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Post Reply Is there a limit in how far you will go for someone you love?
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I'd go as far as half way, a relationship consists of two people, and both need to pull their weight. It seems meaningless if one side is doing all the work and going out of their way for the other if the other isn't going to show the same devotion.

My sage advise:

one is the loneliest number
it takes two to tango
three is a crowd
and four makes a wild night!

And this:

http://youtu.be/z6SoqMPhDXQ
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Posted 7/4/13

humnut wrote:

I'd go as far as half way, a relationship consists of two people, and both need to pull their weight. It seems meaningless if one side is doing all the work and going out of their way for the other if the other isn't going to show the same devotion.

My sage advise:

one is the loneliest number
it takes two to tango
three is a crowd
and four makes a wild night!

And this:

http://youtu.be/z6SoqMPhDXQ


You have a good point here. However, what if you fall for someone who doesn't even think about being with you? I mean, in this case doing only half the work isn't enough...
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well all i got say is i moved out of state to be closer to someone i loved but she cheated on me so if ur willing to go far enough for someone just be prepared for the consequences cause things dont always work but sometimes they do i guess its just up to you to decide what u want n r willing to do thats part of growing up u gotta experience it for urself n learn from ur mistakes
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There is so many levels of love there is the good and true and then there is the obsessive and bad usually there are signs to determine difference but the saying love is blind is a saying for a reason. As far their being a limit to as far I will go for someone, depends on that someone for the line between being a fool or having a realistic shot for something that is promising can be a thin one.Personally I know there is going to be points in my life where I play the fool for me why not it be over the hope of finding my one true love....
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I'm willing to do anything that does not involve
potentially ruining my life, making myself look
insane/stupid or needing to change my
personality or appearance.
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It depends on the person each person expresses and does things differently, and each person has different limits.

I firmly believe it's important to do as much as you can that's in your power to do within reason if you love someone.

A person also has to learn when to draw the line, a relationship takes two, one cannot support it alone. It can push a person to the brink of insanity if they are being abused, or abandoned by their partner. I've seen some severe cases were one person tried to make their relationship work for extended periods of time and the other did not care to do so.
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Posted 7/7/13
halfway is fine
but i dont know anymore
i told myself i would never change for love or have a blurry vision in my decision making thanks to love
but once i fell in love and it became mutual
ive been doing anything i can for it
ive changed, alot, because it needed to happen
ive dumped friends over it
or my family
or my school sometimes
i keep priorities but love is always at the top
it gets to a point where you want to change to make yourself a better person that will ultimately make him happier
for example, im get angry and jelly easily but im changing that, which includes changing a bunch of other ways of thinking and behaviours, to stress him a bit less
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This topic needs a more specific direction...
"How far will you go"... to do what for the person you love?... to be with them, to change for them, to protect them, to let them know how you feel?
Also, who is this "person?" ...mother, father, brother, sister, boyfriend/girlfriend, long time friend, wife/husband?

My personal 2 cents:

"Love knows no boundaries"

One of the many definitions of the quote: "(true) love does not accept limitations, is limitless, can overcome the odds."

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I will not do anything illegal
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If I reeeeeally love her, I might even get up off my ass and do something.

I am not a passionate man.
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Posted 7/7/13
Well, I've agreed to go to Japan to meet a gal I care for while she's still stationed there... I suppose that's a pretty far way to go.
Posted 7/7/13
I'm only sincere if there is a valid reason for me to be so. What's not gonna work is me doing something irrational.
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Posted 7/7/13
Depends how hot they are.
Posted 7/7/13 , edited 7/7/13
Depends on how good of a woman she is...I don't waste my love on women who are not worth it.
For a Good woman I would do almost anything for her.
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hmmm...YES!
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