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Posted 7/3/13

-ADrunkenHusky wrote:

Do you still have respect for anyone that cheats in a relationship? If so why?


Absolutely not!!, The one cheated against has been betrayed and their trust has been broken, besides that the one cheating can no longer be trusted to tell the truth, his repretation has been damaged.
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Posted 7/4/13 , edited 7/4/13

eegah87 wrote:


norlins wrote:


eegah87 wrote:

If they where cheating on me I may regain respect for them after much time has passed and they have made serious efforts to change their character. But any romantic relationship between us would be over forever because I would never be able to completely trust them again.


At Least you don’t get hurt that way, too bad if he was the real deal
Seems like waste to me


If he was the real deal he wouldn't be cheating in the first place. I have high standards in my relationships but that is only because I have high standards for myself, and I don't see any reason to apologies for or to compromise them.

I don't mean to come of as an unforgiving heartless person it's just that my definition of love is really different then most peoples, and I don't give my heart over easily. So what I was really saying before is while they could regain my respect as a human being; I could never love them again because I would never be able to fully trust them after such an act of betrayal. I may be able to completely forgive them one day but it would take a long, long time and by them I (and probably them as well) will have most likely moved on and found someone better.


You are right.. this last bit made me really sad somehow lol cheating sucks
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Posted 7/4/13

-ADrunkenHusky wrote:

Do you still have respect for anyone that cheats in a relationship? If so why?


Not really, but if my future gf would be cheating then later telling me, regretting it, I would get mad as hell, but since I'd probably
still love her I wouldn't/couldn't let her go. :/
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to me, depends on the relationship that has been built... some actively encourage their partners to see multiple people which can be considered "cheating"... the true question is morality and faithfulness to one's partner.

Would i forgive them if they weren't faithful? maybe... there is no way to determine one's true actions until the day it occurs, but I'd like to think I'd at least hear their side of the story before bringing down judgement upon them, no matter how painful it is to listen to.

to error is human... but to be unwilling to listen to reason, whether it is "just" reasoning or "unjust" reasoning is the far worse offense in my eyes.
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eh, it's all circumstantial.

some cases involve unforgivable reasons, whereas for others, you're deemed cheating the moment ya step out the door lol.
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I don't think cheating it's forgivable.
If that people who cheat on you really loved you, he/she would never do that.
Just saying what I think...
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there are a few rules about cheating though. if you dont really remember it, it didnt really happen. if it happened at a con, it didnt really happen. its not cheating if you were on tour/ in vegas.
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Wrong.
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no one likes cheaters and you should never become one,we all remember the school days ending (BEST ENDING EVER)
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my ex cheated on me or used me didnt talk to her for a while but she kept begging me to stay friends n i still have feelings for her so i gave in but i dont respect her as i did before or trust much anymore but shes cool to hang out with i guess
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Once a cheater always a cheater. If you forgive a cheater, they will do it again knowing you will forgive them. Just drop them. They will learn eventually that even though it's not really something this world turns a blind eye to, honor and pride still exist.
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Posted 7/4/13 , edited 7/4/13
I do to a certain extent, however it is greatly diminished from what it used to be.

I've forgiven both my dad and my former girlfriend now, as far as things go with my dad my respect for him in that area is diminished.

The same with my former girlfriend I lost it when I found out the times she asked for space, and I trusted her the first time and gave it to her and her friend she was playing with at the time on FFXIV almost a complete month together, only to find out some months later what was taking place behind my back v_v
Posted 7/4/13 , edited 7/4/13
Your eyes are cheating right now on your girlfriend.
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