But I suppose I'll give a "attainable partner that I'd be happy with" answer too: I'd like a geeky, intelligent, pretty, nice girl, preferably skinny. And I guess I'd want some intersection between her fields of geekiness and mine - PC gaming, anime and science fiction.
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